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 cstev
Joined: 11/18/2006
Msg: 239
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I tend to use it more in the summer when I am wearing shorts. But again only when things aren't working the way they should. Above knee amp.
But I have had many looks when I have long pants on, actually make my limp more pronounced when I do use the spots during the cold months.
Please people... go beyond the cover.
 smith2267
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 240
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 1/19/2007 6:29:59 PM
>>C7t1: I see your name now and know what it means.

Vertebrae. Not sure how obvious that is to someone who hasn't done the whole med school/vet school thing.

BTW, in response to a previous post, I was on crutches for 6 months and probably could have gotten a handicapped placard, but didn't. I didn't want to take the spot away from people in wheelchairs.
 halfstep1
Joined: 3/30/2007
Msg: 241
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 4/18/2007 12:46:00 AM
i hate the people that park in handicaped spots that are not handicaped plus i tell them to get out if i see one going to park their with no sticker ,,alot of people park in this spots has well and just leave one person in the car ,,i tell them to get the f out of the spot and they just say my wife only has gone into the bank or gorecy store for eggs and will be right out,and i tell them well what about the handicap person that needs to do the same thing but cannot because your in the spot ,,the cops do nothing has well their to busy jerking off in Tim Hortons parking lots where we all have seen them so many times ,, love Tyler
 TheHardrock
Joined: 12/30/2005
Msg: 242
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 4/18/2007 3:12:59 AM
I'll take a chic with no tongue. caN'T **** AT ME lol. does that count?
 WelcomeBackVermonter
Joined: 3/26/2007
Msg: 243
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 4/18/2007 3:49:00 AM
I dated a 52 year old woman for several months who suffered a spinal injury a number of years ago. She is able to walk, but does so with difficulty. She is a charming, sexy woman with a firm toned body (she swims 3-4 times a week) most women in their 20's would love to have. Her handicap was an inconvenience , not a barrier. We had limits on what we can do, but we work around those issues easily. And yes, we were able to have wonderful sex too, we just couldn't be too gymnastic.
The main problem was her fear of a relationship. She was told by a "friend" shortly after her accident that she would never be appealing to men again, and she took that to heart. She insisted she can't understand why I would want to be with her, and needs constant reassurring of her desirability. It was difficult to explain to her that I could see past the injury, but things did improve. Ultimately, she broke things off because she just couldn't handle the idea of a relationship.
The point is, don't pass up the chance to date a woman you find interesting just because of a handicap. My experience was one I wouldn't trade for anything.
 Violet Tigress
Joined: 8/31/2007
Msg: 244
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 9/19/2007 12:25:58 PM

yer i think i would, i have dated 2 lads with serabulporsi b4 today, and it went ok, its just the love died and there was no click i dont let ilness get in the way as if out happened to me, i wont want lads abanded me and not date me cuz of how i am, its nt wat u are, or wat u look like it shud b


Um...what? I sure hope you don't write like this in school. This site does have a spellchecker, you know.
 livvy h
Joined: 4/12/2007
Msg: 245
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 9/19/2007 12:30:37 PM
i cant believe this is even a question, people are people regardless of anything else, if you cant take a person for who they are then i say youre shallow and need to grow up, for me as far as love and dating go, i dont discriminate based on anything, if i click with someone then i go for it.
 aroan
Joined: 7/4/2007
Msg: 246
would you date someone who is handicaped?yes iwould
Posted: 9/19/2007 12:33:50 PM
yesiwouldgodblessthemmiwishihadawomennow
 mrford68
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 247
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 9/19/2007 12:51:54 PM
i don't see the big problem i like to think of it as A LIMATION no a handicap yes having been through canser at 18
 Violet Tigress
Joined: 8/31/2007
Msg: 248
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 9/19/2007 1:04:05 PM
Thanks for the laugh.
 northwildwoodnjman1969
Joined: 4/25/2006
Msg: 249
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 12/6/2007 1:44:29 PM
Unfortmately I totaly agree with you on that. Nobody wants to date people with deformities or handicappes. I was born with a radical clubbed hand, I am missing a pinky finger on my left hand. On my right hand I am missing a thumb, and I an also blind in my left eye. All from birth. I have the same problems trying to meet women.. All they want is to be friends and nothing more. I'm sick of it, just because we have handicapps and deformities doesn't mean we don't have the same sexual desires as people who don't have degormities and handicappes. Come on people give us a chance to show you that we are just like anybody else.
 Kee2
Joined: 10/7/2006
Msg: 250
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 12/8/2007 5:29:00 AM
Yes. I would, but I guess it would depend on the physical handicap as well, but that doesn't kill it for me if I really like someone. I have been in relationships with women with some kind of physical disability before and the disability wasn't the problem.
 MissyKWFL1980
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 251
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 12/8/2007 7:02:12 AM
Hmmmmm,maybe if they let me use their parking sticker. (kidding)
i would not consider a handicap in dating or not dating a person, its all about their personality and the chemistry between us.
 jmac61
Joined: 1/16/2009
Msg: 252
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would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 1/22/2009 6:27:05 PM
my husband had a bka it never diminished my feeling for him.we were together for 8 years when he had an industrial accident he was38 when it happened and the courage and strength he showed was amazing he tought himself how to use his prosthetic to ride his motorcycle again unfortunately he died 8years later . the only real problem he ever had was there wasn't a prosthetic he didn't end up breaking with his enthusiasum for life. so to all you handicap people out there. GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!
 guyot
Joined: 5/6/2008
Msg: 253
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Posted: 1/23/2009 9:16:35 AM
Of course I would. My best relationships have all been with women who had disabilities.
 Violet Tigress
Joined: 1/12/2009
Msg: 254
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 1/28/2009 1:08:54 PM
Gordee, I wouldn't exactly put a bad heart or a lung problem in the same category as greed & deceit.
 woodarama1
Joined: 12/25/2008
Msg: 255
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 3/23/2009 1:25:30 PM
i am "handicaped" and yes i hate that word TO! if the first thing you see is the wheelchair, as in my case, then you are very shallow! we can offer alot to anyone and i bet more than most! we know things about life that most people can't even fathom. when you look in the mirror one day and then the next day you wake up in a hospital bed paralized do you see the same person? i bet you do and after awhile the person you see is better than before! everyone should realize this. we may not be able to walk but hey aren't there alot of people that can't even carry a conversation LOL. i rather be with someone i could talk to rather than a person that how can i put this nicely??? how about just plain stupid! that's my take on that wonder what you all think of that?
 myxlmynx
Joined: 12/20/2009
Msg: 256
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 1/7/2010 8:55:48 PM
Having previously dated women with physical disabilities, I would date someone with a physical disability. Some of them have the best character and biggest hearts I have ever seen.
 MissSarah25
Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 257
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 1/11/2010 1:54:34 PM
Wow, what are great question. I have dated a guy and have remained friends with him. He was born with cerebral Palsy so one side of his body is shorter than the other side. It never bothered me and still doesnt. He is healthy other than the obsticales of pain when cold weather hits, or the unbalanceness he has sometimes. We have been friends for almost 10 years. He can drive and play darts and loves football. I think if you can accept the person and accept that they have a physical handicap and believe that you can handle it and try it is amazing. We broke up because we both were on different pages of life. He was 24 and I was 19. Just at college and he was really needy. But we broke up mutually and have remained friends ever since. I am glad I took the risk and tried dating him despite the handicap. He's fun and has the most amazing smile. Anyways, I think you have to be comfortable with what the other is going through and voice your concerns and talk about things. The people whom have their handicap are uaually ok with answering those concerns and questions u may have. They usually would rather have u ask then not ask and just assume. I dont regret my decision on taking that step to get to know the person and who he is. I looked passed his handicap. I hope everyone good luck and make good decisions. Because people with handicaps need love too and want that family and kids. So be nice.
 guyot
Joined: 5/6/2008
Msg: 258
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would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 1/22/2010 10:40:02 AM
I have had relationships with women who had significant physical disabilities. They were wonderful relationships, the best of my life.

I agree with Sarah about communication- most people with disabilities are comfortable with straightforward questions, and talking is way better than not talking. These conversations can bring you closer, because they are personal and imply an interest and willingness to spend time together.

It does feel like you are taking a risk to be with someone different- but there is really no downside in discovering another person and exploring what your relationship may be like. After all, it is a risk for the disabled person too.

I wish I had an opportunity to data a disabled or physically different person!
 MaybeAsk
Joined: 2/8/2012
Msg: 259
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 2/15/2012 1:38:31 AM
depends on the H

I can date a great supermodel looking Korean chick who is in wheelchair but seriously, I cant shag to my liking.
 marita_b
Joined: 6/15/2005
Msg: 260
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Posted: 6/26/2012 9:32:44 AM
live long enough,...and sooner or later,...we all become handy caped to some degree or other,....
when you think about your answers, you might want to consider this too,.....
 darkenedsky
Joined: 4/2/2009
Msg: 261
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 6/27/2012 9:50:02 AM
I would depending on the Condition. I have Cerebral Pausy on my right side and I can do anything anyone else can if not more. It pisses me off that when someone finds out they usually leave but hell they see I can play guitar, work on my car, pull engines out, create 3d environments for games, do body work on cars, tattoos ect. So a handicap is not bad it depends on how the person perceives it and how they wish to live with it. I prefer to do my best with it and not let anything stand in my way, because I CAN do it. I know some people can't but it should be an everyday thing to challenge yourself each and everyday. Okay yes I am rambling on..
 marita_b
Joined: 6/15/2005
Msg: 262
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Posted: 6/27/2012 11:09:44 AM
IMO,....globally the biggest handicap all of have to overcome,....is P R E J U D I C E.......

It won't happen in my life,....but maybe in yours,.....darkenedsky,...I truly hope so
 GurugiGets
Joined: 6/1/2012
Msg: 263
would you date someone who is handicaped?
Posted: 6/27/2012 2:39:55 PM
It's an old thread but I've fell in love with someone who had diabetes. It runs in my family and I know it can get severe but I try
and treat them the same as with any sane person.
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