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 paulajenel
Joined: 1/21/2009
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If that is what makes a person happy whoam I to say no. Women have for years been wearing mens sweat shirts etc etc for years so yeah I would.
 barbiebabeRN
Joined: 7/31/2011
Msg: 49
girls do you like crossdressers
Posted: 2/22/2012 7:18:34 PM
Prefer men clean shaven, no facial hair and only for the bedroom! Clothes don't make a man.
 Easyman1004
Joined: 5/17/2011
Msg: 50
Re: girls do you like crossdressers
Posted: 6/20/2012 12:10:54 AM
Ladies, would you be interested in dating or being with a crossdresser?

Would you allow yourself to be with or be seen with a crossdresser?

If you found out that the person you were dating or seeing was a crossdresser what would you do?
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
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Posted: 6/20/2012 11:46:58 AM
There's onl;y 2 occasions that I'll even Consider X-dressing.....

A _Designated_ Costume Party...
...and...
Halloween !
 Indysweetpea2001_
Joined: 8/1/2008
Msg: 52
Re: girls do you like crossdressers
Posted: 6/24/2012 10:10:00 AM
I am open to it. If I am attracted to the guy and enjoy his personality, then will what clothing he has on make a difference? He is the same person no matter what clothing he has on at the moment.
 Indysweetpea2001_
Joined: 8/1/2008
Msg: 53
Re: girls do you like crossdressers
Posted: 6/27/2012 3:28:43 PM
Lol I grew up in upstate, NY close to Canada. The Canadians when we wild Americans went over the border always knew right away we were Americans. I would say based on my experiences there that Canadians maybe a bit more normal than the average American. Things may have changes though since I moved to the midwest. lol
 Pritymoka
Joined: 9/24/2010
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girls do you like crossdressers
Posted: 6/27/2012 4:54:46 PM
I once saw a porn with a Tranny...got very turned on. She didn't look at all like a guy, but had a legit huge guy part, and knew what he/she was doing with said guy part.

Made me pearl and all, but in a real life situation, would I let he/she poke me? Nah, it'd probably freak me out if put in my face. I'd run like the wind! lol!
 larissan04
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 55
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Posted: 6/27/2012 7:51:58 PM
no. no. no. no. i would never date a man that wore women's clothing. i think it's very unsexy.
 purfectmeow
Joined: 4/17/2012
Msg: 56
girls do you like crossdressers
Posted: 6/27/2012 8:00:57 PM
Only if they are better looking than me as a female, and want to take me shopping :)
Shoot Im pretty strange so who am I to judge someone else?
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 6/27/2012 8:10:12 PM
No........I would not date a man that dresses like a woman.....
I also would not date a man that wears polyester pants all the time......
or is always in sweat pants or running pants.....
or wears black socks with his jean shorts and white tee shirt......
or with his pants hanging off his ass......

It's called preferences......not being close minded.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 6/27/2012 9:08:58 PM

.. and that starts with "t" and that rhymes with "p" and that stands for pool.

Ok ...it's late........I'm tired and did a few hours of hard Algebra tonight......WTH does that mean?! LOL

Call it a social norm.......or whatever you please......
I have no judgements what-so-ever about cross dressers.....
and I'm not real picky on looks (or height).......
I just know what kind of man I prefer....and it's not one that likes to look like a girl.
I'm also not into these "metro men".......mainly because I'm a redneck, country girl and I have nothing in common with a city fellar that spends more time on his appearance than I do!!
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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Posted: 6/28/2012 12:19:01 AM
NO, NO, NO. I like men who look like men. I do like long hair on men and I do like eyeliner on men. Long hair and eyeliner, is a musician type look. I do NOT like men who dress like women or who wear make up like women. Long hair and eyeliner can make men more handsome MEN. Long hair and eyeliner on men can be worn as to NOT look like a girl.
In reference to Hearts-Dominion's post, kilts are not a female thing for Scottish men, who have worn them It is a traditional male Scottish thing and not a crossdresser thing.
 GJBrown
Joined: 9/12/2011
Msg: 60
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Posted: 8/31/2013 1:15:39 PM
^^^^ Now that your sort of female doesn't that make you straight? haha

But back on topic Its great to be yourself and dress in ways that make you happy but If you are a man that dresses like a woman you must not want to attract women.
 showermate
Joined: 12/23/2014
Msg: 61
girls do you like crossdressers
Posted: 1/1/2015 1:12:03 PM
yes..i love the feminine form even if it a man in a woman body
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 62
girls do you like crossdressers
Posted: 1/1/2015 5:28:25 PM
a guy who cross dresses would be a turn off for me. I get that women's fabrics etc are more attractive and sensual in the main but a man who likes to actually wear a dress and heels, not for me. They often look strange and quite unattractive especially if they are a bigger build and hairy. Women can wear whatever, mens' trousers, shirts etc and still look fine. Not quite fair is it!!!
 ajp3
Joined: 9/30/2012
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Posted: 1/2/2015 10:56:23 AM
Some men look good as women, but for me dating and being involved with someone who enjoys crossdressing? Not my thing. Ex boyfriend liked to wear my thongs, um total turn off for me.
 tall_fit
Joined: 12/13/2014
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Posted: 1/3/2015 9:49:37 AM
No. I want to date men that look like men. I don't think being a crossdresser is a bad thing. But I'm not attracted to it.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
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Posted: 1/3/2015 10:32:27 AM
a man who likes to actually wear a dress and heels, not for me. They often look strange and quite unattractive especially if they are a bigger build and hairy. Women can wear whatever, mens' trousers, shirts etc and still look fine.


Agreed. A woman can wear a button down dress shirt with slacks and a suit jacket and still look natural and attractive. Men wearing skirts or dresses.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 1/3/2015 3:02:34 PM
Male transvestites are referred to as "traps". As in, "It's a trap!".
...I watch too much anime...(sigh)
Basically I see the whole cross dressing thing as a type of cosplay. I tend to critique everything, and get annoyed if I feel like they don't put enough effort into it. Seriously, I trap should not have 5 oclock shadow!!!

On topic though, I have never heard of women who were hot and bothered over them, but I wouldn't be surprised if they existed. There are weirder fetishes out there than liking traps.
 XTC1977
Joined: 7/9/2014
Msg: 67
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Posted: 1/4/2015 6:06:00 AM
I was recently told by a female that I'd look great in eyeliner. Now I have no problem with crossdressers (Enjoy your life, I say.) but I must admit that I had to take a knee and collect myself after that one.
 tall_fit
Joined: 12/13/2014
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Posted: 1/4/2015 1:21:57 PM
Agreed. A woman can wear a button down dress shirt with slacks and a suit jacket and still look natural and attractive. Men wearing skirts or dresses.


I have worn similar outfits to business meetings, social functions, and dates when I didn't have enough time to change clothes. Sometimes I will get compliments about my wardrobe. Men wearing dresses to these events certainly will not get the same reception.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 1/4/2015 2:31:34 PM
^^^^
But how much would it suck if the guy looked better in a dress than they do? I find the thought of that prospect pretty funny.
 Jungle_Monkey
Joined: 10/18/2014
Msg: 70
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Posted: 1/2/2016 10:45:57 PM
i really like your answer! i would do what i could to resemble a women of your fantasy.
 Jungle_Monkey
Joined: 10/18/2014
Msg: 71
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Posted: 1/2/2016 10:49:40 PM
yup me right here, as I am also a lovely CD!
 platypus_man
Joined: 8/29/2007
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Posted: 1/3/2016 1:17:08 AM
Not sure who you're responding to. This thread is already 11 years old, and the last post is a year old. Of the several threads on this topic which you will find on this forum, it's been disclosed that there were less than a handful of women who would even consider dating a crossdresser. Most studies show that about 99% won't date a crossdresser, and the remaining 1% won't seek us out intentionally; that, because there's no upside for her to do it. Women enjoy having an impressive man as a companion, and a crossdresser is the last thing she wants to tell her girlfriends that she's dating. And so...The best advice I've gotten, would be to befriend gay women and get them to take you along to their bars where you could potentially meet staight, or bi-curious women who, while attracted to females, aren't really ready to have sex or any other physical contact with another woman. Those women are your 'market', and there's pretty much no other way to find them. You'll have to learn female dating body language (read Leil Lowndes 'U.S.S.' to learn this) as well as be able to talk to these women without seeming to be just interested in sex. Good luck. You're going to need it. I've been on personal ad sites now for almost 20 years, and have gotten less than 5 responses from women who knew this about me. (OTOH, on sites where I don't disclose this, I get plenty of responses from women, so it's not the rest of me that's a problem, just the crossdressing).
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