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 Beautiful_soul
Joined: 12/30/2003
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!Page 4 of 24    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24)
There's way to many pages so I just hit reply and didn't see anyone's responses to this message but I just wanted to say a few things.
There are other options. With new technologies and products out on the market.The girl could always go see their doctor and get a female condom for themselves.Then you don't have to worry about it and the guy no longer complains cause of such problems they have with condoms and your protected.
Plus, why does it have to be the guys responsiblity to bring the condoms. Both parties should always carry a condom with them. Male or female. If ppl think your a slut for carrying a condom.At least your being smart and being save. Just my Opion.opinion.
 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
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Posted: 6/4/2006 1:32:26 AM
^^^You have to be kidding ... no I did not just read that reply!

A female condom does not necessarily protect you from known sexually transmitted diseases ... and sometimes not from pregnancy. They are quite tricky to use and if not maintained properly (unfortunately most are not) they lose their value in a very short time. That makes them extremely expensive and most are not covered by insurance not to mention that a good many women in the world do not have insurance!

I know you meant well ... but this is not as practical a solution to avoiding disease and pregnancy as just having your guy wear his protection. You help him remove it and dispose of it properly and you are doing yourself a big favor.

I make a ritual of it ... I help him remove it, I clean him up really nice, I make him comfortable and I have no problem if he just wants to roll over and go to sleep ... cuddle, or whatever. But first things first ... first he uses the condom, then I help him dispose of it appropriately, and clean him up, then everyone is happy, happy, happy!

Hey ... what can I say ... some (most) nurses have this thing about cleanliness ... and that includes my body as well as yours!

The paper from the HIV clinic and your handy dandy condom is the only "ticket to ride" accepted at my house!





 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 6/4/2006 2:19:18 AM

...your handy dandy condom is the only "ticket to ride" accepted at my house!

...on your part.
On my part - I would be looking after smooth ~ charging ~ heaven reaching ..."ride". Just make sure that "ticket" won't get lost in our blasting "ride"
 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
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Posted: 6/4/2006 10:32:46 AM
^^^^ I keep "unexpired" condoms at my house ... they are "regular" size. I think a lot of women do not keep condoms because many gentleman have preferences about the brand and size they want to use. I work at a clinic where we pass out packages of condoms with instructions on how to use them to the sexually active teens and young adults who come through there.

While packaging them up, a fellow nurse I was working with and I were talking about just that issue ... we give condoms to the girls as well as the guys. She made a joke about only having one size available. I said, "Hey ... if it 'strangles' a penis here or there ... too bad. At least if they use these things we won't be screening so many of the girls down the road for a pregnancy test or the 'morning after' pill!"

We have a good time with it ... sometimes we have to sneak the condoms to the kids on the way out the door ... as the parents usually walk out ahead of them. We do what we can to keep these kids clean and safe and childless until they're ready for a family!

It takes up precious clinic time to be bringing the kids back in for their follow-up treatments once they have contracted an STD. Also, no matter how we feel about it, we never enjoy filling out the referral papers and making the arrangements for abortion services which is also part of our job if that's what the girl or the parents want!

BE SAFE ... USE CONDOMS!
 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
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Posted: 6/5/2006 10:21:20 PM
^^^ He's absolutely right ...
So please dont put the blame on us...your in it too....
As I said in a previous post ... I keep unexpired condoms on hand ... haven't had any occasions to use them in the past few years though.

Hmmmmm ... now that I think about it, I better go check those expiration dates! Huh ... now where the Hell did I have those things packed?
 urbigteddy
Joined: 4/16/2006
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Posted: 6/5/2006 11:16:21 PM
well i agree with the whole condom thing. But I would like to know what the hell is wrong with all the girls on her always thinkin all the guys are the same. I would never think about havin sex with a girl with out one. For one you dont know this girl and for too im not ready to be a daddy lol and would want a women that is not ready to have one as well. So if your in this position just dont give it up. If the guy cant respect your decision then he doesnt respect you. If you keep meetin guys that are the same then you need to look at who you are dating and maybe change that to see the difference in guys. But in all i strongly agree with the statement
 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
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Posted: 6/6/2006 1:26:55 AM
@nightlynikita ...
after all if i get into a relationshi with someone and they wanna go bare back and be loyal then there heading to the doc for proof .
Oh yes ... my fellow nurses laughed out loud (but totally agreed) when I said that if a guy gets serious about me and wants to go bare back ... he's gotta go to the doc first. I told them, "That paper in his hot little hand is his ticket to ride!"

 itsmeinco
Joined: 5/18/2006
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Posted: 6/24/2006 4:47:49 AM
Happens over and over????

You're quite the little slut puppy, aren't you?????
 yes2fun
Joined: 6/13/2005
Msg: 230
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Posted: 6/24/2006 6:37:49 AM
Okay,
I met a young lady at a bar on a wednesday and we agreed to to to the beach for the weekend... leave saturday and come back sunday... I did not expect to need condoms.

Saturday night in the condo, things go better than expected until we had to stop due to my not having any condoms.. The discussion was me saying "... I just did not expect to go this far this fast" and her arguing "... who goes to the beach for the weekend not expecting to get laid" to my responding "...then you should have brought some" we left the beach early Sunday morning, got some condoms and caught up for lost time at her place. Moral of the story, everyone without them is too blame, all should carry some with them, and if you don't, you can always, go get some and get at it later.
 DeagleNINja
Joined: 4/25/2006
Msg: 231
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Posted: 6/24/2006 8:05:21 AM
Personally I only wear condoms when Im with a risky person....
and I dont sleep with risky people so I dont often wear condoms.
Sue me.
 DeagleNINja
Joined: 4/25/2006
Msg: 234
What is it with
Posted: 6/24/2006 4:38:11 PM

So who is a "Risky Person"?


For lack of a better definition.....a slut.
 4ever_evolving
Joined: 11/18/2007
Msg: 241
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Posted: 11/22/2007 1:49:07 PM
I THINK IT SHOULD BE LEFT UP TO THE TWO INDIVIDUALS TO DECIDE WHATS COMFORTABLE FOR THEM. I MEAN I'D BE A HYPOCRITE TO SAY I'VE NEVER HAD SEX RAW DAWG, BUT I KNOW ITS RISKY BEHAVIOR AND CAN'T SEE ME JUMPING OUT THERE DOING THAT AT THIS DAY AND AGE UNLESS THIS WAS SOMEONE I WAS SEEING EXCLUSIVELY AND I WAS ON BIRTH CONTROL, BUT THATS ME.

IN RESPONSE TO YOUR COMMENT ABOUT BEING A MONTH, YOU CAN BE MARRIED TO A MOFO TEN YEARS AND NOT TRULY "KNOW" THEM, JUST SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT
 dave1234
Joined: 11/7/2004
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What is it with
Posted: 11/22/2007 1:56:04 PM
It's like holding hands with gloves on. Kissing someone through a veil. Dining with plastic cutlery.


(Msg 250) If you are willing to do the unprotected sex, then so is she, and the guy before her, and the girl before him and so on and so on.


If one uses protection because they do not know and/or trust the other person they probably had sex with the last guy they didn't know and the last girl they didn't know and so and so on because, why not? It seems the emphasis is on having sex as opposed to with whom one is having sex.

Having said that I also advocate condom use.
 magnusfl
Joined: 12/5/2007
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Posted: 12/19/2007 7:53:06 PM
I never had that problem as I always used comdoms till i got fixed so no kids and i always gotten to know women before I have slept with them so no sexual dieases

PS vaginal warts in english is Herpies and uncurable but managable but sadly always transferable
 crayonzz
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 250
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Posted: 12/19/2007 9:03:53 PM
OK ladies

Lets try a little gender revresing.

Youve had your tubes tied so there's no risk of pregancy.

You wnt to go bareback and he says, "not unless youve been completely celibate since your last AIDs test".

What's your response to that one?
 goodkissa
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 257
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Posted: 1/3/2008 8:56:51 AM
Even a recent clean HIV test does not mean that the person is 100% HIV free. My understanding is that one has to take the test, stay monogamous while still using protection then take the test again a few months later. This is because HIV tests can not detect the presence of the virus if it was acquired within the last couple of months. So it's condoms condoms condoms till well into a monogamous relationship.
God i miss the seventies.
 dave1234
Joined: 11/7/2004
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Posted: 1/3/2008 9:50:13 AM

(Msg 268) God i miss the seventies.


Those were what could be referred to as, "The good old days" because they truly were.
 Jack without Jill
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 260
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Posted: 1/3/2008 10:06:48 AM
Here is my opinion, Guys you do not know where she has been, and if she gives you sex on the first night--Get your head out of the cloud, she gives it to everyone else also protect yourself USE CONDOMS!!.
 greathaba
Joined: 9/21/2007
Msg: 262
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Posted: 1/3/2008 11:20:22 AM
That way if your not into condem's(One of my girl's was aleject to laytex's) so we just went and had a test done. If they won't do the test, then they have something or they don't like you.
 Ladivacrj
Joined: 4/4/2007
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Posted: 1/4/2008 7:56:33 AM
Didn't read all of the posts but, I have my own. It may sound selfish, but I have one I like that are for women.

Sometimes you have to take responsibility for yourself, experiment with a few ladies, you may find that you like one better than the other, and not want him to use the one he likes.
 Sauder
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 272
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Posted: 1/10/2008 12:24:24 AM
I don't know *who* you are talking *about*..... my rules are simple....

1 drink and no driving for at least 4 hours. More than 1 drink, no driving that night.

2 No Jimmy, no glove, no condom = NO LOVE from me.

Perhaps you should change the *type* of *male* you go for and find a good, ole *man*, like John Wayne, only younger and alive. :D

Lots of luck!
 Sauder
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 273
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Posted: 1/10/2008 12:26:51 AM
Have you ever seen sausage stuffed and well.... meat made into sausage?

If you don't want to, then you may want to find at least a *large* size to carry to.

On the down side, You will have to stop to pick the right size wrench to go on the bolt but hey.. it's better than giving pain. :D Just a friendly suggestion.
 Zero Gravity
Joined: 9/19/2007
Msg: 274
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Posted: 1/10/2008 4:25:23 AM
Men are not generally worried about risk without condoms for a number of reasons.

1. Sex is inherently risky.
2. Condoms are notoriously unreliable:
They break, especially after about 20 minutes of vigorous use. They are not a secure barrier even if they do not break.
3. They smell and feel terrible. Thankfully we don't have to taste them.
With condoms the woman recedes during the intimacy. Theres got to be as much sensation in ****ing a bottle of motor oil.
4. Non drug using, purely heterosexual men are not at significant risk for contracting STD's from a woman using their standard equipment.
Put simply, the risk for healthy men engaged in heterosexual activity is a fraction of what it would be for a homosexual man engaged with another homosexual man. The risk a diseased woman poses to a healthy hetero man is minimal in select activities.
5. If one wants to engage in 70's style sex with one nighters and no history evaluation you might want to consider condoms as a unreliable protection option.
It's much safer to get to know your partner, get a current blood test and then **** condomless like bunnies. Women trying to rely upon the security of condoms are living in another era, deluding themselves and obtaining little to no protection if the man they **** that night has a bisexual history.
 Swann85
Joined: 12/3/2007
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Posted: 1/10/2008 9:03:24 AM
I think in my entire life I have gotten of only twice with a condom on, but still I use them every time till well into a relationship at least 6 months, now the question I really wanted to ask is, I have gotten tested many times in my life for me its like a regular check up and so far im all clean but never once have I gotten a paper saying I was clean they just give me a card and they say if something is wrong they will call and ill have to use the number on the card to get the results from them when they do. do you have to ask special or something???
 racheljay
Joined: 12/5/2007
Msg: 280
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Posted: 1/10/2008 1:21:26 PM
Well it's definately a double standard. I hear about women who would rather NOT have sex with a condom for the different sensations alone, so it's not just men. Everyone needs to just take responsibility for their own safety. If they won't, you should.
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