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 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Well as long as everybody is cool with it, why not
same goes for a woman.....
 jeep1127girl
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 162
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Posted: 6/13/2012 9:42:34 AM
If the girls dont mind ..than sure go for it...
 Eagle Fish
Joined: 7/14/2009
Msg: 163
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Posted: 10/26/2012 3:58:29 PM

WHAT DO U THINK


Experience is that marvelous thing that enables you to recognize a mistake when you make it again. -- F. P. Jones
 funandfloating
Joined: 10/12/2012
Msg: 164
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Posted: 10/26/2012 4:25:15 PM
You had threesomes is what you are saying. That is hardly dating. PMS?? If they knew about each other, they were probably pissed off. You are asking a stupid question because you want to brag for some reason.
 SpittyKitty
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 165
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Posted: 10/26/2012 8:53:50 PM
I've always said if you need more than one woman........ you've got the wrong woman.

What he said...

You know, I've met alot of men who want a monogamous FWB "relationship".
ie: They want all the trappings of claiming that I'm "their girl", but they don't want to assimilate into a real relationship where we are together sharing our lives with each other.

It ends up being kind of a "good time charlie" situation. I am mostly dealing with my life singlehandedly, but meeting him once or twice a week for a sleepover. The other man is an old long distance lover of old come back.

They say they want commitment. But they don't. They just want exclusive fvcking rights.
And it's not that they don't care. One actually loves me. But they are both happy with their freedoms and their space. Meanwhile, it's hard to find a compatable match. Someone I can trust to BE there... As a team/together.

So there is where I begin to entertain the idea that between BOTH men that want me (but only within their parameters), I just might begin to have ONE halfway decent relationship.
Of course I'd love it if my old love would do what I want and commit to me in real time and space. Time may tell.
And I have hoped this new guy would want the same as me and we would fall in love and make a go of it. But I am sorry to say he doesn't seem to be leaning that direction either. At least he doesn't act like it. It's still early yet.

But if I see the both of them at once...then I may have one decent man.
But then, wouldn't that be rather indecent of me?
Ah...the irony of it all.
Something I could hope for is that... one will out. (slang expression for being the one for/with me in a real relationship)
It's getting late in my life. I deserve someone who wants me all the same. But maybe I'll settle for the 2 for 1 blueplate special. Pass the time a little easier.

So, yes OP I think there may be certain situations and/or times when it is OK to have two girlfriends/boyfriends. And this would be my reasoning for doing such. But then, that is only my opinion/experience.
 NWFY1979
Joined: 12/3/2010
Msg: 166
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Posted: 10/30/2012 3:31:52 PM
no its not ok to have two gf's every man should have at least three one cook one clean one sex. when you get tired of the cook get it cleaned when your too wet cook it and when its too hot **** it
 GGHH788
Joined: 2/22/2012
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Posted: 10/30/2012 3:57:08 PM
Yes its fine to have 2 girlfriends as long as the other one doesnt find out.
 Acehonestlady
Joined: 4/16/2012
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Posted: 10/31/2012 7:46:17 PM
Yes, as long as you are not being decietful it is fine to have more than one bf or gf.
 americanwoman67
Joined: 7/18/2010
Msg: 169
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Posted: 11/9/2012 10:14:50 AM
No. I think it is nasty. It is not right to either woman.
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
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Posted: 11/9/2012 10:18:59 AM
I've never been able to Juggle Women.......They're just too heavy to throw with just one hand!!
They're So Complex, that keeping track of all the requirements of understanding just ONE is work , enough!!!
...but I'd sure like to manage One . . . !!
 star28
Joined: 8/27/2010
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Posted: 11/12/2012 3:36:58 AM
Is it ok to have two boyfriends? :)
 sigungq
Joined: 10/6/2012
Msg: 172
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Posted: 11/12/2012 4:33:42 PM
Is it OK or them to have two boyfriends?
 baldguy500
Joined: 2/9/2010
Msg: 173
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Posted: 11/13/2012 4:14:36 PM
it's ok to have as many gf's as you can get...the problem is when you get caught and end up with none.....
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 174
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Posted: 11/29/2012 12:14:49 PM
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????

if thats all you can get ...
 mfforal38
Joined: 10/13/2012
Msg: 175
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Posted: 11/29/2012 4:08:49 PM
Sure!!...If you have a relationship like ours....My husband has a wife, and this wife has that husband...But we have lots of girlfriends!

Cheers!
 billyblackwolf
Joined: 11/21/2012
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Posted: 11/29/2012 4:37:11 PM
the woman who kick me said nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
 Love.Notes
Joined: 7/27/2012
Msg: 177
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Posted: 11/29/2012 7:59:37 PM
SURE! as long as your brave enough to let them both know what you're up to, hell why not! And why not let them meet each other too! If they both have no problem with it and you're still standing ...go for it.

Personally I consider myself to be very open minded but I would never date a guy that is also dating another woman.
 GeekyCrazyButCool
Joined: 11/21/2012
Msg: 178
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Posted: 1/1/2013 12:37:27 PM
No....not unless they both know about each other and fine with that kind of relationship.
 2hotcougar
Joined: 3/29/2011
Msg: 179
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Posted: 1/1/2013 1:44:53 PM
i also have had two boy friends only one knew about the other and he got off better knowing the other one was doing things that he could not do for me
 LG2727
Joined: 1/20/2010
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Posted: 1/2/2013 9:04:47 PM
as long as you dont mind when you arent the only boyfriend!
 Bachelorsheaven
Joined: 1/11/2013
Msg: 181
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Posted: 1/15/2013 1:30:03 PM
Do you mind if she has two boyfriend?
 venusenvy777
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 182
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Posted: 1/15/2013 1:57:15 PM
I think, you must have an enormous ego to think you can handle two women
 venusenvy777
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 183
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Posted: 1/15/2013 2:24:22 PM
Well I think you havent had ANY lol
 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
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Posted: 1/15/2013 3:26:38 PM
The naysayers are just jealous. LOL
 Windsweptgold0
Joined: 12/11/2012
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Posted: 1/15/2013 5:46:20 PM
As long as you are open about it to them and you dont care if they have other boyfriends
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