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 vaxplant
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 284
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!Page 5 of 24    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24)

do married couples wear condoms?

If she can't take birth control medications for one reason or another... yes!

Otherwise, that's how babies are made (especially when it's not a good time for them to be made).
 Ravenstar66
Joined: 8/27/2007
Msg: 289
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 1/20/2008 9:19:38 AM
No condom



No sex

Deal with it
 Good looking/easy going
Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 293
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 1/20/2008 9:25:00 PM
I have to say that this sometimes goes both ways. A while ago I went home with a girl I was dating (2nd date) and things were getting hot and she said "don't worry you don't need to wear a condom." I already had it in my hand and I was floored. I ended up leaving...frustrated by the way...but I left...So this goes both ways. Why would you as a woman feel it's ok to have sex with me, without a condom on the 2nd date? You don't know me well enough to leave it off. Too bad...but this happens to men too!!!
 blue_eyes_blue_skies
Joined: 7/14/2008
Msg: 303
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Posted: 10/4/2008 9:10:27 AM
I have them in my car... just in case
I think most man do!!!

I don't know if anyone posted this little tidbit yet as I just happened upon this thread BUT.........

It is not safe to use condoms that have been sitting in your car!!!!! The heat breaks down the latex. Duh! Only keep condoms in a cool, dry place until you go out. Then put it in your pocket or where ever and keep them out of your wallet, again, the heat. If someone complains that they rip, it's because they have been improperly cared for, not because someone thinks they have a big johnson. Puleez, have you seen how big regular size condoms get? They may be uncomfortable on big guys but they won't rip.
 sbry5150
Joined: 11/24/2008
Msg: 306
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/12/2009 2:38:13 PM
With the female condom on the market, Women really have no excuse not to have a supply of female condoms on hand and to use them. You have complete control over whether or not you practice "safe sex". Just install the female condom before actual intercourse starts.

If a woman does not like the feel of them or the fit of the female condom-welcome to a mans world. If installing the female condom kills the moment for you-welcome to a mans world. Women now have complete control over whether or not they have "safe sex".

Sure the female condoms cost quite a bit more than a high quality male condom, but that is no excuse for a woman not to have a couple around and ready to go.

So a woman's male sex partner does not want to wear one, you can circumvent the whole debate and drama and pull out your own condoms. After the first time, you can tell the guy-next time you bring and wear a condom or there will be no more sex. If it is going to be a long term relationship, perhaps you could establish a a 50/50 arrangment-he wears the condom 50 % of the time and she wears the condom 50% of the time.

I would love to see the look on a womans face when she asks her male lover, do have a condom--there will be no sex unless you have and use a condom. Then he pulls out the box containing the female condom and says--here you go. Sure this scenario is likely to never happen, but it would be fun to see what the woman does and how she reacts.
 liftinand lovin
Joined: 1/9/2009
Msg: 307
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/12/2009 2:50:25 PM
scooter trojan does make a xxl magnum I know I buy them. also it is about making sure the woman is wet enough trust me I know I have broken some condoms and it doesn't help that I'm pierced but I still use condoms if it does break that is not my fault and I will put a new one on.
 Asphalt_Cowboy6
Joined: 1/4/2009
Msg: 309
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/12/2009 4:29:08 PM
Wow!! unprotected sex is so stupid. I wouldnt even dream of it in this day and age. I think I would have to date a woman for a long time before I would trust unprotected sex. I have been cut and cant knockem up but the risks out there are way scarier than a child. wrap it
 rcwiz
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 313
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Posted: 2/12/2009 8:50:19 PM
Here's my take on Condoms.

1. They are necessary.
2. If your alergic to latex then get the other kind they are more sensitive anyway.
3. Don't store them in your car as heat deteriates the latex and causes the lubricant to leak out. also if you have your insurance papers in the same place as the condoms and a female cop pulls you over ... awkward.

Also there are other ways to contract an STD and condoms are not the end all be all, but they are a first line of defence.

ok that's my 4 cents worth. you know inflation and all
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 315
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/12/2009 10:40:32 PM
When we got a boner we tend to think with the wrong head. After we bust a nut then our reasoning comes back and we're like "DOH!!!"

 edvis1
Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 317
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Posted: 2/13/2009 9:46:43 PM
I have no problems with condoms. I'd rather let it happen naturally thatn have to do the pull out masturbation shit anyday.
 edvis1
Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 318
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Posted: 2/13/2009 9:48:52 PM

When we got a boner we tend to think with the wrong head. After we bust a nut then our reasoning comes back and we're like "DOH!!!"


And 'busting a nut' for most guys is the typical porno star jerk off technique to end the deed.
 wildhoneygirl
Joined: 5/17/2008
Msg: 319
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 3/13/2009 11:13:21 AM
Hello there:

It is so incredibly shocking that so many people don't value their own life or anyone else's life. In the year 2005, I had priviledge to care for a woman who was dying from AIDS. She had weighed around 200lbs prior to contracting this horrible disease. After five short years of humiliation and ridicule, she died in a small nursing home at the age of 38 years young and she weighed approximately 75lbs. When I first met her, she was a walking skeleton. She had been about 5'9'' or 5'10'' but now she was a little hunched over as if she were always tired. I was told that she was once so beautiful. The only thing I saw was a wilted rose. She was dried up and I did not know that she was about to die, but I believe she knew. One day I had to take care of her. I doubled my gloves and put a smock on top of my scrubs. I had to clean her and her bed. It was a horrible thing to see. Her back and back side were covered with bed sores. She was so small it felt as if I were caring for a fragile child. I remembering asking her why had she not called anyone for help. She had a call light. She only had to lightly push a button. Her bed was completely soiled and had to be clean and clean linen placesd on the bed. Once I finished this magnanimous task, I asked her again as I lay her back in her bed, "Why didn't you put on your light for help?" and she simply responded,"Because I knew no body would come anyway." I looked in her eyes and the only thing I saw there was dispair. She was tired. She was tired of everything. A couple of weeks later, I overheard a member of the office crew call her a nasty slut as she walked by. My heart broke into a million pieces. I cried. I could not believe that anyone could be so bold and make this woman suffer anymore than she already was. This sweet soul went to visit her family for thanksgiving and when christmas came around, she refused her visit with her family. She stopped eating, was placed on hospice and 2 weeks later, a couple of days before christmas, she was gone.

This happened nearly 4 years ago. I still cry when I think about it. There are so many people who are so lucky. Each one of you playing Russian roulette is so lucky, but I can tell you that one day your luck will run out. When it does, if you have read this story and did not change your ways, you will hate yourself for not learning from someone else's mistake. Dying from AIDS is probably the worst way that I have seen so many pass away. It is a disease that kills you first and then leaves a shell of you to suffer. It is a cruel horrible disease and all it needs is for someone to be stupid enough to let it in and then it takes over you and everything about you.
 tayl0rd
Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 322
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Posted: 3/13/2009 11:51:10 AM
Yep! KIDS is a slow, painful death!
 hirpit
Joined: 2/27/2009
Msg: 325
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 3/13/2009 12:32:01 PM
I am a man and I have no problem telling a woman "Sorry I can't, I don't have condoms", I have been known to say that.

Yes the sex feels so much better without one but the down side is not worth the risk. I am 33 years old, no kids, no STDs (knock on wood). First thing my parents told me about the birds and the bees was use protection. Also as someone mentioned it is a lot more relaxing to know you are covered, gives you the piece of mind.

Back in college, I was seeing this girl for a while (6 mos) and we were not using a condom. I was going to break up with her and she told me she was pregnant and she said we couldnt break up and yada yada. Turns out, she was lying to me to keep me around (some major issues with her) but that scare was enough for me not to ever do a thing like that.

Also I did get around a lot awhile back and it would have been a lot safer for me to play Russian roulette with a loaded gun than not using a condoms.
 OjosAzules777
Joined: 1/23/2009
Msg: 326
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 3/13/2009 3:33:11 PM
I've never met ONE woman who thought I was a manwhore for having condoms.
 joedick
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 328
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 3/13/2009 4:31:02 PM
my x broke up with me cus i didnt wanna have sex without 1 im 19 i dont needa kid now and lol 2 weeks later she gets preg with some guy :)
 GerberData
Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 336
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 3/15/2009 9:45:01 AM
I don't find it necessary to carry condoms. Then again, I am unlikely to pick someone up in a bar and have sex with them. Maybe the responsibility thing should start before you ask the guy if he has one!
 Solar Angel
Joined: 12/24/2005
Msg: 339
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 3/15/2009 4:39:51 PM
well I believe in condom use...however there is a sensation loss...all things being equal I think to make sure protection for both partner and take the sensation away from the female as well....Insert plastic tube in to the vagina...and the male wears his condom...that way nobody feels nothing....lol
 lovellyman123
Joined: 1/2/2009
Msg: 342
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 4/15/2009 10:46:36 PM
Boy I know what you mean about the feeling, that's why I choose to stay out of the action. For me I 'd want to do all my test and have ready results. And you have to learn to slow down. Because when you fall in raw, it hard to pull out. especially if you get involved and had time to check things out. Better than one night stands, but this is easier said than done, so strap up and buy a pack until all . finally bareback is something that both parties need to watch each others back on. Same thing goes for pregnancy, if you both dig each other enough to do it raw then you know how to work the law. peace
 Einstein09
Joined: 7/12/2009
Msg: 344
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/15/2009 10:35:04 PM
if i wanted to have sex with something rubber, I'd get a toy. But, intercourse isn't everything to me, so if she wants the rubber, then I'd rather have fun in other ways. Can't feel anything with a rubber on, so it becomes a job instead of enjoyable.
 edster1224
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 345
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/15/2009 10:40:48 PM
Unfortuneately, men don't worry about the risks. That's why the men who die from STDs or end up paying child support previously thought it would never happen to them. I usually practiced safe sex unless I'd been with her for several months or so. Of course, with my first wife, I still practiced safe sex since we weren't ready for children. Since the marriage didn't last I guess we never were and didn't have any.

Ed
 mrd50
Joined: 6/24/2009
Msg: 346
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Posted: 7/16/2009 10:13:21 PM
I can't speak from experience because I don't have any (it's been over 9 years),
so this is only based on my beliefs, but I'd think the woman would bring up
the subject of protection some time before. And if she didn't, then I probably
would; and I only say 'probably' because as I said I haven't had any recent
experience. I respect women, for whatever reason, and I'll honor all their
wishes/decisions. Especially when they're allowing a penis to enter their body.
 Prylo
Joined: 7/13/2009
Msg: 348
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/16/2009 11:42:44 PM
Protip: Give BJ's instead.
 chrono1985
Joined: 11/20/2004
Msg: 354
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/17/2009 3:02:55 AM
I'm a weird one I guess, I really don't want to go in without a condom, I check the one in my wallet regularly to make sure the package hasn't torn (an invention to solve that would be awesome as it's hindered me more than once). The source of my responsibility to say not is sort of selfish though, I'm not really afraid of dieing to a disease or death in general, I'm afraid of dieing in anguish; most of the STDs seem to provide anguish in one form or another. There is also the thing of I don't want to wind up getting some gal pregnant if I'm not sure that we'll be able to stay together or at least friendly through the child's early life; if I become a father I want to be there to make sure the child or children have a good start in life.

I wonder if those non-condom guys would put their hand in fire without protective hand/arm gear.
 sweet_male72
Joined: 6/12/2009
Msg: 355
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 7/17/2009 2:18:52 PM
hey. I always wear condoms. I have no intention of getting anyone pregnant. and in this day and age. you never know who someone has been with. or who that person was with. and so on and so forth. so I always carry condoms if I think I will get some.
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