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 i am4u
Joined: 5/31/2005
Msg: 13
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HOW FAR SHOULD YOU GO ON A FIRST DATE?Page 2 of 2    (1, 2)
i say 10 miles , no more lol

out to dinner

and good nite hug kiss

 Melissanicole
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 15
HOW FAR SHOULD YOU GO ON A FIRST DATE?
Posted: 11/19/2005 7:46:57 PM
Oh lord, lol.

Go however far you feel comfortable. While having sex on the first date doesnt mean anything, some guys interpret it as a lack of self-respect. I personally do as well. Depends on the type of guy.

Just be prepared that he may not call you again, depending on the type of guy. Or, he might consider you serious potential... depends on his priorities. Personally, Id rather not do it and then see what kind of guy he is. If a guy doesnt call cause he doesnt get laid on the first date, then hes not the kind of guy I want to spend more time with. Kind of helps weed out the bad apples.
 rickyb18
Joined: 7/30/2004
Msg: 16
HOW FAR SHOULD YOU GO ON A FIRST DATE?
Posted: 11/19/2005 9:26:07 PM
personally i think you should go with the flow. everything happens for a reason, who knows what you could have with that person. just let things follow their course and discover the real connections that are there.
 ellece
Joined: 8/19/2005
Msg: 17
HOW FAR SHOULD YOU GO ON A FIRST DATE?
Posted: 11/19/2005 9:44:23 PM
gotta agree with Linda. Its a "feel" thing.....and sometimes some pretty real connections are made when sex happens quickly!!!
 americangentleman
Joined: 5/11/2005
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HOW FAR SHOULD YOU GO ON A FIRST DATE?
Posted: 11/19/2005 10:18:21 PM
Here's my thought and that is to take your time. Dating shouldn't be a race on how "far you should go." Why put so much pressure on yourselves? Obviously, it depends on the person and the chemistry but in this and age, people , I have noticed seem to go too fast in dating/relationships.

The question I have is, what is wrong with taking it nice and slow, get to know one another and enjoying each others company? Isn't more worth the while in the relationship/dating scene to have an established foundation between two people? In such a case, the foundation for the two people is there, the two people know each other, and it is worth the wait because you know that the first kiss or whatever is special.

That's just me, I'm no expert, just an observer.

American Gentleman
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