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 johnglc
Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 826
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When I GRADUATED from trade school,one of my classmates was suppose to present me with a speech.....he was high as a kite.
Unfortunately,he couldn't find his way to the podium.
 msusnicknel
Joined: 3/14/2007
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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 6/19/2007 5:52:03 AM
I'm sorry, I just can't resist responding to this.


NO smoking at all no smoking anything! no cigars no chewing gross! no smoking cigarettes of any kind and no smoking crack . smoking ciggareetes and pot they both causes lung and mouth throat cancer what good is potif it if it causes all that and lowsperm count if you want children one day or retarded or delayed children in spech or cause learning disabilities. it also causes you tolead to other drugs it is just a plain common sense that itis bad for you . more than good for you it should not be legal in any state even for medical reasons there are better drugs for pain that are much stronger to help pain and calm you down, its just palin dumb and you get dumber because it kills and slows down growth of brain cells and learning cant happen so that also means less concentration when driving and you might kill others than what good is it going to do if you end up injail or the hospital if you hurt yourself . Itsjustplain NO SENSE AT ALL!


Were you high when you wrote this? If you are going to base your argument on something making you less intelligent, or based on killing brain cells, at least make an effort to spell, use punctuation, or some sort of understandable sentence structure. I'm not one of those "grammar police" people. The occassional misspelling or typo is totally understandable, but this one is just...wow.
 val0214
Joined: 5/7/2007
Msg: 828
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 6/19/2007 4:54:36 PM
Let's not forget that today's pot in many areas is not the same as 20 years ago. I read an article and it confirmed my confusion on recognizing it's smell because in many areas dealers are cutting it with meth so that it's more highly addictive and potent.

With pot users come drug dealers who now make deliveries. Often these deliveries are not just for pot but they can get whatever other street drug you want.

With drug dealers come organized crime, gangs, money owed, shootings etc...

And let's not forget our friendly neighborhood cops and drug enforcement officials.

So if your boyfriend uses your car to get his pot, or carries it with him and you are in the vehicle, or he "forgot" it in your car and you are driving this car and YOU are stopped...will they believe you if you are a non-pot user?

Basically, it's like dealing with any other addiction including smoking when the smoker knows the effects of second hand smoking and cancer in non-smokers.

I think it's selfish for a pot smoker or cigarette smoker to expose a non-smoker or non user to the dangers and influences of the consequences of their actions.

Non users/smokers often try to be tolerant and forgiving, but if there are children involved, again it's a bad environment for a child to be exposed to.

Personally, I chose as a non-user not to get involved with a pot smoker .

 Solomon Kane
Joined: 5/28/2006
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Posted: 6/21/2007 11:35:25 PM
sometimes ..depends on how open minded the SO is ...
I was attracted to a lady cop at one time ... (well thats a lie...I still think shes hot) But I never asked her out, because ethically, she'd have to bust me for breaking the law. We did have a friendship of sorts, and are still friends
 Solomon Kane
Joined: 5/28/2006
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Posted: 6/21/2007 11:47:55 PM
Fry.... Hey!! Wazup lol I guess shoulda expected to see you here ...
Let pot smokers be pot smokers, I say .. But be honest with the SO so that she don't get pissed later
 ah-huh
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 831
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Posted: 6/24/2007 2:20:39 PM
I don't want to be around anyone doing drugs if it is not for medical purposes.
 reldra
Joined: 1/16/2006
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Posted: 6/24/2007 4:13:05 PM
I think it would depend on how much pot they smoke. If it's 3x a day and they can't get up off the couch and are turning into a mush brain- couldn't date someone like that. If it was occasional, I don't see the harm. Doubt I would notice.
 resplendent soul
Joined: 3/5/2007
Msg: 833
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Posted: 6/24/2007 6:58:10 PM
well this definitely falls into a good thread! I think it is biased to opt someone out just because they smoke pot, as it is a judgement based on a thought, and not the person. I smoke pot, but wouldn't be with someone who smoked it constantly and/or was a lamo because of it.....i think you should just meet the person anyways, and get to know them and decide if their pot usuage would be a problem(meaning amount/how often). I think that if you judge someone cuz they are 'put issue here', but don't know them - you just may miss out on someone who eventually might just quit all together if it made you happy.
 countrycanuck85
Joined: 2/21/2007
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Posted: 6/24/2007 7:05:49 PM
DEFINITELY NOT. I can't stand anyone who uses illegal drugs....my job and my life are too important to throw it away on someone elses IDIOTIC choices.
 winterrenegade
Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 835
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Posted: 6/24/2007 7:07:04 PM
thank you cc well put
 sweetness_31
Joined: 4/14/2007
Msg: 836
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Posted: 6/24/2007 7:13:08 PM
It would depend on how much they smoked it, some only smoke it a few times a week or month but some one who uses it like a few times a day...I couldnt handle that....but some one who used it once in awhile probably wouldnt bother me.
 ruis2002
Joined: 11/2/2006
Msg: 837
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Posted: 6/25/2007 2:03:28 PM
***I prefer not to be around it and will not date someone that uses it.***

Ditto. Stoners and potheads need not apply! Grow up guys, you're not in college any more, and the sixties are so over!
 Jupiter53
Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 838
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Posted: 6/26/2007 10:27:46 AM
Funny how no physicians/surgeons, firefighters, police, attorneys, civil engineers, RNs, CPAs, financial advisors, airline pilots, EMTs, ie anyone that we have to entrust with our health, safety and well being, is on here mouthing off as a doper...

That doesn't mean they don't...
I know of Asst DA's who do Acid
and I won't even get started about firemen I know who are spending entire days off shift and WASTED... Coke, Pot, Vicodans... you name it...

And then there are the Therapists...
As for me?
I've been know to smoke for months like a Rastafarian only to stop for weeks or months or years for no 'reason'. One thing I don't do is abuse Alcohol. Now THATS a sick drug.
I know someone who runs a program for women with infants or young children who (the mothers) are on drugs and when she lists the detrimental substances it's first on the list, followed by Coke, Meth then H.... Pot doesn't even warrant being mentioned to her.

but I digress...

 sder35
Joined: 6/22/2007
Msg: 839
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Posted: 6/26/2007 12:45:52 PM
Exactly right and well spoken. Thankyou for that. I toke, but with discretion and not all the time. When its time to kickback at the end of the day or on a day off, then rock on. Pot smokers are just as responsible and I say NO, smoking pot does not lead to further addictions. I've been smoking pot since hi school, thats off and on for 30 yrs and still feel great, so who cares!!!

Since most of us have pictures on our sites, keeping things private is important. The fact that we don't disclose it doesn't take guts, its PYA.
 wickedgourmet181
Joined: 5/31/2007
Msg: 840
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Posted: 6/27/2007 12:46:40 PM
You are a ****ing moron
 Fiona0822
Joined: 5/2/2007
Msg: 841
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Posted: 6/27/2007 3:07:53 PM
I see it as an awful thing because statisically, guys who do also smoke and drink excessively. I can't stand any of the three, and all the guys I know who did... were like that with low self esteem.

I mean it's ok because it's from the earth.. but I drop guys like hot stones who do sep if they lie like spacemonkeymaffia.
 An Acronym
Joined: 4/21/2006
Msg: 842
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Posted: 6/27/2007 3:16:06 PM

can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?


^^ Absolutley. I don't dabble in it anymore, but many of my friends do.
I couldn't care less if the woman I'm with smoked pot ... as long as she doesn't mind me leaving the toliet seat up on occassions ...
 Irreverent Lass
Joined: 6/7/2007
Msg: 843
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Posted: 6/27/2007 3:17:38 PM
I don't want someone around me that smokes pot because I would want it too. And I don't WANT to want it. That's all.

I don't judge people that smoke it. Where I'm from (hometown, not Vancouver), most of the city admins have been spotted coming out of smoke filled bathrooms - half my friends have plants in their livingrooms. It's really not that big of a deal aside from that pesky legal thing... But I think alcohol is more destructive.

I am personally not into pot because it makes me eat like an utter PIG and gets me all agoraphobic and hyper paranoid.

And that, ladies and gentlemen, is what I call UN-fun.
 An Acronym
Joined: 4/21/2006
Msg: 844
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Posted: 6/27/2007 7:16:28 PM

I am personally not into pot because it makes me eat like an utter PIG and gets me all agoraphobic and hyper paranoid.


^^ Have a friend who quit exactly for those reasons, with a racing heart, perspiration, etc on top. But he smoked for years without any side effects. Our bodies can be amazing at telling us when to cease something.
 showmehow2live
Joined: 6/23/2007
Msg: 845
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Posted: 6/27/2007 8:32:41 PM
Ha well here is my experience in that department. I am going to enlist in the Army Reserves as an MP, an become a cop after college, now keep that in mind as I tell you this... So one day I get home, an this girl I know, I didnt like her, or rather was not attracted to her. Sure she was pretty, about 5`5 115 pounds, long dark hair. Gorgeous, but I had heard some crazy rumors about her, shed come to school higher than a kite, an she sat right behind me in class an I could tell when she was stoned out of her wits. She always bragged about how drunk an ****ed up she got the night before, and how she tried to hook up with some guy an what not. Well one day I get home an she sends me a random myspace message tellin me how good lookin I am an wants to know if Id like to go out with her. I thought about what I had heard about her, the contests she hold with her friends at parties seein who can get laid first an what not, the drunken intercourse shed have, the fact she had to take an EPT test at 14.... Yes an EPT test at 14 when she lost her virginity... I thought, an contemplated. I figured alright, whatever Ill give it a shot an see if I cant set her straight, she had the potential to be a good person. Well all went well for a month or so, an then I had it with her antics, an quit talkin to her. Bein the kind an caring person I am I called her up one day, an we chit chatted and she wanted to give it another shot, well I am out of town until August working, and she tells me the next day that she found a boyfriend, after she just told me that when I get back she wanted to go out with me. I called her out on her just using me and she was cowardly enough to not reply back to me haha. I was pissed off that I didnt listen to my friends about her, an looked like a idiot. So take this as a warning to someone about to go out with a pothead, they are not worth it, an idiots in the first place for doing the shit.... Unless you to are a pot smoker, then dont bother with them...
 BengalLuvr
Joined: 3/5/2007
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Posted: 6/28/2007 9:49:10 AM
Wow! I'm amazed at how many people feel so strongly about this. Seems to me there are a lot worse crimes going on in this world than a little toking.
 Jupiter53
Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 847
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Posted: 7/1/2007 12:12:39 AM
Thank you Raven for post 20... and 21

You can speak for me on this subject any time...

When I first went to college (after dropping out of high school from boredom) I was taking night classes at the local CC. Most of the people in my Sociology class were adults with just a couple of 'us kids' in our 20's. There was one guy who consistently 'blew the doors off' everybody else in the class. This guys thoughts and comments were amazing and everybody agreed he was as important to the class as our professor who was a Phd from India. Well the last night after 3 terms, we'd taken our finals and a friend and I were hanging out with him outside and he lit up and offered us a toke. I didn't smoke at the time for 'religious' reasons but didn't mind he did. Turned out he would smoke a joint both before class and during the breaks as well. He was 'wasted' ( yeah right!) the entire time!... That had as much a shift in my perspective as anything I'd ever ingested... and back in the 70's..... I ingested.

That said not everyone can handle pot just as not everyone can handle booze. Still given my choice I'll take room number 1 thank you very much.
 katica_kat
Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 848
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Posted: 7/1/2007 1:00:23 AM
I won't have anything to do with anyone who smokes that shit or does any kind of drugs...crime shit and so forth...

I am in the middle of studies for a career that aims to lower criminal activities... ...so anyone that thinks it is ok...well stay away from moi...thank you very much !!
 piscespower
Joined: 2/22/2007
Msg: 849
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Posted: 7/1/2007 8:40:54 AM
Thanks Raven1 and MichealJustin. You got my support!!!!

There is so much worse than smokin a doobie.
I'm sick of people thinking that they are better than others than smoke.
What a bunch if misinformed and ignorant retards, you're also boring as hell.....
I'll bet your house is a wreck, you are in financial mess and live out of your means. It's okay to drink, right? But hell no to pot???????? Screw you!!

I'm successful, creative, happy, financially comfortable and never been in trouble.
All the pompous jerkwads can kiss my pot-luvin ass. I'm sick of this friggin' site and all the snobs in it. I'm happy to stay single.....at least I can die a happy woman than miserable and drunk. or with a drunk.

*Lights up a huge BONE* ahhhhhh...
ROCK ON fellow Chronics!!!!! ROCK ON!!!!!
 piscespower
Joined: 2/22/2007
Msg: 850
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Posted: 7/1/2007 8:42:57 AM
Oh and by the way to all that don't want anything to do with us.......Thank you!!!!!
We don't want anything to do with you either.
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