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 profilemewithsmiles
Joined: 2/21/2013
Msg: 76
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GOOD FOR YOU IT,S BEEN OVER 10YERS AND I,M GOOD
 profilemewithsmiles
Joined: 2/21/2013
Msg: 77
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 3/6/2013 3:46:16 PM
NO SEX IN A LONG TIME IS A GOOD THING
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 78
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 3/6/2013 3:46:21 PM

I'd rather hear her say she hasn't had sex in 9 months than ... AN HOUR AGO !

Isn't that about the time she is looking for a man to take care of her and her new child,, now don't say it isn't true,, I have seen it some profiles and in the forums,, LMAO
 Sea_N_Stars
Joined: 12/14/2012
Msg: 79
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 3/6/2013 4:51:16 PM
@miker1122: I think it depends a lot on the ratio and availability of partners. My hobbies have a complete lack of single women and my professional field has complete lack of any women. It will take some serious lifestyle and/or career changes if I want to break my dry spell. I'm not in any rush to do that just to get laid, though. It'd be kinda like burning down your house to make toast.
 mmill0618
Joined: 12/10/2012
Msg: 80
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 3/6/2013 5:49:02 PM
Good . Keep it within a commited relationship. It's been six years for me. so needless to say it been that long for me. There is HPV and Herpes out there and most dont know they have it , it can take a long time before you notice any symptoms of those std's
 ksayer1
Joined: 1/1/2013
Msg: 81
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No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 3/6/2013 6:02:29 PM
I don't know if it is good or bad.
All i know is it has been a couple of months now and i am starting to notice guys that i didn't before lol!!
 vickie210
Joined: 7/15/2012
Msg: 82
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 3/7/2013 11:04:47 AM
well its been too long for me going crazy here
 xtingwish
Joined: 6/16/2010
Msg: 83
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No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 3/7/2013 11:52:49 AM
it all depend upon what the word is, is....
 itsbeen2long
Joined: 2/6/2012
Msg: 84
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 3/20/2013 11:18:46 AM
Until 3 weeks ago I wnt 6 years. It wasn't the greatest sex but I was just happy to end the drought. :)
 wildlifelover79
Joined: 8/15/2012
Msg: 85
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 3/23/2013 11:53:34 AM
I average sex once every 4-5 years. Right now I am hitting 3 years. I spend the rest of time masturbating until I find a woman to have sex with. Since I am 33 years old I haven't had that much sex.
 Acehonestlady
Joined: 4/16/2012
Msg: 86
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Posted: 3/23/2013 12:01:40 PM
I don't judge them by that I decide their suitability by other reasons. Their not having had sex in a long while makes it better in that a tests for STIs such as HIV are done on a more reliable timespan than the 6 week and 6 month mark.
 Witnesstomythoughts
Joined: 7/27/2015
Msg: 87
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 9/10/2015 3:39:26 PM
"You talk to someone and you find out they havent had sex in a long time (lets say 9+ months) Do you think there is something wrong with that person .. wonder why they havent had sex for so long, does it make you want to be the one to break the dry spell, is it a turn on or a turn off? "





Are you serious ?

A woman who hasn't done it in a while is like feeding the hungry !
 runningout
Joined: 8/19/2008
Msg: 88
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Posted: 9/10/2015 4:34:03 PM

A woman who hasn't done it in a while is like feeding the hungry


LMFAO. You make it sound like drinking beer and breaking the seal.

Back to OP. That is entirely up to you. I have had periods in my life where I have not had sex for 2 years and I have had periods where I have had sex regularly. I am still me at the end of the day.

Even though I thought I would surely kill the man who broke the two year seal, he is still alive and kicking.
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 9/10/2015 4:46:29 PM
Shoot...I haven't had sex in several years, forget 9 months. And I'm just fine. It's not because there is anything wrong with me. What is it with people and having to have sex frequently no matter what, anyway anyhow, or else they'll go crazy or think that the world is coming to an end?
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
Msg: 90
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Posted: 9/10/2015 5:32:38 PM
I have not had sex in a long time and by choice. Unless and until I find someone I want, like, fancy and is a good companion it will stay that way. In this sexualised world people feel they have to keep at it or be a failure. Some STDs cannot be cured and there is no guarantee of anything despite the length of time someone has been abstaining.
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 91
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 9/10/2015 8:28:53 PM
No big deal. I had a 6 year break from sex and when I got back to it, it was still done the same way.
 adventurejoe70
Joined: 3/1/2013
Msg: 92
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Posted: 9/10/2015 8:43:55 PM
Can't go more than a few days. Otherwise I might have to drink!
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 93
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 9/10/2015 9:32:37 PM
I can't go without a beer for more than a couple of days. That's probably what compensates.
 spot4username
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 94
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 9/11/2015 5:20:27 AM
Since my separation in '96 and ultimate divorce if you add up all the celibate/active time periods I have been celibate more. Often for many years at a time. I was busy being a 24/7/365 parent. Now that I am single and have an empty nest I can't find anyone I want to have sex with.
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 95
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 9/11/2015 7:08:17 AM

Now that I am single and have an empty nest I can't find anyone I want to have sex with.


You're young, you're attractive, that should be rather easy to remedy.

(Crickets.)

Wait, you live in Amelia Island.

Don't they have wild horses there?
 spot4username
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 96
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 9/11/2015 7:42:25 AM
^^^ The horses are next door on Cumberland. I was there a few weeks ago for some time off the grid. One of my sons was there all day yesterday. It is an amazing place. It really is like stepping back in time. There is no way to accurately describe it for someone who has never been.

If it was easy to remedy I wouldn't be on POF anymore. I would be out having fun with a man and even *gasp* getting laid.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 97
Bad. Very Bad. Apparently there should be charity sex for us
Posted: 9/11/2015 12:04:37 PM
Apparently for us, a long dry period turns us into addicts who come to a website to watch people get deleted :)

Boy, I have to say, when IG mentioned horses a real bad picture entered my mind :) I let my passions out in car shows, running 3 hours up to Lake George NY for a car show, but 20 % chance of showers :( Makes for better photos, but perhaps fewer cars. I'd let Belle know, but it might not be worth the travel for her if it rains.
 spot4username
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 98
Bad. Very Bad. Apparently there should be charity sex for us
Posted: 9/11/2015 12:53:18 PM
Yes, I hesitated a moment at the horse reference but I knew what he meant.

We have a great car show here.
https://www.ameliaconcours.org/
Lots of amazing cars and interesting individuals on the island that week.
 Witnesstomythoughts
Joined: 7/27/2015
Msg: 99
Let's talk about sex bay bee, let's talk about SEX
Posted: 9/11/2015 12:57:31 PM
WHOA , WHOA , WHOA ( speaking of horses )

This subject is about SEX

S E X

Let's not get off track here people !
 spot4username
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 100
Let's talk about sex bay bee, let's talk about SEX
Posted: 9/11/2015 1:42:24 PM
Oh trust me. I know exactly what the subject is. SEX.

I wish I could stop thinking about SEX.

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