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 Captain Sargasmo
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 4
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ah...something i know something about!

~ remember, that just like a woman, there's a very sensitive spot on the penis...the head. deepthroating is a great way to show off, but the head is where it's at.

~ eye contact. i love it when a woman looks up at me while she's going down on me. yummy!

~ please, and i'm only going to ask you once...leave my ass alone. yes, i've tried having someone insert a finger, but other than being horribly uncomfortable, it really didn't do much for me. not all guys are like this...in fact...it could be just me.

~ lick, suck, nibble, whatever...but change it up a little now and again. sure, you can marathon head-bob till i cum, but where's the fun in that?

~ spit, swallow, gargle, play with it...i don't care...once i'm done with it, you can do whatever you want with it. one condition tho...i don't want it back.
 Captain Sargasmo
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 9
going downtown
Posted: 12/13/2005 7:06:47 PM
as well it should...

poo comes from there!!
 Captain Sargasmo
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 12
going downtown
Posted: 12/13/2005 7:14:54 PM
there's a word for that.

"hummer"

gotta get those good vi-brations a-happenin'...
 mustangsally1273
Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 12/13/2005 7:21:37 PM
"poo comes from there!! "-CAPTAIN, ROTFLMAO!!! So true!!! UGH! And the head-bb can end up being a turn off after awhile I would think...wouldn't it get sore?

I thought this was just a talent we were born with...must be cause I'm a smoker...lol
 Captain Sargasmo
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 17
going downtown
Posted: 12/13/2005 7:25:57 PM
it's entirely possible that i just fell in love.
 Captain Sargasmo
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 24
going downtown ... personal preference ONLY
Posted: 12/13/2005 7:56:10 PM
oh yeah...

and the gagging thing...

not so much.

the last thing i want is to have her making sounds like she's going to vomit on mr. happy.
 mustangsally1273
Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 25
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going downtown ... personal preference ONLY
Posted: 12/13/2005 8:08:54 PM
Can't see the give and take being so hot with that one...(you spit on me, I vomit on you!)...Ugh!
 LMAN_67
Joined: 7/13/2005
Msg: 26
going downtown ... personal preference ONLY
Posted: 12/13/2005 8:09:51 PM

it's entirely possible that i just fell in love.
..
im with the captain...
 brawnydog
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 31
going downtown
Posted: 12/13/2005 9:11:02 PM
I know I'm good at it


Yeah. You must be if you made a guy cum by sucking his c0ck.
Only an expert could.

oh my....what's next? Could you do the dishes? moo
 brawnydog
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 33
going downtown
Posted: 12/13/2005 9:15:02 PM

so thats what facials are for right???? just in case it IS too much???????
lol you might wanna shave first.....hard to comb out.
 brawnydog
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 35
going downtown
Posted: 12/13/2005 9:28:45 PM

brawny baby...you crack me up...! and i'll do your dirty dishes anytime at all...:)

Thanks Admin....delete my pro please. I found my fish.
 Sodamfly
Joined: 12/11/2005
Msg: 36
going downtown
Posted: 12/13/2005 10:16:11 PM
"one condition tho...i don't want it back."

LMAO...
 Sodamfly
Joined: 12/11/2005
Msg: 37
going downtown
Posted: 12/13/2005 10:25:41 PM

message you are replying to:
Posted By: yadayadayada on 12/13/2005 754 PM
Subject: going downtown
Message: another few tips...


its all about visuals

looking at him in that sexy "i love your c0ck" sorta way while youre licking from the base of his shaft all the way up to his head with one long wet stroke is a neat trick. When your head is bobbing up and down..make sure it looks like he's HUGE! *In his head he's thinking "yeah, baby suck on my huge c0ck."

Make sure to look at him while youre going up and down...or you have his balls in your mouth...its all about eye contact..

spitting on his head is also pretty hot




men do like sounds...

moan cause you just love it so much

make yourself gag on it cause its so big

talk to him and tell him how great his dlck is and how much you love sucking on it.



as for his man seed: my personal preference is a facial..if youre going to do that...try your hardest to look at him with your tongue out...wipe off the excess and suck it off your fingers...and lick your lips when it's over..

if youre going to swallow and have a gag reflex: dont stop sucking him off until he's entirely done cumming....make sure to suck, not just bob your head.

if you CAN swallow that dlck like you havent had a thing to eat in a week..

and if youre going to spit..have a drink nearby....smile after he's done and say "thank you" as best you can (try talking with another liquid in your mouth before doing this) ..so he thinks you swallowed...pretend to take a drink of whatever is handy and spit it into that..he'll never know.


this is what works for me...but it might just be the men I date.....



i feel like i just watched a porn... personally i think if you don;t like jiz in your mouth you shouldn;t have to put on a performance about it.
 brawnydog
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 38
going downtown
Posted: 12/13/2005 10:28:49 PM

personally i think if you don;t like jiz in your mouth


Yuppers....don't put a c0ck in it then.
 Sodamfly
Joined: 12/11/2005
Msg: 39
going downtown
Posted: 12/13/2005 10:42:18 PM
ok so i finally got through all the goods... and i have some advice i would like to share with you cause i think it might help... although i may repeat what other have stated to some extent. i'm not gonna get too detailed, but first off sometimes it is more enjoyable when a man is trimmed down there... so you might want to tip your boy off if he isn't, secondly this shouldn;t feel like a task... you like this guy? you want to please him? you want him to lose control? well that's one of the greatest things to keep in mind... i don;t really want to go into my personal life about giving head but i can tell you that when you have the desire, and get your mind in the right headframe, you don;t really need advice... as someone said before... it does come naturally... just experiment and have fun, communication can be good, i think the dumbest thing you can do those is put on a performance... perhaps you won't be the best at giving head in the beginning but if you allow yourself to be an ammature at it you will sooner be a pro who knows what they enjoy and he enjoys rather then an actress or porn star... men want a freak in the sheets, but they want you as a freak, not some role... i'm sure you have a lusty side...

less concentration on technics and more on understanding what you can do "there" and how it affects him can make the situation a lot more fun... good luck. -SS
 Lord Temujin
Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 41
going downtown
Posted: 12/14/2005 12:50:10 AM
Bah...dun much care how well it is done on myself...I have always been one more for the pleasure of the woman...loove the taste of a woman...can drink her for hours..*cracks his neck slowly* biting..nibling licking sucking...screw it..I would do it just for the sounds a woman makes as she peaks, the flavor is just icing on the cake
 oneafternoon
Joined: 3/15/2005
Msg: 42
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going downtown
Posted: 12/14/2005 12:52:20 AM
Nothing say's i love you like going down town with that speciall girl on a cold day in december
 metalust
Joined: 11/10/2005
Msg: 46
going downtown
Posted: 12/15/2005 3:03:58 AM
Some women swallow just so it doesn't make such a mess. Guys like it if a chick swallows their load, so you should at least try it, c'mon it can't be that bad!

Other people on here are right, the main thing with head is to act like you're super interested in pleasuring the guy; enthusiasm is key. Eye contact is very important, because guys are visual and they want to see you looking very intense and sexy while you're doing it. The physical sensation isn't quite enough for me to go over the edge and what really helps is passion and intensity on the girl's part. Variety helps keep it interesting. Gagging to me is a turn-off, it makes me feel guilty. Guys are kinda like girls in this way... our equipment is probably more similar than different. So if you know what YOU like, the same kind of thing (on a larger scale) will probably work for us. A lot of teasing and slow licking, sucking the head, lick the balls a little, basically tease it real good and once he's going crazy, then go for the money shot with strong, steady, rhythmic sucking, increase speed and intensity until he blows. Guys are generally less sensitive than women (our stuff is exposed to open air more, well at least those of us who are circumcised, and this reduces the sensitivity), so for me at least, a little nibbling is ok. If he's having a hard time coming, try squeezing the very base of the shaft really hard while you're sucking the head hard and flicking the tip with your tongue.

Or if you can deep-throat without gagging, that'll work too.

Have you ever considered just asking your man what he wants? Every guy probably wants it a little bit different than everyone else. And if you do the same thing every time he'll get bored with it. There's no "magic recipe", just be creative and very enthusiastic.
 Captain Sargasmo
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 49
going downtown
Posted: 12/15/2005 2:02:53 PM
Rebuttal:

1. First and foremost, we are not obligated to do it.

~ true. but if you don't, we'll find someone younger and prettier than you who will. maybe your cute friend?

2. Extension to rule #1 - So if you get one, be grateful.

~ always grateful for one...keep 'em coming.

3. I don't care WHAT they did in the porn video you saw, it is not standard practice to cum on someone's face.

~ since when? your friend likes it.

4. Extension to rule #3 - No, I DON'T have to swallow.

~ no...you don't. once it's no longer in my posession, do with it what you like. it's yours now. just don't freak out and run to the bathroom while trying to scream through my (correction, it's now your goo.

5. My ears are NOT handles.

~ then try developing some rhythm...would you rather a leash?

6. Extension to rule #5 - do not push on the top of my head. Last I heard, deep throat had been done. And additionally, do you really WANT puke on your****

~ ok...i can't rebutt this one.

7. I don't care HOW relaxed you get, it is NEVER OK to fart.

~ aw...come on...just a little? you queef all the time!

8. Having my period does not mean that it's "hummer week" - get it through your head - I'm bloated and I feel like shit so no, I don't feel particularly obligated to blow you just because YOU can't have sex right now.

~ what was your cute friend's number again?

9. Extension to #8 - "Blue Balls" might have worked on high school girls - if you're that desperate, go jerk off and leave me alone with my Midol.

~ see above.

10. If I have to pause to remove a pubic hair from my teeth, don't tell me I've just "wrecked it" for you.

~ pubic hair? we don't need no stinkin' pubic hair!

11. Leaving me in bed while you go play video games immediately afterwards is highly inadvisable if you would like my behavior to be repeated in the future.

~ it was either that, or fart near you...you made your preference clear back there on #7

12. If you like how we do it, it's probably best not to speculate about the origins of our talent. Just enjoy the moment and be happy that we're good at it. See also rule #2 about gratitude.

~ so...what your saying is..."don't ask, don't tell?" can we make that appliciable for me too?

13. No, it doesn't particularly taste good. And I don't care about the protein content.

~ if you didn't have a problem with that whole facial thing, we'd have the problem solved!!

14. No, I will NOT do it while you watch TV.

~ again...no rebuttal here...just leave the lights on.

15. When you hear your friends complain about how they don't get blow jobs often enough, keep your mouth shut. It is inappropriate to either sympathize or brag.

~ why not? if i'm sympathizing, it means i should be calling that friend of yours. you know the one with the tongue piercing who wears those short little skirts...

16. Just because "it's awake" when you get up does not mean I have to "kiss it good morning."

~ no...you don't have to...that just means i'm going to spend all day thinking about how much better morning ettiquitte your friend probably has...

the preceeding post is intended only in jest, and has been brought to you by the letters M, S and B.
 Lord Temujin
Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 50
going downtown
Posted: 12/15/2005 2:08:43 PM
My ****ing god...O.O that was good...****...my guts hurt...ow....
 Captain Sargasmo
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 52
going downtown
Posted: 12/16/2005 12:29:53 PM
yes! i'd seen that years ago...and mine was based loosely on what i could remember.

the rest...ad lib.
 Captain Sargasmo
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 54
going downtown
Posted: 12/16/2005 1:25:12 PM
dunno...i have a gay friend who loves to have his foreskin chewed...his b/f was saying that he was scared to bite as hard as he wanted him to...

yikes!!
 mustangsally1273
Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 55
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Posted: 12/16/2005 2:18:18 PM
O CAPTAIN, my Captain....that was just too much info I think!!! Ugh! And Yikes is very appropriate!!!
 mikerdw
Joined: 9/29/2005
Msg: 56
going downtown
Posted: 12/16/2005 4:15:38 PM
well, everyone seems to have their own preferences. i can tell you mine (and i will) but the best thing is to listen and feel (it should not be hard to tell) what your guy enjoys as you try lots of different things. be creative, try lots of different things and then do what he likes.

for me personally (and ive been lucky enough to have experienced LOTS of different "techniques"):

1. a little licking, a litle sucking, a little finger stimulation by the a$$hole, start slow, get faster, make it very very wet, start by going not so deep, then get deeper, variation.

2. DONT ACT. making sounds is definitely a big turn on but NOT if it sounds the least bit fake.

3. dont just go up and down fast! you have to SUCK. its gotta be a suction, while pressing your lips around me. now TOO much suction can hurt so dont do it as hard as you can or anything but definitely make it a nice TIGHT seal.

4. and finally, SWALLOW. and enjoy it. every bit. very important. nothing better.
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