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 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!Page 7 of 24    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24)
^^^You have to be kidding ... no I did not just read that reply!

A female condom does not necessarily protect you from known sexually transmitted diseases ... and sometimes not from pregnancy. They are quite tricky to use and if not maintained properly (unfortunately most are not) they lose their value in a very short time. That makes them extremely expensive and most are not covered by insurance not to mention that a good many women in the world do not have insurance!

I know you meant well ... but this is not as practical a solution to avoiding disease and pregnancy as just having your guy wear his protection. You help him remove it and dispose of it properly and you are doing yourself a big favor.

I make a ritual of it ... I help him remove it, I clean him up really nice, I make him comfortable and I have no problem if he just wants to roll over and go to sleep ... cuddle, or whatever. But first things first ... first he uses the condom, then I help him dispose of it appropriately, and clean him up, then everyone is happy, happy, happy!

Hey ... what can I say ... some (most) nurses have this thing about cleanliness ... and that includes my body as well as yours!

The paper from the HIV clinic and your handy dandy condom is the only "ticket to ride" accepted at my house!





 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 213
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Posted: 6/4/2006 2:19:18 AM

...your handy dandy condom is the only "ticket to ride" accepted at my house!

...on your part.
On my part - I would be looking after smooth ~ charging ~ heaven reaching ..."ride". Just make sure that "ticket" won't get lost in our blasting "ride"
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 214
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Posted: 6/4/2006 6:55:24 AM
Women need to step up and make sure they are protected...CARRY CONDOMS WOMEN! So you don't have any excuses....no exceptions.
 Java378
Joined: 4/26/2005
Msg: 215
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Posted: 6/4/2006 7:55:13 AM
/\/\/\ Yeah, I did just say that.
 MikeTheWriter
Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 216
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Posted: 6/4/2006 8:52:21 AM
Sometimes people think with the wrong head. Sorry but the thought of dying a miserable and painful death isn't worth sex with anyone! And AIDS aside, who the hell wants an STD? Is it worth it to wake up with sores on your genitals and there is no cure for it? Nope. I've lived a disease free life and want to keep it that way. And what about getting someone pregnant? I knew a woman a while ago who told me that she was allergic to latex but assured me that she was clean and not ovulating. This same woman had 3 kids by 3 different men and was living off of the child support from the 3 suckers who had no self control. I respectfully declined and she wasn't happy at all. A little bit of protection doesn't require a lot of effort.
 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
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Posted: 6/4/2006 10:32:46 AM
^^^^ I keep "unexpired" condoms at my house ... they are "regular" size. I think a lot of women do not keep condoms because many gentleman have preferences about the brand and size they want to use. I work at a clinic where we pass out packages of condoms with instructions on how to use them to the sexually active teens and young adults who come through there.

While packaging them up, a fellow nurse I was working with and I were talking about just that issue ... we give condoms to the girls as well as the guys. She made a joke about only having one size available. I said, "Hey ... if it 'strangles' a penis here or there ... too bad. At least if they use these things we won't be screening so many of the girls down the road for a pregnancy test or the 'morning after' pill!"

We have a good time with it ... sometimes we have to sneak the condoms to the kids on the way out the door ... as the parents usually walk out ahead of them. We do what we can to keep these kids clean and safe and childless until they're ready for a family!

It takes up precious clinic time to be bringing the kids back in for their follow-up treatments once they have contracted an STD. Also, no matter how we feel about it, we never enjoy filling out the referral papers and making the arrangements for abortion services which is also part of our job if that's what the girl or the parents want!

BE SAFE ... USE CONDOMS!
 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
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Posted: 6/5/2006 10:21:20 PM
^^^ He's absolutely right ...
So please dont put the blame on us...your in it too....
As I said in a previous post ... I keep unexpired condoms on hand ... haven't had any occasions to use them in the past few years though.

Hmmmmm ... now that I think about it, I better go check those expiration dates! Huh ... now where the Hell did I have those things packed?
 nightlynikita
Joined: 5/22/2006
Msg: 221
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Posted: 6/5/2006 11:12:45 PM
i totally agree, i keep unexpired condoms on hand too. it doesn't mean i am having sex with numerous guys or anything just means i am taking some personal responsibility for my own health and well being. after all if i get into a relationshi with someone and they wanna go bare back and be loyal then there heading to the doc for proof .
 urbigteddy
Joined: 4/16/2006
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Posted: 6/5/2006 11:16:21 PM
well i agree with the whole condom thing. But I would like to know what the hell is wrong with all the girls on her always thinkin all the guys are the same. I would never think about havin sex with a girl with out one. For one you dont know this girl and for too im not ready to be a daddy lol and would want a women that is not ready to have one as well. So if your in this position just dont give it up. If the guy cant respect your decision then he doesnt respect you. If you keep meetin guys that are the same then you need to look at who you are dating and maybe change that to see the difference in guys. But in all i strongly agree with the statement
 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
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Posted: 6/6/2006 1:26:55 AM
@nightlynikita ...
after all if i get into a relationshi with someone and they wanna go bare back and be loyal then there heading to the doc for proof .
Oh yes ... my fellow nurses laughed out loud (but totally agreed) when I said that if a guy gets serious about me and wants to go bare back ... he's gotta go to the doc first. I told them, "That paper in his hot little hand is his ticket to ride!"

 Deranged
Joined: 12/3/2005
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Posted: 6/6/2006 5:09:52 AM
the whole std thing is something to keep in mind... even more so is the whole baby thing. i think in the last four years, i've gone bareback with only one guy, and that took a hell of a lot of trust on my part.

but, ppl need to keep in mind that condoms dont necessarily protect you. there are enough diseases out there that can be transmitted regardless of condoms... herpes is one, hpv (which can lead to cervical cancer)... there are more.
 itsmeinco
Joined: 5/18/2006
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Posted: 6/24/2006 4:47:49 AM
Happens over and over????

You're quite the little slut puppy, aren't you?????
 yes2fun
Joined: 6/13/2005
Msg: 230
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Posted: 6/24/2006 6:37:49 AM
Okay,
I met a young lady at a bar on a wednesday and we agreed to to to the beach for the weekend... leave saturday and come back sunday... I did not expect to need condoms.

Saturday night in the condo, things go better than expected until we had to stop due to my not having any condoms.. The discussion was me saying "... I just did not expect to go this far this fast" and her arguing "... who goes to the beach for the weekend not expecting to get laid" to my responding "...then you should have brought some" we left the beach early Sunday morning, got some condoms and caught up for lost time at her place. Moral of the story, everyone without them is too blame, all should carry some with them, and if you don't, you can always, go get some and get at it later.
 DeagleNINja
Joined: 4/25/2006
Msg: 231
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Posted: 6/24/2006 8:05:21 AM
Personally I only wear condoms when Im with a risky person....
and I dont sleep with risky people so I dont often wear condoms.
Sue me.
 down4life27
Joined: 6/23/2006
Msg: 232
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Posted: 6/24/2006 10:26:06 AM
i dont leave my best condoms in the car...where they'll melt in the long hot hot sumer
 DeagleNINja
Joined: 4/25/2006
Msg: 234
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Posted: 6/24/2006 4:38:11 PM

So who is a "Risky Person"?


For lack of a better definition.....a slut.
 Rocker62
Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 235
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Posted: 6/24/2006 9:39:13 PM
I, for one, DO NOT have a prob using condoms - while "bareback" is the ultimate experience, unfortunately, as most ppl here have pointed out, there's just too many risks involved when it comes to unprotected sex in this day & age.

I also wanna say BRAVO to you women who have condoms in case the situation arises for their usage - yer NOT "sluts", yer being RESPONSIBLE & WISE !!!!!

As for those of yas (men & women) who are anti-condom, with those bullsh*t excuses, like "it's just not the same using 'em", "they suck", etc., well BOO-F*CKIN'-HOO to yas - you shouldn't be having sex if yer gonna be IRRESPONSIBLE about it !
(and by the way, this is in referrence to casual sex - not to those who were previously in monogamous / l.t.r's).

Just my opinions here. Better to be safe than sorry, ya know ?
 OceanWanderer
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 237
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Posted: 6/25/2006 12:31:22 AM
The thing I like about them is I last longer and it's way less messy - who wants to lay in the wet spot all night anyway? I'd do the girl the courtesy of switching sides so she didn't have to, but still, I'd like the dry side too. I don't sleep around, and I'm fairly sure that I've not been in relationships where the girls I have been with have either, but you can never be too sure. Better safe than sorry.
 Billbutler8
Joined: 3/12/2005
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Posted: 6/25/2006 3:37:10 AM
if you are involved with someone who does not like to wear condoms, simply both of you go get checked out . if birth control is an issue, then there are pills for that. or a patch.
or there is always abstinence...but that's no fun.
 Lake Erie Treasure
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 239
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Posted: 6/25/2006 4:37:27 AM
Ever since the onset of the aids generation, I have carried my own condoms. I never have trusted the man for birthcontrol or safe sex. Hell, its the sexual revolution carry your own.
 merlotman41
Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 240
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Posted: 11/22/2007 1:36:31 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^ I agree with chook 16107.....besides condoms are so fine and durable these days...you can hardly tell that you have one on...
Ummmmmmmm.......well thats what it said on the packet
 4ever_evolving
Joined: 11/18/2007
Msg: 241
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Posted: 11/22/2007 1:49:07 PM
I THINK IT SHOULD BE LEFT UP TO THE TWO INDIVIDUALS TO DECIDE WHATS COMFORTABLE FOR THEM. I MEAN I'D BE A HYPOCRITE TO SAY I'VE NEVER HAD SEX RAW DAWG, BUT I KNOW ITS RISKY BEHAVIOR AND CAN'T SEE ME JUMPING OUT THERE DOING THAT AT THIS DAY AND AGE UNLESS THIS WAS SOMEONE I WAS SEEING EXCLUSIVELY AND I WAS ON BIRTH CONTROL, BUT THATS ME.

IN RESPONSE TO YOUR COMMENT ABOUT BEING A MONTH, YOU CAN BE MARRIED TO A MOFO TEN YEARS AND NOT TRULY "KNOW" THEM, JUST SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT
 dave1234
Joined: 11/7/2004
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Posted: 11/22/2007 1:56:04 PM
It's like holding hands with gloves on. Kissing someone through a veil. Dining with plastic cutlery.


(Msg 250) If you are willing to do the unprotected sex, then so is she, and the guy before her, and the girl before him and so on and so on.


If one uses protection because they do not know and/or trust the other person they probably had sex with the last guy they didn't know and the last girl they didn't know and so and so on because, why not? It seems the emphasis is on having sex as opposed to with whom one is having sex.

Having said that I also advocate condom use.
 WarmthNpassion
Joined: 7/18/2007
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Posted: 11/22/2007 3:02:24 PM
They do make female comdoms too. If you want them so badly, why don't you pick a few up at the drug store?

To answer the original question, no I don't worry at all about it. I never use condoms because it's like takeing a shower with a rain coat on. However, I am with clean women which is why I have never gotten any STDs. The TV way over blows what's actually out there. There are some high risk groups so stay away from those and you'll be fine. The most important thing is being picky about who you go to bed with.

PS: Young people are one of the risk groups so if that's the case with you, you need to use them to prevent STDs and so you don't bring a new life into the world before you're ready for that responsibility.
 harveywallbanger
Joined: 12/25/2005
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Posted: 11/22/2007 3:58:31 PM
true story.

i'm always safe me and a woman were done with round one where i wore protection. as i was rolling over to get another condom she climbed up on me and held me down by the wrists. so i couldn't get up. well she had her way bare back. hell i didn't even get off because i was scared i didn't want to be a daddy. and she already had two kids so its not impossible for her to have them.

see there are men that prefer not to be safe and women that choose not to. its not just men.
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