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 weR1
Joined: 11/6/2005
Msg: 101
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Smart Alec is incredibly smart
 SmartAlec
Joined: 2/8/2005
Msg: 102
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Posted: 1/3/2006 4:10:12 PM
wer - could it be the interview skills we have? hehe
 Smartie Girl
Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 103
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Posted: 2/3/2006 6:44:22 AM
this needs to come up for the newbies.....
 Really Am Me
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 104
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Posted: 2/4/2006 11:48:09 PM
Thanks smartie girl! Yes the newbies are enjoying this site.


...if some think that telling us that we are beautiful is going to impress us..well hun...think again...I myself, like to think that there is more to "me" than just a pretty face...besides I am not photogenic.


I think I have ran into him also and needless to say, that is the last thing I want to hear from a guy I first meet, so he is blocked!
 Louis Syfur
Joined: 1/30/2006
Msg: 105
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Posted: 2/4/2006 11:50:19 PM
James Bong's law is that everyone is guilty until proven innocent.
 oh-my-my
Joined: 1/28/2006
Msg: 106
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Posted: 2/4/2006 11:52:19 PM
kinky picks..................yuck
stupid questions that are all about sex, no wonder I stopped being nice... lol
Ya guilty of the stick now...........sorry people. I really tried but nice gets you walked on.
 darius99
Joined: 8/13/2004
Msg: 107
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Posted: 2/5/2006 12:29:48 AM
Okay . . . .

I have a story you might not believe, but unfortunately is true

A few month back I meet a lady who seemed nice but several times during the FIRST ( and only ) date commented how she was on medication because of her "homicidal urges to kill her exhusband". Even showed me the bottle? lol

She called me several times after that date asking why I didn't call here again.

Sad but true, she is probably currently on medication for homicidal urges to kill me for not calling her again.

I fell sorry for her, but she really needs help . . .
 oh-my-my
Joined: 1/28/2006
Msg: 108
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Posted: 2/5/2006 2:15:34 AM
Sorry to hear that, all my meds are food passage so can't help talk the
cloud she might know. Goodluck
 winnipegprincess
Joined: 1/7/2005
Msg: 109
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Posted: 2/5/2006 3:06:31 AM
All I can say is don't ignore red flags!! I told some coworkers I had red flags about a guy I was seeing and they convinced me I should give him a chance anyway. We dated for several months and were planning to move in together but while I was in the hospital having surgery he decided to take off. Had I listened to my own inner voice about him I never would have ended up in that position.

Red flags are personal a lot of the time. If you get the "no" vibe from someone you should trust your instincts and let it go, regardless of what other people think you should do.
 webspinner
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 110
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Posted: 2/5/2006 7:39:58 AM
when you come out of having a night out with other fishies and find a note on your car, saying "I watched you walk in" goes on about how nice my body is and says "will see you at work tomorrow, keep an eye out for me" and then a heart penned in
It kinda has me scared
 oops_wrong_planet
Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 111
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Posted: 2/5/2006 7:56:24 AM
definitely a RED FLAG Web, and definitely SCARY. Hang onto that note just incase you find he's a stalker, then take it to the cops.
 DanoWpg
Joined: 9/27/2005
Msg: 112
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Posted: 2/5/2006 8:29:01 AM
Yeah that is called stay the f*ck away and time for a restraining order flag
 oh-my-my
Joined: 1/28/2006
Msg: 113
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Posted: 2/5/2006 8:45:02 AM
Yikes wow that is so nasty..........that is not good
and very wrong yep cops for sure, gool luck carry a stick. And carry a
camera so you can document for court unless your phone has one.
 Really Am Me
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 114
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Posted: 2/5/2006 8:47:56 AM
Geez your own personal stalker, especially when you don't know who it is. Travel in a group, and keep your eyes open when walking to your vehicle.
 goober dippin pants
Joined: 12/7/2005
Msg: 115
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Posted: 2/5/2006 9:06:01 AM
This is off-topic,and I promise to be brief.Regarding what purrrfect pisces said-My ex husband and I are both single,and have spent the last few xmases together.Whats the point of one of us being alone? I don't think it screws up our kids at all,they have seen both of us have gf's and bf's.This past xmas my ex and roomate and me and the kids spent xmas together and it was great. I can't see something like that screwing up our kids,we have been separated for 5 years-they know we aren't getting back together.
Sorry to hijack the thread,I just wanted to get that out.Thanks!
 Really Am Me
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 116
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Posted: 2/5/2006 9:24:03 AM
Sorry goober, they "know" you aren't getting back together but always wish for it. My 17 year old taught me that when she was about 15, she was still wishing then, and it had been 11 years that we have been apart!
 supperfry
Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 117
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Posted: 2/5/2006 10:58:54 AM
Why doesnt anybody want to stalk me ?
and smartie you dont count !!
 nottaprincess
Joined: 9/17/2005
Msg: 118
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Posted: 2/5/2006 11:06:40 AM
supperfry...trust me...you do not want a stalker...

I had a real life stalker in '96...he would call me every day at 3:45pm to tell me where he watched me go that day...He would talk to me as if he knew me, but I did not recognise his voice...and if I tried to talk to him he would ignore me and continue with his conversation...it was weird...Finally I had an older friend over one afternoon when he called...she knew who it was by the look on my face and she grabbed the phone...told him "She is getting a call display phone you ********* ***** ********...and if you ever ******* call here again she is reporting you to the police!!!!

He never called again...but that doesn't mean he wasn't still around...and to think, I was a stay at home mommy at the time...

The thing that pissed me off the most about the whole thing was my ex husband told me there was nothing he could/would do about it...wasn't even concerned...even if it was true, he was supposed to be the one I could/should turn to when I needed help...Red Flag...your SO isn't concerned when you have a problem...
 goober dippin pants
Joined: 12/7/2005
Msg: 119
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Posted: 2/5/2006 1:09:36 PM
Really Am Me,you are prolly right....I was in a broken home and wished for my parents to get back together too.I don't think I am harming my kids tho,they seem pretty happy.At least they aren't in the middle of some custody battle,or being used as pawns by a pissed off mother...I've seen it happen.Thanks for your input,Me!
 Smartie Girl
Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 120
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Posted: 2/5/2006 8:04:11 PM
So all my fish friends....I know you keep a watchful eye...


If you chatted with someone once and then they sent several emails..and then you get this ...what would you think?


"i want more than friend i will wait for you and be friend until you are ready to grow in love with me soon we will grown do not be scared"

You guys all wonder why I'm single!!! You try dealing with stuff like this...and try not to hurt someone's feelings in the process of..trying to find a suitable partner...

So does this explain why I don't chat anymore..or why I don't trust about 98% of you guys on here!! Omg call me jaded..haha think it's time to go hang with my buds at the Anti- Valentine's Party!!

 Really Am Me
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 121
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Posted: 2/5/2006 8:19:03 PM
Tell the guy he will be waiting a freaken long time because you have too much to do, i.e. valentine parties with the sane people! (or insane in our world!)
 DanoWpg
Joined: 9/27/2005
Msg: 122
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Posted: 2/5/2006 8:47:17 PM

"i want more than friend i will wait for you and be friend until you are ready to grow in love with me soon we will grown do not be scared"


Awwww Smartie, do you have to share EVERY piece of email I send you?? Now everybody knows!!

On behalf of the male species I'd like to apologize for the freak-a-zoids out there in the pond.
 Smartie Girl
Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 123
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Posted: 2/5/2006 8:48:40 PM
Would you recommend the block...and that be it or just ignore the poor soul..omg!
 DanoWpg
Joined: 9/27/2005
Msg: 124
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Posted: 2/5/2006 8:54:23 PM
Oh I dunno...I'd probably make some sort of comment before blocking
 Smartie Girl
Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 125
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Posted: 2/5/2006 8:55:11 PM
Ok thanks Dano...
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