|Don't get me wrong on what I am about to say, I am all for kinky lascivious polyamerous sex, I mean bring on the threesome action over here alright, and what ever else floats your boat for that matter, go Hedonism!!! |
But you know though there is such a thing as sex addiction, some people do find themselves at the mercy of their desires and feel they need help to break unhealthy cycles. Whether male or female, I don't think having had a bazillion partners, and not being able to control your poly amorous ways is really a desirable thing for most people.
It is true that it is more acceptable for men to have many partners, but does that mean that they have any less of a problem if it is out of control? I often find it amazing how a lot of the men I have known who were real pick up artists tend to have mother issues, or were triggered by a bad break up or both. Often they have some kind of issue, something they are trying to resolve with women, they want to have sex with every woman they see, to the point were it is isn't really even something they want except for the conquest. I have also known women who told me straight out that sex was much more about power then it was about enjoyment and intimacy. I really think just like any aspect of life sex require balance with what each individual requires and needs.
I think sometimes people get confused about what they want, and how they want it, and that is too bad for them I guess.
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A sexual creature? Why do so many women feel so guilty about this? You never see a post from a guy that starts like that....
Guys you will find tend not to talk as much about their confused sexual issues in public for a number of reasons, I would bet, especially if they are troubled sexaholics.
Don't get me wrong I am all for lascivious kinky adult fun, as long as it is in harmony with your needs and deep desires is all.
That said, go Hedonism!!!