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 mrcandyman187
Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 21
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I do it all the time...and in all the time I've been doing it I've only had 2 people send a positive response, most tell me to f off or they don't respond at all.

I'll still keep doing it though
 hac3011
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 23
sending mail to people with interesting profiles
Posted: 11/25/2005 4:13:52 PM
Yes, I have done it and did it when I first joined the site and now one of those emails sent telling him how much I enjoyed his profile has turned out to be one of my closest friends. :) Keep sending them!! :)
 MtLoopHiker
Joined: 8/6/2005
Msg: 25
sending mail to people with interesting profiles
Posted: 11/25/2005 6:00:12 PM
barns said:
Does anyone else do this even though you know there isn't a snowballs chance in hell of anything coming of it


Hell, is there any *better* reason to send someone a note?

It's a gesture of sincere admiration. I also send personal notes to those that make forum posts that really resonate with me.
 darkcloud
Joined: 11/20/2005
Msg: 26
sending mail to people with interesting profiles
Posted: 11/25/2005 6:37:55 PM
i have written a few times and most of the time was blocked by a restriction of some kind, mostly age or location. i have tried though.
 Eagle Fish
Joined: 7/14/2009
Msg: 27
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Posted: 11/4/2012 11:25:04 AM

Does anyone else do this even though you know there isn't a snowballs chance in hell of anything coming of it. I have taken to sending a note telling men I enjoyed their profiles or in a couple of cases telling them to cheer up and not take the whole thing too seriously if there profile sounded really down. I don't expect responses though sometime do get them.

Am I the only weirdo to do this? Have you received any such messages and does it creep you out or make you feel good that someone read your profile and bothered to write?


(I know this is an old forum thread but I rather add on to it than to start another that is close enough.)

Have you seen a number of interesting profiles on POF? What makes them interesting to you?

I have to admit; I enjoy reading interesting profiles that are funny, unique, and have that something. (Wink) It makes me want to know more about the person. You never know.

“Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: "What! You too? I thought I was the only one.”
― C.S. Lewis
 sigungq
Joined: 10/6/2012
Msg: 28
sending mail to people with interesting profiles
Posted: 11/4/2012 12:03:41 PM

Am I the only weirdo to do this? Have you received any such messages and does it creep you out or make you feel good that someone read your profile and bothered to write?


Nope, I think you are the only one on POF that messages people who have interesting profiles. I always look for the dumbest, most boring profiles. I only ever message those people. Yes, it is real creepy to receive a message from anyone on a dating site that finds me interesting. You better not keep up this practice............ ;-)
 justdeb1111
Joined: 8/12/2012
Msg: 29
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Posted: 11/4/2012 4:22:38 PM
I do this often. Most of the time I get a pleasant response.

They should create a forum here that people can post the names of profiles that are really good or clever. Might actually raise the bar a bit as most PoF profiles are abysmal.
 SingleInArlington
Joined: 6/18/2011
Msg: 31
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Posted: 11/4/2012 5:36:17 PM
<---------Guilty :)
 c0ffeemate
Joined: 7/23/2010
Msg: 33
sending mail to people with interesting profiles
Posted: 11/4/2012 7:42:16 PM
Yup and yup again. I've done it a few times. I don't expect an answer back from them but the few times I have gotten a response, they've been incredibly nice.
And I've done it as well with one or two forum posts that 'hit home'.
Rather relieving to know I'm not the only 'fruitloop' out here lol ^_^
 Mistie3000
Joined: 9/14/2012
Msg: 34
sending mail to people with interesting profiles
Posted: 11/4/2012 8:37:14 PM
There was one guy recently whose profile wasn't exactly negative, but he sounded almost apologetic in a part where mentioning his hair is thinning and that's why his profile pics have him wearing hats. He doesn't live close so we will not be meeting but I still messaged him anyway to say I found him attractive, regardless of what his hair situation is!
 supplygoodguy
Joined: 6/4/2012
Msg: 35
sending mail to people with interesting profiles
Posted: 11/4/2012 9:42:02 PM
I can say I've actually done that three times over the course of being on this jail site.. the only reason I felt a draw to write to them was because their profiles were absolutely excellently written from who they are .. I've read hundreds of mens profiles as I look for intelligence in the universe every time I walk out my side door and exit stage left.. .. and so far I've seen a few note worthies worth noting..I have only contacted these people to tell them that their written words rock.. I never contact men on pof .. if a guy is interested in meeting me he will do the work.. if not he isn't for me.. I'm not into lazy or insecure men.. that's me.. lots of women contact men... it is best he pursues and if the feeling is mutual great.. I also do not respond to all the emails I get as I've found that can backfire with a major passive aggressive response .. so now I just do not respond to emails .. I figure if a decent one comes along and I appreciate his profile for it's honesty and authenticity and he doesn't have pics up of stupid stuff then I will get back to him.. until then I am so so content to remain el singularo.. ad infinitum..
 justgowithit74
Joined: 10/11/2012
Msg: 36
sending mail to people with interesting profiles
Posted: 11/6/2012 7:52:18 AM
Absolutely I have done this. I don't care if the profile has pic or not, I will take the time to read a guy's profile and if something strikes me, I will send a message. It may be just to say I enjoyed reading it, agreed with something they wrote, or if they say something funny, I will add my witty humor to it. Sometimes it takes just that little bit of encouragement to make all the difference to someone. Looking for love or whatever it is you are searching for isn't always easy.
 MDLBF22
Joined: 4/27/2012
Msg: 37
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sending mail to people with interesting profiles
Posted: 11/6/2012 8:32:00 AM
There are many times I have done this and mostly no replies.

Everyone who sends to me get's a reply. No matter who.
If your on the site at least be nice to others.
 wackadoodledoo
Joined: 4/14/2011
Msg: 38
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Posted: 11/6/2012 8:37:03 AM
I often send a message which is complimentary. Not looking for anything in return. I also compliment people out and around in grocery stores, etc. People need to hear nice things. Everyone loves to hear nice things.
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 wolftxusa1966
Joined: 11/2/2012
Msg: 39
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Posted: 11/6/2012 9:59:09 AM

there isn't a snowballs chance in hell of anything coming of it

There has to be a wiener's or burger's chance in hell, then I do it occasionally. The responses don't stir the dust in my inbox - zilch.
 waysofmylife
Joined: 9/17/2012
Msg: 41
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Posted: 11/7/2012 8:43:52 AM
I get a lot of messages like this, and I will respond back if someone was creative in writing to me, and I enjoyed reading what they had to say.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 42
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Posted: 11/8/2012 1:07:39 PM

there isn't a snowballs chance in hell of anything coming of it


The only snowball chance in hell that does not have a chance to materialize it the one you do not take.

Always take the shot.
 CynthiaSM
Joined: 2/24/2012
Msg: 43
sending mail to people with interesting profiles
Posted: 11/9/2012 9:10:35 AM
I've sent email to men complimenting their profile without the intent of starting any sort of relationship. Although no response is expected, the replies have all been nice.

One reply went beyond anything I could have imagined. We dated for a couple years. He's the love of my life to-date (no pun intended).
 _gjetost
Joined: 8/23/2012
Msg: 44
sending mail to people with interesting profiles
Posted: 11/9/2012 12:51:06 PM
I suppose that with a great many things, it depends.

All in all, whatever floats your boat. So if you feel that you should, then go ahead and send a note. If that is not something that you feel or think is work the effort, then don't.
 kierlin
Joined: 10/27/2012
Msg: 45
sending mail to people with interesting profiles
Posted: 11/10/2012 7:38:47 AM
I have sent a number of people regarding their profiles, sometimes as a way to make contact but mostly because something they said struck me as funny/cute/sad/ whatever, only one responded to date and all he said was he didn't date women with cats!! But, hope springs eternal and I won't stop because I'm having fun!!
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