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 sarasotagal76
Joined: 6/24/2007
Msg: 10
Why cant a single father with a good career get a date?Page 2 of 2    (1, 2)
Sir, I appologise for spelling because English is my 3rd language. I also the one with good education and career. I did went out with guys who were single dads. My conclusion was that there will be quite a bit who also want to play lame games but use a factor taht they are single dads as an evidence that they are not into games. They felet it is an indication that they are serious and mature. I had a man (single father) who made it very clear that he was not into games and 4 days later made an attepmpt to play one of those standard games.

I had another who was MBA, good job full custody of a 3 y.o. who made it clear that his daughter must be always be with him (except day- care). It was way too obvious when we discussed that at leats 2 days a month (one-on-one) was not an option. I believe my expectations were reasonable and not too demanding. He believed that all dates must be together with the kid. I was willing to compromise to a reasonable level.

I believe it is my answer. My appologies for written English. From my experience when I was willing to date those guys in a sincere way with reasonable desires it was NO good. I hope I answered your question.
 fingerman075
Joined: 9/6/2006
Msg: 13
Why cant a single father with a good career get a date?
Posted: 12/19/2007 4:21:54 AM
why are you , posting for your x-hubby, maybe hes working all the time, or hes with the kids all the time,i dont know what wronge with this guy i have a new girl every 2 weeks, no shit, it takes me a week too get my tounge back into shape after ive gone down on one, you got it been devoced just 5 mo.got them coming out of the walls, what this guy problems, is he afaid too drive a 100 miles too meat them give up a few hours of driving time, what i just came back from lyons, ga. its 215 miles away, i meat a wonderfull sexy female but i wont be back till ive been with a other new female keep me from falling in love with any of them, now i have a 65 year old that wants too try my ways, what his problem tell ill give him a few address and ph , oh ya there both black and white colar never gets in my way
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