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 E_maledotcom
Joined: 11/10/2005
Msg: 5
She's a Slut....Page 3 of 4    (1, 2, 3, 4)
I agree with Livewire... from a mans perspective.... Ihave had the one night things before... we all have... so where is the big deal... to start name calling afterwards is truly peddy..
 TimPommell
Joined: 1/13/2005
Msg: 8
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She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/24/2005 9:55:06 AM
I couldn't agree more... Kind of absurd to think less of or speak ill of someone for participating in the same activity as you did...
The way I look at it.... "Finally a smart chick who realized I'm a catch!"
 ~iiCe~
Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 18
She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/24/2005 10:30:20 AM
for every female that is a slut there is a male one that did it with her....
 ~iiCe~
Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 20
She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/24/2005 10:45:33 AM
I know... he was forced....


Sluts unite.... I am a slut and proud....
 UWantThis
Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 37
She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/24/2005 7:12:48 PM
Sorry, but having no shame in your sexuality is just a long-winded way of saying slut in my oppinion. But then again that all depends on your own personal definition of a slut. Each person has a different perception. Mine is, if a woman has sex with a man who she doesn't love, then she's a slut. Thats my own personal definition.
 ~iiCe~
Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 38
She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/24/2005 7:19:01 PM
^^ oh damn...... will all the sluts please raise their hands...

is that just women or are men included in that??
 UWantThis
Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 39
She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/24/2005 7:23:54 PM
All sexes of course
 arri
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 43
She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/24/2005 7:40:06 PM
Aren't we beyond judging people for the number of sexual partners they have had?

Slut is just an ugly word.
 UWantThis
Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 44
She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/24/2005 7:47:18 PM

Slut is just an ugly word.


Its such a nasty trait.
 ~iiCe~
Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 45
She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/24/2005 7:48:43 PM
damn men who think women are sluts are sexy....
 arri
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 46
She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/24/2005 7:57:50 PM
I forgot to mention .. I like my lover to be uninhibited and experienced
 arri
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 52
She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/24/2005 8:37:51 PM
He seems to be a Master debater
 russ01
Joined: 9/24/2005
Msg: 61
She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/25/2005 3:28:55 PM
there are 90 male sluts to 1 female slut. slut just meens the person loves sex. where is she now ?;;lol
 arri
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 62
She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/25/2005 4:10:25 PM

arri, would you like to be out with someone who let 1/2 the guys in the restaurant you're at poke her?


The question is moot for me .. since I my SO has been with 3 guys in her entire life. However, I haven't exactly been a monk and I'd be a hypocrite if I started judging people based on that.
 arri
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 65
She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/26/2005 10:02:25 AM
The only purpose making sex taboo for women and giving it an ugly name will achieve is to make it a more valuable commodity and hence less available ... None productive for all of us guys who supposedly always want sex
 hobbes26
Joined: 11/4/2005
Msg: 68
She's a Slut....
Posted: 11/26/2005 11:36:08 AM
well
Its the rabbit effect. In the classical relationship men usually pursued so when things get intense fast many people have trouble adapting to the modern social structure. Normally, all the pursuit gives times to establish a social connection and an intellectual one. So when the physical connections gets established quickly it puts people at odds. Not that I am defending that kinda poor tact but i figure that is the likely source.

Now, personally, I have no problems with it. I figure we are creatures of passion and letting ourselves go when we feel that passonate connection is great. It is experiencing the very best of what it is to be human....But some folks need structure; they can not handle letting their emotions get the best of them. When they get caught up fast they get scared and angry. Then they irrationally lash out. I figure its more common amongst men because most men have a tendency to divide their emotional selves from their rational selves and need to be in control of what they feel....Hopefully, it will change in time but for now..que sera sera
 hobbes26
Joined: 11/4/2005
Msg: 71
She's a Slut.... well ladies its like this................
Posted: 11/26/2005 12:06:44 PM
kinda one of those i would never be part of a club that would have me as a member....

I definitely could rework that quote to something more appropos regarding member but will let yawl figure it out
 MDNinja
Joined: 1/9/2005
Msg: 72
She's a Slut....
Posted: 1/13/2006 9:55:40 PM
"for every female that is a slut there is a male one that did it with her.... "

Just one?
 KittyBratt
Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 73
She's a Slut....
Posted: 1/14/2006 5:00:04 AM
hahahahaha!!! :)

ur FUNNY, girl. I like you ;)
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Joined: 4/15/2005
Msg: 74
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She's a Slut....
Posted: 1/14/2006 5:49:10 AM
Don't get me wrong on what I am about to say, I am all for kinky lascivious polyamerous sex, I mean bring on the threesome action over here alright, and what ever else floats your boat for that matter, go Hedonism!!!

But you know though there is such a thing as sex addiction, some people do find themselves at the mercy of their desires and feel they need help to break unhealthy cycles. Whether male or female, I don't think having had a bazillion partners, and not being able to control your poly amorous ways is really a desirable thing for most people.

It is true that it is more acceptable for men to have many partners, but does that mean that they have any less of a problem if it is out of control? I often find it amazing how a lot of the men I have known who were real pick up artists tend to have mother issues, or were triggered by a bad break up or both. Often they have some kind of issue, something they are trying to resolve with women, they want to have sex with every woman they see, to the point were it is isn't really even something they want except for the conquest. I have also known women who told me straight out that sex was much more about power then it was about enjoyment and intimacy. I really think just like any aspect of life sex require balance with what each individual requires and needs.

I think sometimes people get confused about what they want, and how they want it, and that is too bad for them I guess.

in regards to


A sexual creature? Why do so many women feel so guilty about this? You never see a post from a guy that starts like that....


Guys you will find tend not to talk as much about their confused sexual issues in public for a number of reasons, I would bet, especially if they are troubled sexaholics.

Don't get me wrong I am all for lascivious kinky adult fun, as long as it is in harmony with your needs and deep desires is all.

That said, go Hedonism!!!
 tcky123
Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 79
She's a Slut....
Posted: 4/23/2006 12:03:31 PM
hey I have done the slut thing before on the first date and he should be thanking me by the ending of the night.
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