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 LEGS1986
Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 535
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yes but i do enjoy getting that and giving that to the right person as long as u are happy with that person and u have a strong relationship i believe that is a wonderful way to show affection donna
 vegaspeach
Joined: 12/10/2008
Msg: 537
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/8/2009 9:16:28 AM
A woman definately not...a man maybe
 flappo77
Joined: 2/6/2009
Msg: 539
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/22/2009 5:11:51 PM
Yes I would... Honestly I don't enjoy receiving but I really do love providing to my SO. So I would be the opposite to this thesis, I would not date a woman that said she does not enjoy receiving. Guess I'm wacky like that.
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 Kimberish925
Joined: 6/22/2008
Msg: 542
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/22/2009 5:34:40 PM
Highly doubtful...I enjoy getting and giving to much, and I don't give unless I'm getting. You know that whole 50/50 thing.
 sarah6627
Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 543
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/22/2009 5:34:56 PM
yes. If he doesn't want to put his tongue down there, he can put it in my mouth instead... but if he refuses to play a little with his fingers he can f*** himself, because he's sure not f***ing me.
 Okietokie88
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 545
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/22/2009 6:04:03 PM
I sure as hell would but I don't really like oral sex(receiving it that is) but I wouldn't date a woman who wouldn't let me perform oral sex on her.I've been involved with a woman who wouldn't let me do that because prior bad experiences,idk what that "Really" means but I just rolled with it.
 Samurai41
Joined: 4/29/2008
Msg: 547
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/22/2009 7:52:58 PM
i would not

no

no way no how

not cuz i cant live without oral, but i think a person that cant enjoy giving oral prob has other sexual hangups that i dont need to deal with.

plus, it reeks of selfishness
 brendantime
Joined: 10/31/2008
Msg: 548
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/23/2009 7:51:40 AM
Hell NO!!! I'm juggling too many girls right now to have one of them tell me what she AIN'T gonna do.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 550
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/23/2009 10:53:21 AM

I really dont understand why a guy would say no. If he gets her aroused than he gets something good!!!!


I expect a woman to be a little more imaginative abd a lot less inhibited than one who doesn't like giving and receiving oral sex. I would never date a woman who did not get into oral sex. I've done it once and she was totally boring.
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 552
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/23/2009 12:30:16 PM
^^^^^
Best things come freely... but preaching to the converted could be fun
 ferguson42
Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 553
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/23/2009 4:57:12 PM
what... thats a joke. i like to enjoi some passionate love making. try doing that without oral. **** you you cant. whoever isnt into oral, then grow the hell up. your missing out on some shit
 x_johnny_x
Joined: 8/28/2008
Msg: 560
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/27/2009 4:48:53 PM
I COULD PROBOBLY COPE WITH NO B/J,
BUT YOU HAVE TO GO DOWN ON YOUR WOMEN!!!
 poker_fan_in_nyc
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 561
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 571
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/19/2009 10:03:37 PM
Personally, I enjoy sex too much to be denied the pleasures of receiving and giving.


Gotta agree with SexyPecan. But it would also be more than that. A mindset that rules out oral sex almost certainly has other short-set boundaries, and we probably aren't gonna fit well. I mean, would she be willing to shake my hand?

She'd be jerkin' my leash way too much for either of us to enjoy the stroll. imho
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 572
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/20/2009 5:05:44 AM
Yep - sexypecan has it right. If you're dating someone to get serious ( ie being monogmous ), why would you be with someone who is so limited sexually? To me its simply an incompatibility - if they dont enjoy oral, then most likley they arent going to enjoy the other 99 kinky things I want to do!
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 575
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/20/2009 2:28:20 PM
compatability is the issue in a relationship. if the two of you get along and agree on everything (or agree to disagree) then the relationship should work well.
affection and sexual compatability or frequency is a big factor, however if oral sex isnt a strong suit, then maybe they do something else in bed that blows your mind
 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 581
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/23/2009 1:11:52 PM
I think I'd end a relationship once I learned this about them. Just as I'd end a relationship where we had significantly mismatched sex drives, or one where they were into hard-core BDSM or other kink and I wasn't!

I think sex is important in a relationship, and if one of us can't really enjoy it, then we're not compatible. There are people who will be a better match - I'll look for them instead.
 passionteman
Joined: 3/7/2005
Msg: 583
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/23/2009 1:53:26 PM
I don't HAVE TO receive BJ in order to get it up. It is fun to receive it, but that doesn't mean that I can't get it up without it.


So..............

Personally for me, I don't mind if the woman is giving it or not. Not a deal breaker.

But...............

I like giving it to my woman. THAT is a MUST!!!
 GREGCAP33
Joined: 7/12/2007
Msg: 586
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/23/2009 6:44:05 PM
WOW! no oral?
Well, she better be able to make it up in other areas lol
 ForeverLong
Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 587
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/23/2009 7:11:22 PM
Yes, oral is overrated. If she does not like doing it, not a dealbreaker. But I would like to do it for her to get her primed for some good fvcking.
 uspostman
Joined: 7/5/2008
Msg: 591
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 5/4/2009 2:32:54 PM
you are just in the wrong place.Iwould give it to you all the time
 LuvLik
Joined: 11/26/2008
Msg: 596
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 5/19/2009 10:55:09 AM
Not on your life. When I was in high school a lot of girls said they don't but really did, but now at my age if that was the case then that means she's too immature for me.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 597
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 5/19/2009 11:28:03 AM
For all the women that think they understand the psychology of why men like blowjobs... Until you've had your c0ck sucked (correctly), you don't understand the physical pleasure that's involved, so keep your ignorant theories to yourself. You just do not know. I'm not saying there isn't a mental aspect to it, but it doesn't have to be a negative one.


For me fellatio and cunnilingus are not a tit for tat game. If I'm not getting blowjobs, I still want to eat at the Y. I like giving my partner pleasure, and I'm pretty good at it. I'm not cutting her off just because she doesn't want to give me what I like the most in the bedroom. Having said that, I'm 100% sure that I'm going to be less forgiving of things that arise outside of the bedroom, if I'm not happy in the bedroom. All the little things in a relationship, that a good sex life helps smooth over, will become much bigger problems.
 benspurr
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 600
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 5/20/2009 9:24:10 PM
I don't like giving or receiving oral sex.

Boo hoo, OP.
 dallasdoer
Joined: 2/9/2009
Msg: 601
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 5/20/2009 9:55:47 PM
Nearly 60 THOUSAND have seen this thread so here's my comment; different strokes for different folks. Since women generally have the same parts, shouldn't the question be about the whole package than one of her orafices"
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