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 opnmydm
Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 424
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i would not date somone not into oral pleasure, i like or shall i say love to give just as much as i recieve...enjoy
 Nancy54534
Joined: 1/30/2008
Msg: 425
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/28/2008 9:29:30 AM
He would have to have some really interesting talents to compensate and compete with that issue.
Probably not
 Masked_Hero
Joined: 12/14/2003
Msg: 426
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/28/2008 9:32:06 AM
Only if she has a friend that would come over and take care of that part for me..
 GoWestYoungMan
Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 430
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 5/14/2008 7:19:48 AM
Sorry, but the answer is no. I couldn't do without oral sex. I absolutely love giving and receiving oral. I can't figure out which I like best, giving or receiving but I am definitely an expert at giving. There is nothing better than cunnilingus! (That's eating **** for those of you who aren't aware of that term) Yes, I love to eat ****! There, I said it, and now it's all over the internet! LOL
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 432
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 5/17/2008 10:38:15 PM
No I would not! I want the whole package!
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 438
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/23/2008 9:04:51 AM
Did for 20 years...

pll can compensate in other ways
 *mandrake*
Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 439
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/23/2008 9:14:21 AM
yeah...just put some milk on it and let the cat lick it off!
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 440
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/23/2008 9:25:26 AM
Its not a selfish or shallow thing for me, its more of an overall sexual attitude. I like a lot of variety and sexual playfullness, and if they didnt even like oral sex, then there's no way they 'd go for other kinkiness.

So even though receiving isn't really a big deal to me (though giving is a MUST!) , we just wouldnt be compataible.
 PirateOB
Joined: 5/22/2008
Msg: 442
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/23/2008 8:32:48 PM
not in this life time or the next
 itsjustme328
Joined: 12/22/2007
Msg: 448
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/24/2008 8:11:40 PM
I've said it before and I'll say it again...I want the whole package. Oral sex is an important part of the package.
 _Red_
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 449
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/24/2008 8:13:16 PM
Never. Damn, my post was too short but what more can I say?
 Crimson_angel
Joined: 5/19/2007
Msg: 453
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 4:26:35 PM
Well said....it needs to be said again.....HELL NO!
There is nothing wrong with enjoying sex and every aspect of it.....I feel sorry for those people who still have hang ups about sex. People..get out of the dark ages! Sex is a big part of any healthy relationship. I for one, could not and would not date anyone that did not "love" sex and every aspect of it (especially oral...giving and receiving). Sorry if that offends some people......but I'll get over it!LOL
 houston_gal
Joined: 5/14/2008
Msg: 455
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 4:47:54 PM
HELL TO THE NO! Just glad I have never seriously dated anyone like that.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 456
 grapevine
Joined: 10/2/2005
Msg: 458
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 6:03:39 PM
Of course! Don't get me wrong; I absolutely love it, but if I see I have a wonderful guy in every other way and that's one thing he's not into? Jeesh! Who cares??? I guess different people have different priorities.

On the whole ... (ahem) ... I'd much rather have a cunning linguist than cunnilingus any day!
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 460
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 6:16:11 PM
RE: First post.

I've known women like that. I just tell them that I get to veto something sexual too. Usually its any position where I'm on top. ^_^ Nice trade off in my opinion.
 supernovastunnah
Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 461
 mikedanger
Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 462
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 9:16:28 PM
like everyone else here, apparently, MY 1st response is "[expletive deleted] no!"
however, having said that, i not only dated, but married her, too! gaaaaaaaaahh!!! WTF?
[it's a long story]

trust that i have since then, corrected BOTH lapses in judgement; ie, the lack of oral AND the marriage, and can stand proudly, and say, "no!"

dangerboy

PS: oral sex is beautiful, and, IMHO, FAR more intimate than intercourse...
PPS: especially the reverse cowgirl!
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 465
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 8/4/2008 8:08:23 AM

Posted By: clark_dieselpdx on 8/4/2008 1050 AM

Message: Well. honestly...........

I have tried several times to NOT bring this up, but sometimes, when a chicks crack stinks, its REALLY HARD to go past that..........I mean, really!! That thing can seriously stink. I'd rather avoid it and not embarrass her, then to attempt and then run to the bathroom for some fresh air. Ya ya ya.........I heard it all......I studied human sexualily in college. I know some women can't help it. Just as I can't help the foul odor...........Gas Gas Gas


I've been with women who will not have sex involving oral, unless they can clean themselves first. (Whether I feel they need to or not.) In fact, if there is a way to clean themselves present, they will always excuse themselves when the moment arises. Having been with women who do not feel this need, I find myself drawn to the former. I actually lose interest if that is something thier mothers didn't teach them.
 3b83
Joined: 9/1/2008
Msg: 466
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/4/2008 11:42:28 PM
I would. I dont really care for it, if I could cum from it I might feel different. I really havent had that much experience either Ive only been with one man and he sucked. So I really didnt like it. I would rater have him finger me then fill up the holes then for him to give me oral. Freak of nature I guess
 thadeusz
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 469
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/5/2008 7:20:41 AM
no since i feel /believe oral sex is one of the most pleasurable and erotic viewing sex acts!
 JP1111
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 472
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/5/2008 3:49:20 PM
I have to say that I would!

If my ultimate goal would be to seriously get to know a woman for who she is (and not what she can or cannot do), I would have to make the choice, do I even want to continue getting to know this girl to eventually maybe get married knowing that she is never going to do… or, do I just drop her?

It all depends on what it is you are looking for… at the time.
 PickMe_PickMe
Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 474
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/5/2008 4:12:01 PM
No,
I would never be in a relationship where we both did not want to please the other.
 CCsMom
Joined: 4/9/2008
Msg: 475
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/5/2008 9:21:13 PM
Yes I would date them. I can pretty much "take it or leave it" when it comes to oral sex. If I get it, okay, but Ive never asked for it (Never been that great, never had an orgasm from it) and I can definitely live without it. Oral sex to me makes me feel very vulnerable and I don't like that feeling. I will perform oral sex for my partner but not right away, (Insert bad experience here), as that comes with trust.
 Angelnurse10
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 477
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/27/2008 5:50:29 AM
at this time in my life, definetely NO, I am very addicted to oral sex, but when I first got married, I performed oral on my ex and he never returned the favor, so I really did not know what I was missing, but, marrying a younger man with my second marriage, definitely turned me on to what I was missing.
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