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 Mesnafugal
Joined: 7/12/2005
Msg: 103
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Well, I wasn't single for about 3 months... now I'm single and I remember WHY I need to stay this way!!! I'm so sick of games from people and lies... It's so much easier to just live my life, do the things I enjoy.. and... leave relationships to people who obviously do better at them than I do!
 lyndag
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 104
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so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/18/2006 7:01:33 AM
I left my husband 30 years ago. I know that I have put up a wall that nobody can get through. I do get asked all the time why I am still single. I suppose if that special person could break through that wall I might consider giving up my freedom. For now though I just keep myself very busy. I'm hardly ever home, and I do enjoy my lifestyle very much.
 Mesnafugal
Joined: 7/12/2005
Msg: 108
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/21/2006 3:22:01 AM
Have all us HAPPY SINGLE people heard out HAPPY MARRIED friends tell us "oh I love my husband/wife BUT if something happens to them I'm NEVER GETTING MARRIED AGAIN"??? too funny...I'm so much happier being single... I just like it this way. It would be nice to have someone but the gain is not worth the pain it eventually causes.. so it's just me and my animals!!!
 Chrstmaseverday
Joined: 10/17/2006
Msg: 111
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so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/22/2006 6:01:20 PM
I get that question all the time too. It is there opening line basiclly. It kind of puts me on the defense. My reply is...my choice for the moment.
 sparticuss
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 116
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/27/2006 2:05:31 AM
Because

- I like to undress straight into the washing machine
- I like to leave my power tools on the kitchen table and the kettle on the garage bench.
- I like to watch late nite documentarys in bed. Far better quality than the prime time stuff.
- I like to leave my girlie mags anywhere.
- I like motorcycles

Because

- I hate going to pick up bars and being confronted by a bouncer stoned on steroids
- I hate playing second or third fiddle so some cranky mum or some overdressed hyena of a gf.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 118
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/27/2006 11:14:56 AM
Because the last man in my life had the same interests as Sparticus. The damn guy just had to get naked every time he saw a washing machine. LOL @ Sparticus

~OT~ Apparently it's because no self-respecting single man wants to date someone who only leaves their house once every couple of months. I don't get it, I have always imagined the ideal marriage/relationship being one in which I never actually had to spend time with my spouse ~ maybe the problem really is me.
 lovableladywanted
Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 120
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/29/2006 10:36:47 PM
I am still single because I am not into alot of the game playing and the so called pursuit many men allow themselves to be drawn into . In other words ,for example, if I call a lady and she wont call me back than I do not keep calling or if I go to a club and ask a lady to dance I wont keep asking. Many men are persistent and women deep down like that . I am just me and can not compromise who I am to fulfill someones ego .
 travelbug67
Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 128
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so, why are you still single?
Posted: 11/1/2006 6:03:04 PM
Robert, you so made me laugh!!!! That is such a great response!!!! I am so going to use that one.
 Vancer
Joined: 10/29/2006
Msg: 132
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 11/2/2006 7:13:06 AM
I'm still single because until the trial is over anyone that gets close to me ends up disappearing.
Is so very sad sometimes. I often cry myself to sleep in my safehouse.
 studplayrico
Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 135
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so, why are you still single?
Posted: 11/3/2006 10:26:04 PM
I don't know the answer of that question.Not good looking? Lame profile? Who knows? Maybe i'm meant to be that way.
 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 137
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 11/3/2006 10:47:55 PM
...I'm still single cause nobody will put up with me.....



...maeflowers
 Vancer
Joined: 10/29/2006
Msg: 139
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 11/4/2006 1:54:47 AM
Confabulous, you sound like you need a vacation!
 studplayrico
Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 140
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so, why are you still single?
Posted: 11/4/2006 3:25:14 AM
I'll put up with you.
 barrenhart
Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 144
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so, why are you still single?
Posted: 11/6/2006 3:31:52 PM
fear fear fear
of pain rejection deceit repeating the past...
therapy cost way to much money. denial of narcissistic self-destruction...
to much of a Capricorn.. lack of compromise.. emotionally cut off...
do not care for the bar scene. go to see band not hook-up..
 JustCallMeMike
Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 147
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so, why are you still single?
Posted: 1/7/2007 10:11:15 AM
I get that a lot from friends and family. And I tell them this, you hook me up with the woman who I can get along with and who can get along with me and that will take care of that.
 sammylg
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 149
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 1/8/2007 11:06:04 AM

Mainly because of my location...hm...deep sigh....(-;


I dunno SIGI, you seemed to have led an amazing life. I'm majorly impressed!
 luckyluke131
Joined: 12/16/2006
Msg: 153
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good question
Posted: 1/8/2007 5:51:59 PM
I guess people make choices in life and travel one path over another. For me, i could be married five times over if I'd have choosen those paths.
I see many of my friends that are in unhappy marriages and "settling" for the reason just to be married is not for me.
I'm looking for the real thing, and if it doesn't come along it, so be it, lol.
 ÐÎLLÏGÃF™
Joined: 12/24/2006
Msg: 154
good question
Posted: 1/8/2007 8:06:20 PM

I gave up trying.. after over 4 years and only dated 2-3(breifly) .. .......................................................................................................................... I'm single now by choice..
 sammylg
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 157
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 1/9/2007 5:18:16 AM

wow, i guess i'm lucky being a guy. i never been asked that.


Maybe the better word is "Caucasian guy". Us Asians guys get harrassed like that from Asian women, Asian Men (mostly people straight from Asia) and especially our Moms!
 southern_man
Joined: 2/16/2006
Msg: 163
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 1/16/2007 8:03:39 PM
No you are not, Ive gotten the question many times myself as well. Why? Who the hell knows, I sure dont.
 JustCallMeMike
Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 165
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so, why are you still single?
Posted: 1/16/2007 9:30:47 PM
Family members and male friends...You have not arranged a marriage for me. To my female friends...because you have not asked me out.

Female strangers, are you going to hook me up with your hot mom?
 rome46
Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 169
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so, why are you still single?
Posted: 1/19/2007 7:50:09 PM
i'm single because i have not found the right women yet.
 frnchkisss
Joined: 11/9/2006
Msg: 174
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 1/23/2007 7:19:21 AM
I.m the oldest girl in the family,ontop of having 2 younger sisters,one married one attached.So I get herast all the time about being single.But I don't think it's a bad thing being single.My past relationships have shown me what I realy want in a partner and all I have to offer to that one special persone.I do know I can be a little picky but I'm not gona setal and I'm not out there serching despretly eather.My time will come and when it does I know it will be great.In the meentime I will injoy dateting and making new friends and let nature take its corse.

Tali....
 candy_123
Joined: 4/3/2005
Msg: 175
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so, why are you still single?
Posted: 1/23/2007 11:14:53 AM
hi i just wanted to be singel after been with a guy for 15 year s now i took a break so thats it
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