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Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 101
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turn ons.....coming up behind me and gently kissing me on
the back of the neck....kissing and nibbling on my neck and
back of my knees absolutely makes me melt. A guy fresh
out of the shower in nothing but a towel slung low on the
hips with droplets of water on a beautiful hairy chest that
disappears into the towel. Tight blue jeans, no shirt and
bare feet....clean cut beards or goatees and OMG cologne that
takes my breath away.....smoky, sexy looks that say he wants
me now....slow deliberate love making for hours and hours.....
hard, fast love making for hours and hours........feeling his weight
on me........long looks from across the room.

I guess I have more than I thought.

offs......macho, he-men who think they're God's gift to women
......arrogance, racism, big egos.....
Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 103
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Posted: 1/28/2007 3:46:42 PM
my biggest turn, on is seeing a women bend" over i have a serious butt fetish, i love to spank a women's butt my biggest turn off is bad breath.
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 105
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/19/2007 1:23:48 AM

Instant Turn on ... A man in glasses whispering in a delicate but firm kind of way "COME HERE NIKKI"

Sounds like you still have a thing for your phys ed teacher.
Joined: 12/6/2005
Msg: 106
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Posted: 2/20/2007 11:57:35 AM
BIG NIPPLES, could be lactating could be interesting
Joined: 2/15/2007
Msg: 107
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/20/2007 12:51:33 PM
Instant turn on's: Okay besides outside of being tall leggy fine brunette:

Direct eye contact.
Assertion..Not overly aggressive-initially, but assertive enough to get right close, right now.
Watching him..Period..The way he stands, walks, smells..
Love deep voices, whispering in your ear..Whatever they want to whisper..Sigh..
Playing with hands and fingers..Nice thick fingers, big hands.
Kissing him on the neck, small of the back, when he's least expecting it. Ie: doing dishes, shaving, etc..

Turn offs In general:
Long hair
Selfish lovers
Dirty nails/hands.
Not into kissing/necking.

Turn off's: After its all done and said:
Thinking he's getting out of bed too fast..I'm having him again!
Not cleaning up after we're ALL done for the time being.
Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 108
being told to lick my female partners ass.....
Posted: 2/20/2007 1:57:57 PM
the site of her hot creamy chocolate hole waiting to be licked by my hungry tongue ! ummmm....that musty scent.....
Joined: 2/14/2007
Msg: 109
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/20/2007 9:22:20 PM
An instant turn on is for me when he grabs me in his arms and kisses me like he is so hot for me he can't wait another second. In bed anything go's spank me call me a B*tch pull hair talk nasty you know who's your boss kind of thing I don't say who's your daddy because the instant thought of sleeping with my dad is gross and that is my turn off.
Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 110
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/22/2007 11:27:06 PM
A kiss on the neck or the ear. Instant turn on. Shhhhhhh. Don't tell.
Joined: 1/22/2007
Msg: 111
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/24/2007 8:53:42 PM
ok turn on..hmm for him to kiss me after a blowjob where he has came in my mouth..gotta love a man who isnt afraid to share what he tastes like.. that and one who knows how to find my weaknesses and use them to his advantage:)

turn off.. would have to be arrogance.. like he is IT..
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 112
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/24/2007 10:12:58 PM
Turn On: An ex of mine, knowing that I had a particularly stressfull day at work. Would be on the bed naked, warming herself up, when I walked in the door. Watching her double clicking the mouse would solicit and immediate reaction.

Turn Off: Talking about anything other than sex, during sex. That same ex, in the middle of a spirited session, would tell me about new positions that her parents had tried. Come on!!
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 114
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Posted: 2/25/2007 8:05:56 PM
-When she gives that sexy look when you know exactly what she's thinking.

-Kissing my neck and whispering in my ear.
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 115
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/28/2007 10:17:14 PM
Turnon: Kisses on the neck and soft words
Turnoff: Arrogance & dishonesty
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 116
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/3/2007 9:30:20 PM
Women are a marvel of creation.

Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 117
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/3/2007 10:16:41 PM
i love it when a women bend's over in the front of me.
Joined: 10/7/2006
Msg: 118
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Posted: 3/7/2007 5:40:16 PM
turn ons: the right cologne, masculine hands, good facial structure, dark hair (but have also recently gotten into blondes as well), etc.

turn offs: foul-smelling cologne, bulging muscles, bulging guts, bones sticking out, wearing smelly/hole-covered clothes, smoking, racism, etc.

that's all i can come up w/ @ the moment.
Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 119
Posted: 3/7/2007 6:57:54 PM
turn on-when hes grabs my hair from behind and kisses my neck
turn off- when he constantly tells me what he wants, im a girl.. tell me once and ill remember
Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 120
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/7/2007 7:14:51 PM
Instant turn on - When you look into her eyes and all you see is magic
Joined: 7/14/2006
Msg: 121
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/8/2007 5:22:47 PM
This might be a little kinkier than most of the other answers.....but here goes. A lot of different things can turn me on during a certain moment......but this just makes me say ummmmmm! I love to see my man stroke himself in front of me. I guess because the view is awsome! I also think it's because he's not affraid to let me in on a private thing he does and I also like it when he watches me or we watch each other at the same time....ummmmmm!!!
Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 122
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/13/2007 7:57:57 PM
...She sneaks up behind me. slides her hands down my chest and around my neck. And purrs sweet words in my ear... "Hey baby" and then gets a quick nibble of the edge of my ear. Then she spins me around in my desk chair, pulls me up by my shirt, raps her arms around neck and engages me in a deep passionate kiss.

Turn offs.......mixed signals, cheats......
Joined: 7/21/2006
Msg: 123
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/13/2007 11:28:30 PM
I really love to come home after work and sees my girl with a nice pedicure and wearing nothing but one of my long tee shirts witha smell of perfume.OHH that drives my to hour of sex any which way but loose.
Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 124
Posted: 7/14/2007 3:13:45 PM
Nothing like a man's big hands anywhere on me!!
Joined: 1/9/2007
Msg: 125
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Posted: 7/14/2007 4:40:09 PM

Instant turn on for me would have to the KISS. I looove to be kissed slowly and affectionately while he gingerly sucks my bottom lip! Gets me EVERY SINGLE TIME! Another instant turn on is playing with my nipples... absolutely LOVE it.

Turn off?... a guy not wanting to break outta his shell and be a little wild and different. Also getting his before I get mine...NOT good...
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