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 ReD RiDinG HooD..
Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 101
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maybe other girls wouldn't mind sharing their boyfriend...i like having him for myself though :)
 craftiwench
Joined: 10/30/2005
Msg: 102
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 6/27/2006 7:04:48 PM
I often have multiple playmates ( enjoyed seperately) and I am upfront to all of them about the other one's--no lies, no secrets--it still amazes me how many guys get turned on by it and want all the details of my play time with the other guys ( no doubt wanting to compare too!~)! Play Safe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 TheScream
Joined: 4/27/2006
Msg: 103
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 6/28/2006 9:24:54 PM
Just my opinion, of course. [as TheScream steps up on his soapbox]
Having a girlfriend implies having genuine feelings for each other. In civilized society where a woman should be revered and respected, monogamy/fidelity are an absolute. I have never had more than one steady girlfriend at once. If feelings were strong enough to call a girl my girlfriend, then she deserved the respect. When those feelings wane and you develop stronger feelings for someone else then you make a decision. Playmates are playmates and fun is fun but when it progresses to bf/gf status, have respect for your partner and respect for yourself. { steps off the soapbox]

Cheers,
Jeff.

No wonder marriages don't last and guys all get labelled as dogs.
 RR Man
Joined: 6/24/2006
Msg: 104
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Posted: 6/28/2006 9:43:53 PM
I read an article that said 30,000 people live in polygamy in the Intermountain West. That's not a typo; it's thirty thousand. They belong to fundamentalist Mormon sects; the regular Mormon church will kick you out if they catch you doing it. For the most part, they live in little towns out in the desert.

This polygamy is really nothing but child abuse. You have 50 and 60 year old men taking 15 year old "brides." Any marriage beyond the first is simply not recorded at the courthouse; it's done by religious ceremony only.

Several books have been written by women who've escaped this system. Google "Warren Jeffs" he's the ringleader of one of those sects.

Tom
 lovngmylife35
Joined: 11/8/2005
Msg: 105
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 7/1/2006 9:53:15 PM
Excellent response "TheScream", the same (in my opinion) goes for having more than one "boyfriend" ... respect, honesty the whole 9 yards ... if you want to be with someone great ... if not ... end it and move on life is short.
 heidtergurl
Joined: 6/28/2006
Msg: 106
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Posted: 7/2/2006 1:09:05 PM
NO...IGNORANT
 boxman
Joined: 4/14/2005
Msg: 107
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 7/2/2006 2:37:50 PM
I guess at my age I didn't feel the need to refer to girls as girlfriends. They were simply girls I happened to be dating simultaneously. I was already 44 years old when I divorced. I had met several young ladies during my marriage with whom I'd have liked to go out. Once the opportunity presented itself, I began asking all of them out at different times. Apparently attitudes had changed since my marriage in the mid 60's, and after a date or two I ended up sleeping with each of them. I never saw it as a problem,until one of them wanted more from the relationship. I never lied to any of them. But eventually all good things must end. So I moved to Florida and started over before things got out of hand. In short, there is no problem with having sex with multiple partners, unless you or they have a problem. And hey, there's something to be said for Florida girls.
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 108
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 7/2/2006 2:39:48 PM
If they are aware of each other and down with it, then yes.

If they are aware of each other, down with it, and also first cousins, then no.
 Vanessa_32
Joined: 6/11/2006
Msg: 109
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 7/2/2006 2:48:38 PM
I say NO. The person who started this thread should know better. It Is never Ok UN less u are both OK by It. The main answer Is NO.
 sparticuss
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 110
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 7/3/2006 5:00:32 AM
Hummm.

The definition of old is having sex with your girlferieds daughter, or your daughters girlfreind.

Without being arrested.

And a couple of friends of mine have done it.
 rubberduckette
Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 111
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 7/3/2006 5:18:41 AM
I think it's wrong!
 guitarman100
Joined: 8/25/2004
Msg: 112
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 7/3/2006 5:22:14 AM
yes at least 2

3................... if you drink a mixture of coffee and Viagara

In the 60's and 70's Hugh Hefner used to have
'all night pepsi/uppers parties with his girlfriends'
and he seems to have done ok..............

ok I admit it is kinda weird to have listed Hugh Hefner as one of my heros when I was 10 yrs old
he just seemed so much cooler than Spiderman
 smoochiegal
Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 113
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 7/3/2006 7:03:31 AM
do bears poop in the woods?
 saucysausage
Joined: 11/27/2006
Msg: 114
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Posted: 11/30/2006 9:21:30 AM
i agree only if the others are cool with it and there are women out there that are so be honest.
 tutu4me
Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 115
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Posted: 11/30/2006 10:13:20 AM
yeah especially if they are into each other just as much as they are into you
 Crane Man
Joined: 10/22/2005
Msg: 116
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 11/30/2006 11:04:04 AM
It is okay so long as they don't find out about each other!
 TaLuvs2Laugh
Joined: 8/2/2006
Msg: 117
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 11/30/2006 11:28:21 AM
NO, NO, No and uh NOOOOO!! Even if they all know about each other and say it's ok!!

One, if not all of em are hoping in their hearts you'll eventually pick them. This type of behaviour breaks hearts and crushes self esteem!!

You're a Naughty, Naughty boy!!
 bostonjen
Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 118
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 11/30/2006 11:37:15 AM
If all parties involved have openly stated that everyone is free to see other people, then it's fine...I actually perfer that kind of relationship at this current time in my life. But if the parties involved stated that they are "Exclusive" and one goes outside the relationship, it's dead wrong.
 MasterFireWalker
Joined: 3/1/2009
Msg: 119
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 3/4/2011 11:29:03 PM
What's interesting is how old this thread is: Of course it's okay!

It was my primary girlfriend's idea. She prefers it this way.

And we are just wired that way.

Most people delude themselves into believing that they are monogamous.

One person after another.
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 120
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Posted: 3/5/2011 6:26:25 AM
As long as everyone consents to the situation, of course.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 121
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Posted: 3/7/2011 8:22:37 PM
As long as everyone is aware and ok.
Although, I think its more practical to have a GF and a FB .... I have a GF and two former FWB's that want to be FB's right now... everyone knows and is okay....GF gave consent for both... so far only the GF's schedule is working with mine....so no actual sex with the FB's yet.
 AquanGold
Joined: 11/22/2010
Msg: 122
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 3/8/2011 4:40:25 AM
If a luantic like Charlie Sheen can have 2 lovers, so can anyone else!
I`m thinking about drinking "Tigers Blood" this morning!
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 123
IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????
Posted: 3/8/2011 8:12:50 AM
Sure - if they're both bi and like each other.
 Sabrosura089
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 124
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Posted: 3/8/2011 8:31:18 AM

IS IT OK TO HAVE TWO GIRLFRIENDS?????


^^Not if it's my relationship. I don't share my man with others, and women don't do a thing for me!!!
 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
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Posted: 3/8/2011 9:06:12 AM
If you're casually dating, probably. If you're beyond that stage, it can be, if they're both in the know and agreeable.
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