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 washis2004
Joined: 3/21/2005
Msg: 551
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i don't really think anyone has a right to judge anyones opinion about this topic. if you want to smoke pot, go ahead..it's a choice. the same as it is a choice for someone to not want to date a pot smoker...it is an individuals right to choose what they do or don't want in their lives...i don't smoke pot but i know plenty of people who do...do i think it is evil? absolutly not...but if someone doesn't want to smoke pot it doesn't make them "ignorant" or " narrow minded". it is a choice that they made, just like someone who wants to smoke...why is it that only pot smokers are open minded and intelligent?? i don't smoke pot and don't really consider myself a dummy...it just isn't my thing...people who judge that decision are not different then those who consider pot smokers immature burnouts...do we see how all this is is a big vicious circle??...lol...
 ~tigerlily
Joined: 1/3/2007
Msg: 552
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/14/2007 12:20:47 PM
^ Yes, live and let live!!!


Burn One Down
by Ben Harper

Let us burn one, from end to end.
And pass is over to me my friend.
Burn it long, but burn it slow,
to light me up before I go.

If you dont like my fire, then dont come around.
Cause I'm gonna burn one down.
Yes I'm gonna burn one down

My choice is what i chose to do;
and if I'm causin no harm,
it shouldn't bother you.
Your choice is who you chose to be;
and if your causin to harm, then your alright with me.

If you dont like my fire, then dont come around, cause I'm gona burn one down.
Yes i'm gonna burn one, down.

Herb the gift, from the Earth,
and what's from the earth is of the greatest worth.
So before u knock it, try it first.
and you'll see it's a blessing and it's not a curse.
If you dont like my fire, then dont come around,
cause i'm gonna burn one down.
Yes i'm gonna burn one.

oh yeah
 plentyofrick
Joined: 11/30/2006
Msg: 553
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/14/2007 1:06:19 PM
I can tolerate all sorts of idiots (operative words being "tolerate" and "idiots").
I wouldn't waste my time dating one though, I'll just wait for that special crack head/ heroin addict to come along.
 serenaoak
Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 554
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/15/2007 9:20:02 PM
Brain cells are like a herd of buffalo... marijuana only kills off the slowest and weakest brain cells, thus strengthening the health of the herd. That's why the more pot you smoke, the smarter you get. Alcohol, on the other hand, simply pickles your brain cells, making them sloppy and stupid...
 bursts of flavour
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 555
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/15/2007 9:28:11 PM
ya i think so.. but it also depends... i dont smoke and i just recently quit any type of drug.. regardless if it may be 'reasonably good' for you lol like weed and the likings lol... i have had smokers all around me my whole life... and i dont just mean pot smokers i mean cigarette smokers...i am now legitamately out of all of my friends the only one NOT to smoke anything at all.... but i did find out that i am slightly allergic to smoke so i cant really be around it for too long ... thank god for the new smoking laws in ontario :D
 Leana76
Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 556
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/17/2007 4:55:26 AM
I used to, but not anymore. I don't like anyone who does drugs around me, even pot. No thanks, I'll pass and good luck with you...But I got other things to do...See ya.
 000firefighter
Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 557
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/17/2007 5:20:28 AM
To all the pot smokers out there,,,so at what age is it acceptable to let your children smoke pot???? another can of worms to be opened!!!!
 Nikkie_87
Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 558
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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/17/2007 5:42:42 AM
definetly not, had 2 partners who where smokers n it ended up causing arguements n the sex time decreases with pot now my bfs stopped smokin hes like the energizer bunny lol
 plentyofrick
Joined: 11/30/2006
Msg: 559
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/17/2007 7:14:06 AM

Brain cells are like a herd of buffalo... marijuana only kills off the slowest and weakest brain cells, thus strengthening the health of the herd. That's why the more pot you smoke, the smarter you get


this is one of the stupidest things I've seen. brain cells are like buffalo,
seems your herd must be made up of really slow retarded buffalo that need a diet and exercise program.
 serenaoak
Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 560
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/17/2007 8:20:51 AM
Have you no sense of subtlety? Some people can't string three words together, and others wouldn't know a joke if it hit them over the head, with or without pot.
 smitten2meetu
Joined: 11/16/2004
Msg: 561
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/18/2007 1:52:38 AM
I wonder if you're children see you smoking pot, what do you tell them and when can they start...."Hey dad, pass me a toke?"

It can't work when you have a partner that like to smoke pot and you don't, and I don't plan to wait for you to decide that you're grown up to stop smoking weed.
 sugarbandit
Joined: 11/10/2006
Msg: 562
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/18/2007 7:29:26 AM
Pot smokers are usually more mellow and friendy...might make for a interesting date
 Tarika
Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 563
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/18/2007 12:32:37 PM
I don't like pot...I am actually allergic to weed. Furthermore, I wouldn't even go on one date with someone who tokes up.
 rederer1
Joined: 8/7/2006
Msg: 564
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/18/2007 2:34:46 PM
I dunno, weed's not so bad. There are a ton of perscription drugs that are far worse. My moms friend is addicted to asprine. I can guarentee you that taking asprine all the time is far worse for ones health than pot. Valium, zoloft, ritalin, cough syrup. These things are all bad for your overall health but nobody cares about these things because they're legal.

I dont think any drugs should be illegal personally. If heroine was legal would you do it? The fact that a substance is illegal isn't what really prevents people from doing drugs. If someone wants to take meth and ruin their life I can advise them not to do it but who am I to say they can't do it?
 justme1202
Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 565
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/18/2007 3:14:35 PM
To all the pot smokers out there,,,so at what age is it acceptable to let your children smoke pot???? another can of worms to be opened!!!!

This is not about our children its about wether One would sat a pot smoker.
 scoobywho
Joined: 9/3/2006
Msg: 566
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/18/2007 7:10:03 PM
Pro choice amigo. To each their own. I know people who have family and friends, who are very close to them in their lives, who smoke but they refuse to have it involved as a dirrect part of their lives. They respect the fact that the others are adults who have the right to be as destructive to themselves but not for them. Some won't accept it based on the simple fact that it is illegal, duhhhh!
And then there are those who see it as no big deal. They don't smoke it but they don't judge anyone who does.
I say a long as it's not destructive to your life friendship or relationship. If it makes you happy be happy.
But I can tell you from experience: Nothing can make you higher then the love of someone special. So don't ever let that go for something like smoking pot.
peace out
 loveink
Joined: 3/5/2007
Msg: 567
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/18/2007 8:59:30 PM
I don't care if a guy i'm dating smokes pot. i don't, but I can tolerate it. I'm not about to tell my bf that he's "not allowed" to smoke up. then i would feel like his mother.
 fierynette
Joined: 12/30/2006
Msg: 568
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/18/2007 9:04:52 PM
I think it depends on how central to the smoker's life the weed is. I personally wouldn't want to be with someone who needed a lot of pot (or alcohol) to get by. I don't mind people who smoke or drink socially, and I have dated more than one. People who let weed smoking get in the way of life though... not for me.
 serenaoak
Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 569
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/18/2007 11:04:18 PM
To all the pot smokers out there,,,so at what age is it acceptable to let your children smoke pot?


If they are over 21, self-supporting and out of the house, they can make their own decision, same as cigarettes and alcohol. I am not currently a smoker, nor do I have children, but that would be my position.
 Strollz
Joined: 3/1/2007
Msg: 570
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/18/2007 11:17:20 PM
F**k all ya pot haters! Its way better than drinkin, and I do that as well, but I've never met an angry stonner. Maybe a hungry one, or one that cant stop laughin. Someone wrote that they wouldnt sink as low to talk to a pot head? Good! We dont want ta deal with yer anti-pot s**t stories anyways. If ya tried it ya probably be alot different. Not that I have anything against non-"smokers" . I hang around alot that dont inhale. So to all ya weed haters. GO F**K YOURSELVES!
 janeyjohns
Joined: 12/31/2005
Msg: 571
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/19/2007 12:15:32 AM
My brother started as a pot smoker at age 13 and has smoked forever now. His wife used to do it with him. He adopted her daughter and they had 3 more together.

She quit smoking and then she saw the problems more clearly. Her oldest at home was 11 at the time and she could and would roll joints for her dad. Of course she also used to change diapers and watch her younger siblings alot too. He lost his family once she quit toking and the smoke cloud moved away. She woke up from the fog and realized she didn't like the life she was in and moved on.

It may work when two people are both doing it but when one stops it will probably end. If children are involved, is it worth pointing them in that direction because like it or not we are the examples for them?

I for one have always said "do what you want, but live with your consequences". It's all a matter of choices. I just choose for you not to do it around me or my kids and not to have it on your "person" if you are in my vehicle or home.
 IHAVEAMIND
Joined: 3/5/2007
Msg: 572
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/19/2007 12:19:51 AM
depends on what one considers excessive.
 Open Secret
Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 573
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/19/2007 12:36:24 AM
If the other person does it once in a while to have fun and unwind then I think it is fine. I can't stand the vast majority of people I've met who base their lives around smoking it though because they are very boring IMHO.
 strats4
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 574
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 3/19/2007 7:30:47 AM
I was wondering something,when I go to a bar and as the nite wears on and ppl get intoxicated and start talking bull, and some get aggressive and in somebodys face,from drinkin booze,is that an acceptable behavior,or the ones at 1 in the mornin so drunk they can hardly talk.and drowning there whatever with Booze.On the other hand someone who has a few puffs and at the end are still a functioning and love to go out and do stuff that isnt based in a bar setting,Now women which would you rather be with?Maybe some want someone who doesnt use anything,well good luck,This applys to both genders,and guess what one of the biggest turnoffs is a drunk
 msusnicknel
Joined: 3/14/2007
Msg: 575
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Posted: 3/19/2007 8:23:46 AM
This whole subject cracks me up. I agree with what others have stated, smoking pot does not make a person a jerk/fool/a$$hole/lazy/etc. People who ARE jerks/fools/a$$holes/leazy/etc sometimes happen to smoke pot. Just like people who are jerks/fools/a$$holes/lazy sometimes drive cars, go to college, work for accounting firms, drink beer, or eat grilled cheese sandwiches.

In other words, it isn't a particular activity that makes a person, it is the person who makes the person. For you statistics minded people out there, correlation does not imply causation.

It really strikes me as ironic the people in this thread who say they would never date someone who smoked because it is "wrong" or stupid, yet these same people say their ideal first date would in some way involve going out for drinks. Isn't this a bit hypocritical? You can completely dismiss a person because they chose to partake in one mind altering substance, yet it is perfectly acceptable to indulge in another mind altering substance the first time you meet a potential mate? Meh...

And to those who say they couldn't date a person who smokes pot because it is illegal, would you refuse to date someone because they drove over the speed limit? What about if they drove you home after having 2 beers (technically over the limit for most people/states)? How about a jaywalker **gasp**? Remember, if nobody ever broke the law, the U.S. would still be a part of great brittain, we'd still be owning slaves, and anyone who didn't actively participate in a strict Christian lifestyle could be burned at the stake. Blind ignorance to nonsensical laws is a primary step towards facism.

I know I'd much rather date or get to know someone who has a habit/hobby/belief that I don't particularly agree with than I would someone who would cast off another person based on just one aspect of their life!
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