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 platypus_man
Joined: 8/29/2007
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An instant turn on.......well, an attractive woman, dressed somewhat revealingly, wearing the right perfume, maintaining some sort of physical contact but not progressing to more intimate sexual contact faster than I am, basically acting like we've already been lovers in the past, you know, where casual physical contact is assumed, preening gestures of me, lots of things. OR.....if at some point during a date it becomes obvious that she's taken off her underwear, that might do it too.
 BowLove
Joined: 2/8/2009
Msg: 275
SECRETS.....Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Posted: 3/30/2009 4:09:59 PM
your smile ...

& sweet kisses
 FmrJarhead
Joined: 2/15/2008
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/2/2009 10:41:17 AM
I love a man with a sense of humor...If he can laugh at himself and find humor in life, he's a winner! A great laugh and smile are right up there too. A guy that laughs at my silly jokes shows me he cares enough to fake it, hahaha I love a man that knows what he's doing and can read women...knows what they want and delivers it with such precision it's unbelivable! I've only known ONE man like that and will be especially happy when he returns.

Turn offs: Demeaning men, arrogance, conceit and men that flirt with other women while with you!
 EligibleWMFish
Joined: 5/19/2009
Msg: 277
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:16:54 PM
Nothing turns me on more than a great smelling woman.

As for turn offs, Proverbs 21:9 has it right. Nothing is worse than a quarrelsome woman.
 SandraB56
Joined: 10/16/2008
Msg: 278
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/28/2009 2:30:01 PM
Grey hair and brown eyes. A wicked sense of humour and a great smile.
Turn offs are offensive personal hygenie, snobbishness, put downs.
 Tarnished_Knight
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/28/2009 4:37:39 PM
while I'm partial to some outer and some more discreet optional clothing, ahem, what is a total turn on for me is a woman who thinks and acts upon the following:

1) I'm funny;
2) intelligent;
3) enjoyable to be around;
4) not only physically attractive but, get this, sexy; and
5) is neither afraid nor ashamed to be seen with me.

Oh, and it would also help if she exists outside my imagination!

TK
{alright, I admit it: I've been looking for a loooooong time }
 scottiscool
Joined: 3/23/2006
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/28/2009 4:53:12 PM
A nice Butt walking away from me. Knowing it will be back.!!....LOL
 dynomiteman4u
Joined: 4/12/2008
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/28/2009 6:47:20 PM
The best turn on is when she says she really likes me & looks at me with her warn & beautiful eyes. I catch her turning away, but I still catch her looking back at me with that special sparkle in her eye.

The opposite would be when she says to the wattress..."Check Please" !
I had a lovely date once that was cut short over politics...bad move on my part...she was lovely, but our political differences were too much of a turn off for her, so she said to the wattress..."Check Please"...
 HazelRose
Joined: 6/15/2009
Msg: 282
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/29/2009 1:23:51 AM
Turn On- Tall, sharp wit, and great dental hygeine
Turn Off- Weakness, no sense of humor, and bad hygeine

I love healthy and funny guys. If taller than me when wearing heels, even better.
 bgrumling
Joined: 2/28/2008
Msg: 283
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/30/2009 12:16:18 PM
long dark hair, sparkeling eyes, glasses and tight jeans. and cow girl hats or sting or thong bikkins or the suthern women. nothin like a gal in a tight pair of jeans with a suthern accent. cowboy hat and sunglasses. ya can have the california girls. ill take a good ole down home kuntry suthern gal anyday
 thecheekychick
Joined: 10/18/2008
Msg: 284
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/30/2009 2:49:50 PM
holding my face while kissing.. it makes me go crazy!
 soldiergirl99
Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 285
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/11/2009 9:49:06 PM
It would have to be....men that are tall. 6"2 or more makes me weak and of course a good spanking ; )
 Monkey_brains
Joined: 6/25/2009
Msg: 286
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/11/2009 11:08:24 PM
Brutal honesty.....rocks my boat....
 Monkey_brains
Joined: 6/25/2009
Msg: 287
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/12/2009 3:57:03 AM
okay wait....^^^...ummm....I take that back....

not....and kinda yuckieeee....
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 288
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/12/2009 1:09:54 PM
Daayymmm, 7Rainbows, you are one helluva woman!

Most of your list, however, is not immediately apparent, or discoverable. For me, a warm smile, lips that part in anticipation shortly before I step into her dance space, an honest soul bold enough to step into mine, and meet me, quite literally, in the middle, waives all sorts of lesser wishes on my list.
Oh, a keen sense of her own sexuality, and mine, is next on my short list.
 drashell21
Joined: 12/3/2008
Msg: 289
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/12/2009 3:48:42 PM
I like having my hair pulled and my neck kissed while a Guy is behind me..
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 2:58:50 PM
An instant turn on would be meeting or talking to someone who wasn't insane or misleading in some way. A person on a dating site who is normal. It will never happen but that would be the biggest turn on of all.
 Elegabalus
Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 291
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 3:07:55 PM
turn on: something fun, random, or adventurous.

turn off: something mundane, repetitive, or naggy

this applies to actions as well as words. As to "almost perfect" or "all over" maybe not so much. Few single things can be said or done to make one perfect or get the boot.
 cinsav
Joined: 6/10/2009
Msg: 292
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 5:59:09 PM
Turn ons:

Features: I'm an ass man. Yep, I am. You know who Shakira is? (Latina figures).

Dress: Something about the whole librarian / teacher / business look does it for me. Oh and those damned spandex workout pants you all wear at the gym. Please stop.

Attitude: Confidence with a little sarcasm (not over the top to the point of obnoxious however).

Physical: In shape / athletic / thin / the lower scale of “about average” if you have the right curves.

Intelligence. Some sophistication (you actually KNOW what Sushi is and have at least once in your life been to a reservation only restaurant). Sense of humor and can laugh at the occasional adult joke.

Turn offs:

Features: Flat ass or an ass the size of a Winnebago.

Dress: Hmmm… I’ll go with cut off lime green sweat pants with a tube top and flip flops. Not sexy.

Attitude: Vain. Narcissistic. Patronizing. Know it all.

Physical: The higher end of “about average” on up.

Intelligence: Can’t complete a sentence without using words or phrases like “lookie here.”

Other:

Smoking. Being overly “country." Condescending views of my particular forms of entertainment.
 HazelRose
Joined: 6/15/2009
Msg: 293
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 6:17:24 PM
A keen intellect followed by a strong T-shape. Not skinny, but a wiry swimmer /capoiera frame is fine. I love strength and intelligence. It fits the ancient Roman creed that a strong body is followed by a strong mind. Not a fake strength gained from popping steroids! LOL I love nice shoulders and arms.
 StarreGazer
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 294
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 6:24:11 PM
An "Instant Turn On"? A foxy woman who tells me she is my sex slave.

Conversely, a PERMANENT **TURN-OFF** is a woman who shuts me down when
I am horney. A Shut-Down ENDS the relationship PERMANENTLY.

I am MONAGAMOUS by NATURE, but if a woman chooses to destroy our
relationship, I truly MUST move on, PREFERABLY to someone who is
capable of appreciating me.
 glennwih
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 295
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 9:34:11 PM
Really clear and healthy skin. That glow look. Don't chain smoke and stay up all night.
 jacob8088
Joined: 9/6/2009
Msg: 296
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 9/27/2009 1:15:10 PM
Turn on= Her on all four's with her a** in the air, waiting patiently.

Turn offs=A smelly tw*t
 Holleyhomes
Joined: 3/17/2007
Msg: 297
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 9/28/2009 12:02:56 AM
I have to agree with the feminine thing is a turn-on 4 me. If a girl wears a skirt or dress she will always get my attention 1st...
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 298
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 9/28/2009 3:17:12 PM
pony tails

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