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 acgoat
Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 196
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Not overly concerned if she goes down as long as she lets me go down on her
 djsendsasmile
Joined: 2/2/2005
Msg: 199
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/6/2007 8:54:34 AM
No way. If they couldn't do oral sex, they have too many hangups, which means they aren't a sensual person who truly gets pleasure out of pleasing their partner. You know that only means BORING sex. That is unthinkable to me, I can't imagine not wanting to orally please my man, it is an essential part of lovemaking. If a man doesn't totally enjoy "going down", I know there are lots more that do, so why would I try to start a committed relationship knowing I would spend a lifetime wishing for the type of sex I want and need. I might have thought I could deal with that when I was younger, but I know what I need to have a happy satisfying sex life and oral sex (giving and receiving) is on the top of my list.
 phine_likker
Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 200
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/6/2007 8:57:29 AM
Yes, because I don't like to receive oral anyway, can never relax.

If she told me she doesn't like to receive I'd be dubious about a relationship because I love to give.
 goshiloveyou
Joined: 4/9/2007
Msg: 203
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/6/2007 6:54:49 PM
I would date someone that didn't have oral sex.
As long as it was a half and half thing.

There are some ungrateful man pigs that want want want but thinks it's gross to give once. Welcome to an unfair world.

It's just oral sex.
Losing a good person over that? It's not worth it.
I would date them.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 204
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/6/2007 6:56:27 PM
From trishadish:

<div class="quote">NO

but what about dating somone who is bad at it.........now that is the real question.......more common than not-- since every guy thinks he knows the deal.....
For the men. The very least they can do is get a friggin book on it! I have one and it has been read twice. I was very bad at it and didn't even know it. That would explain a lot about my ex.

Now that I know where everything is and how everything works (ladies are just complicated!) I absolutely love it!

There was one GF that actually didn't want it done to her. I finally convinced her and after that, she wanted it every time. Glad I could be of lip service!

I have never dated a woman that did not have oral sex. I didn't think they existed at my age and older.

Now that I know better, I ask "Do you want to be sucked soft, hard or nibbled?"
 RVRenter
Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 210
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/7/2007 5:11:30 AM
Damn right I would its so much better to give than receive never was in to blow jobs but I can stay down there till she begs me to stop
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 211
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/7/2007 5:56:25 AM
i lived with a woman who recieved every time , but only gave me oral once in 7 years, the answer is no i wouldnt go do that again
 whothehellknows
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 214
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/7/2007 3:28:35 PM
I could not care less if she did not like to give. It's really not that important to me.

Now me on the other hand, I think I would have a hard time dating someone who did not like to recieve.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 216
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/7/2007 5:22:52 PM

A recent medical report says bacteria from oral sex can cause cancer of the throat.
Men can scrub themselves clean but for women its natural to be full of a balanced bacteria.

Listerine!!!
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 221
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/13/2007 4:44:46 PM
Nope. Ready my other posts for more details.
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 224
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/24/2007 7:59:17 AM

Hmmm ...I think if you found out what it was about it that they didn't like you could probably take steps to make it more pleasurable..


Sounds like a nice idea but who wants to train a woman in their 30s and 40s to give oral sex and to make them only want to do it if additives are involved? I consider myself a nice guy but not that nice. Some women are still sexual children in their 20s and can't get past the thought of sucking on that thing that pee comes from. By their 30s I expect all childish ideas to be gone. If not, I will not be the sexual romper room teacher. Its time to leave that female behind and look for another.
 passionteman
Joined: 3/7/2005
Msg: 225
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/24/2007 8:34:24 AM
I would date a woman. I don't need a woman's mouth to get my "device manager" up. It gets up naturally as soon as I start making out!!!
 Ravenstar66
Joined: 8/27/2007
Msg: 229
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/8/2007 11:27:24 AM
Only if he didn't expect it from me.

What's good for the goose.....
 4YOU2KISS!!!
Joined: 8/23/2007
Msg: 238
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/8/2007 9:08:51 PM
I can HONESTLY say at this stage in my life,.....NOPE!!!!!!!
 mus098
Joined: 7/1/2006
Msg: 239
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/23/2007 9:54:40 AM
I would not.I love it too much,giving and getting it.
 MONEMPERER
Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 245
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/24/2007 1:22:45 AM
Nope I would not and I would think they still make you in this mileenium unless there is a damn good reason.
 Marjabu
Joined: 6/8/2006
Msg: 246
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/24/2007 5:22:10 AM
no way! I consider it all part of the foreplay. Ran in to that situation with one guy from here, definitely a mood killer for me....always wanted oral , would never return the favour.
 Bedroomeyes31472
Joined: 6/23/2007
Msg: 249
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/25/2007 10:39:30 AM
I don't care what she won't do as long as she lets me do her. That is my thing. There is not that I like to do is to perform oral on her. Now if she don't like that , she has got to go.
 waidh
Joined: 8/4/2007
Msg: 253
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/25/2007 1:23:33 PM
no
no
no
no
messages this short may not be posted lol
 Delirious Denunciation
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 254
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/25/2007 1:38:54 PM
Wow, how old are we here? **** farm? Do you speak to your mamma that way??
 RidingRich
Joined: 9/21/2007
Msg: 261
 Charm1ngMuse
Joined: 12/18/2006
Msg: 263
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2007 2:20:29 PM
I can certainly understand if someone feels uncomfortable in giving oral to me, but if he suggests, encourages or insists that I give it to him, then he gets the boot. I dumped a guy who was very selfish in this manner and won't make that mistake again. Sexual intimacy should be an adventure, an exploration of the body and most certainly a reciprocal trip. If one is willing to do something, then the other should at least try it once. If one is disgusted by a particular technique then they should not expect their partner to perform said technique on them.

so there!
 Desi1955
Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 268
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/6/2007 8:35:04 AM
I liked someone's suggestion of putting check boxes on the profiles for sexual things you like and don't like. It would save the heartache of getting to like a guy only to find out that he's not really into sex when I'm VERY into it (but would any man admit to that in his profile?)
 Venari
Joined: 9/4/2007
Msg: 269
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/6/2007 8:59:51 AM
I like to give, but i really don't like to receive.
 SandOfTime
Joined: 6/3/2007
Msg: 272
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/6/2007 12:55:23 PM
Yes I would date a women who wouldnt' give oral. Have done so in the past. Wouldn't be happy about it, but...
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