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 matchlight
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 512
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!Page 7 of 24    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24)
I don't think many people are about to say that a condom makes sex more fun. But so be it. A more direct solution for women who are worried about catching some horrible disease would be to choose their boyfriends a little more carefully. If a woman suspects that the guy she's with may be infected with something, I can't see how she could relax and have much fun.

And I sure wouldn't want to think the woman I was with was wondering if I were safe. The doubts and suspicions and concerns about intimacy with someone already interfere enough, without adding another source of them to the mix.
 DemonLeather
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 513
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Posted: 11/3/2010 10:36:29 AM
hmmm,.. like fukkin in a frikkin sock! roll a newspaper up, and try it,. see if you like it..
The no glove-no love thing is a joke too,.. that goes right along with: "I'll make out with you,. but you're not getting anything tonight, ok?" Do what ya want, say what ya want,.. it's all good.. As far as catching anything... MAN,.. if I don't have something by now, I have something that EATS it...I haven't caught anything yet,. not even crotch crab.. but then I'll probably be the first confirmed case of "Herpaids" Besides,.. I'm tired of having death at my shoulder,.. The reaper needs to step around front,..so I can look them in the eyes,.. I've always suspected Death a woman...if so, "lay on on me baby.. I'm ready.."
 SpecificTruths
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 514
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/3/2010 11:23:27 AM
Before I know someone very well, I insist on protection. It's not fool proof and they don't protect against every disease, but they're better than nothing and I NEVER trust a woman I'm not very familiar with that she's on birth control and actually doing it right.

Sorry, I'm not going to be one of those guys who's girl swore she was on birth control during the baby shower but got pregnant anyway.

Otherwise, they impede sexual pleasure. And for those ladies who complain, close your legs if you don't like what he's doing or what he's about; tell him to fvck off and get him out of your life. If he continues, it's called rape and it's a felony offense.
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 515
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/3/2010 11:43:55 AM
Before beating up on each other, why not try to understand the mechanics of it first. It's not that men are so stupid, but that condoms do effect them entirely different. The condom on a penis puts a bearer between his nerve endings and the friction because the condom is static or not moving on him. The opposite is true for the woman....since the condom slides against her, it produces nearly the same friction as a bare penis. It does become very difficult and sometimes impossible for a man to climax under these conditions....especially if he came out of a marriage, and adjusted to the normal friction of natural sex. Going from one to another is like day and night. It is a sad state of affairs, that some bio engineers have turned viruses loose on the world that's robbed us of even the most primal pleasures....but that's the way it is. I do believe in safe sex or none at all. It has made dating a real problem for us....but a real money maker for the medical community. It's also doing a fair job of population control. Hummmm...could there be another conspiracy going on?
 SpecificTruths
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 517
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Posted: 11/3/2010 12:03:54 PM
^^^ Right, committed relationships are another story.
You actually know the person and hopefully have complete trust in eachother. I was referring to a new relationship or some kind of fling type deal, where I always put on a rubber.

The patch sounds good. We're using the ring now, and she's happy because her skin cleared up for whatever reason. She claims she would wear it whether having sex or not...
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 519
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Posted: 11/3/2010 5:37:08 PM
Carry your own condoms and quit your b!tchin'.


And just in case it hasn't been mentioned.... I've turned down sex because there was no condom, and been treated as though I had suggested the lady was unclean or unsafe. Men are not the only ones who are willing to take chances with unprotected sex.
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 520
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/3/2010 6:13:31 PM
If you don't know the guy real well, use a concom. If you have had time to get to know and trust each other, then ditch the condom. It's not rocket science. But I do think if it's a just met you encounter, the responsibility to have one, is on the guy....Are they one size fits all? Arent some too small for bigger penises? How cheesy would it be to open my drawer and ask some guy to pick one out, out of several.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/3/2010 8:12:06 PM

But I do think if it's a just met you encounter, the responsibility to have one, is on the guy....Are they one size fits all? Arent some too small for bigger penises? How cheesy would it be to open my drawer and ask some guy to pick one out, out of several.

I agree it would save a few red faces if the man provided his own condom....
especially if the one's the woman has....is too big for the new guy!!
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 523
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Posted: 11/3/2010 10:19:59 PM
"..sorry we cant have sex as i have no condoms"
I've said it.

"why ASSUME no condoms is a good thing? Like fuk i dont know where u have been !!! sorry men but this is rather annoying especially cause it happens over n over arent u guys worried about any risks???"

So like what are you, the village bicycle?
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 524
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Posted: 11/3/2010 10:39:29 PM
Hey yall women got these big clunky purses full of junk.
There is certainly room for a few love gloves in there.
Geez.
Yall dames want to throw us guys down.
Have your way with us.
and not carry protection?

Where are we supposed to carry those things?
In our pockets where our keys will rip em open?
In our wallets where they pop out in church while tithing?
I mean think this thru.

...if yall want to mix it up with guys.
come prepared.
We'll take it from there.
:-P
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 525
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Posted: 11/4/2010 4:05:14 AM

Where are we supposed to carry those things?
In our pockets where our keys will rip em open?
In our wallets where they pop out in church while tithing?
I mean think this thru.


LMAO......nice try.
 CountIbli
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 528
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/7/2010 9:31:47 AM


I'm shocked that in this day and age that anyone would have sex without a condom, unless in a committed relationship and having been tested.


If condoms didn't completely kill the pleasure of sex then guys would have no problem wearing them.
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 529
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/7/2010 11:48:32 AM
An old, yet popular thread. The last few women I had sex with, had no interest in using condoms even after I mentioned it. So it's not just the men. However, if you can't see yourself wanting to have unprotected sex with someone, should you be having sex with them? I know that may sound naive, but that's how I make certain decisions. If you have little or no desire to do certain things with certain people, you probably should not take it past a simple small talk conversation with them.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 531
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Posted: 11/8/2010 4:49:15 AM
As My gay mate says when some one doesn't wan't to use condoms

"yeah Ow
PITY THE FOOL
THAT COMES NEAR ME UNCOVERED!"
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 533
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 5:18:44 AM

Really? I find it kind of funny that a few times when i had a condom with me when i was about to have sex (clothes are half off at this point), the girl turns to me and says "You actually brought a condom... ugh.. you mean you were expecting this?? You came all prepared for this didn't you? playerrrrr!"


Sounds like you are/were sleeping with girls, and not women.
 RushLuv
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 534
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 7:40:10 AM
Each person should bring their own freakin condoms. Issue solved.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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Posted: 11/12/2010 7:55:10 AM
no condoms? fine! walk away, that's it

or just jerk each other off,
He will probably give you a song about it not being real sex blah blah blah

but stick two fingers in his anus and massage his prostate while you have a firm muscle grip on his penis and he'll howl with delight.

for your turn...
he jerks you off, sticks two fingers in your vagiina, directly or indirectly stimulates your clitoris, massages your G spot and hopefully you'll howl with delight too.

have a kiss and You'll both be alright. simple.
 SpecificTruths
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 537
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 9:04:08 AM
I almost laughed myself silly in college once.
Brought home a gal for a one-nighter and she confessed the next morning she was "freaked out" that I had condoms in my night table drawer.
She accused me of being a slutty whore the next day. I just laughed at that one; she would have been perfectly content for me to dive right in bareback, but because I actually give a rip about not getting someone pregnant, I'm a "slutty whore."

As Butthead said in that hallowed animated cartoon series: "Huh huh, some people are dumb."
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 538
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Posted: 11/12/2010 9:16:19 AM
^^^^I have never ever understood this mentality. I might joke about it, but even at 15 I was thinking about sex and I knew even then that I would be using a condom and was even prepared to buy it myself.
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 539
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Posted: 11/12/2010 12:20:59 PM
I've also discovered that condoms with some people create a false sense of security. What I mean, more than once after I produced a condom before sex, the woman seemed to have the idea that just because I wanted to practice safe sex, that I do so often and therefore I'm likely to be std free. And then will sometimes hint at not bothering to use a condom for that matter. I've also heard of men having that attitude as well.
 CountIbli
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 541
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Posted: 11/27/2010 3:57:04 PM
Some women object to condoms because they're running a scam. They want to get pregnant so that they can get welfare, medicaid, food stamps, subsidized housing, tax credits, and child support. As soon as the baby's out of the womb the mother is filing for protective orders against the father, even though he didn't do anything wrong. Sounds crazy (and in a way is crazy) but it happened to a friend of mine and almost happened to me.
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 542
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Posted: 11/28/2010 7:58:42 AM

Most STI's can be treated, except for HIV.


You may want to do a wee bit of research there buddy. Your whole post suggests the need for that. People with STI are pretty obvious? Ever spent any time with an HIV positive person or someone with herpes?

I do agree with your point about risk and the game we play being alive, but if the resources are there to help you, why not use them?
 Email Tom Now
Joined: 9/17/2010
Msg: 543
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Posted: 12/3/2010 9:31:17 PM
the OP asks:
sorry men but this is rather annoying especially cause it happens over n over arent u guys worried about any risks???


i reply:

i don't care if i do die

just so i make the juice fly

 JP1111
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 544
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Posted: 12/3/2010 9:41:04 PM
Apparently based on your experience, there are none but in reality, men should be very aware. So why aren't they you ask, because some men like taking the chance. If it helps you, tell them you've had a STF in the past!
 Email Tom Now
Joined: 9/17/2010
Msg: 545
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Posted: 12/29/2010 5:36:55 PM
i'm one of those men who feel ABSOLUTELY NOTHING with a condom on.

all i feel is my hips moving forward and backward. i might as well be reading a book or watching tv when i have one on.

zero, zip, nada.
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