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 ForRumOnly
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My wife says it's okay, and she's the boss.
 ForRumOnly
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Posted: 4/17/2012 8:45:59 AM

Oh yea!! SURE!! I think you should introduce them to each other and maybe go on "couple" dates too!! That would be so great!! WTF??? Would you be ok if you were 1 of 2 boyfriends?


Did that. Do that. It is great. I would be okay - been in that situation too.

IMO, anything agreed to by fully informed, freely consenting adults is okay.
 goldcrayon
Joined: 1/11/2012
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Posted: 4/17/2012 11:14:19 AM
I've had up to five girls before but i would not recommend it as its exhausting work. If you have the sex drive to keep all these women happy then go for it but be warned the emotions will take a toll on you which is why I eventually had to stop as I had time for nothing else.
 Adam Taylor
Joined: 5/11/2006
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Posted: 4/17/2012 12:26:41 PM
There is nothing wrong with being in a poly relationship.

Now, being in a poly relationship means that everyone involved is aware of each other and accepting of the situation.

As soon as it becomes a secret it's cheating.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 4/18/2012 12:06:12 PM
Ask them. Each one of them. That should be your answer.
 jmmevolve
Joined: 12/16/2010
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Posted: 4/18/2012 2:23:23 PM
In this day and age of health issues, how many people do you want to be involved with at once?
 jmmevolve
Joined: 12/16/2010
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Posted: 4/18/2012 2:24:33 PM
I've had up to five girls before but i would not recommend it as its exhausting work. If you have the sex drive to keep all these women happy then go for it but be warned the emotions will take a toll on you which is why I eventually had to stop as I had time for nothing else.


Whats good for the goose, is good for the gander. Are you game to be one of five? Why? Why not?
 HowRJ
Joined: 6/7/2009
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Posted: 4/18/2012 6:01:32 PM
I thought that was the punishment for polygamy.......
 qualityl
Joined: 10/16/2010
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Posted: 4/18/2012 7:06:50 PM
I believe that if you are really into someone, you would just date them. I really never dated alot of men at once. It is not my style. If your partner has children, then they have responsibility to their children every other weekend. So a single person with no children really must respect, and care for the person, to only date them. Lots of trust needs to develop. But until you communicate about it, relax. Dating two people at once at my age shows no class. That why I date five. lol Just kidding.
 ChancesRMD
Joined: 4/11/2009
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Posted: 4/18/2012 8:10:07 PM
I've always said if you need more than one woman........ you've got the wrong woman.
 want to travel
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Posted: 6/13/2012 9:38:27 AM
Well as long as everybody is cool with it, why not
same goes for a woman.....
 jeep1127girl
Joined: 12/31/2009
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Posted: 6/13/2012 9:42:34 AM
If the girls dont mind ..than sure go for it...
 Eagle Fish
Joined: 7/14/2009
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Posted: 10/26/2012 3:58:29 PM

WHAT DO U THINK


Experience is that marvelous thing that enables you to recognize a mistake when you make it again. -- F. P. Jones
 NWFY1979
Joined: 12/3/2010
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Posted: 10/30/2012 3:31:52 PM
no its not ok to have two gf's every man should have at least three one cook one clean one sex. when you get tired of the cook get it cleaned when your too wet cook it and when its too hot **** it
 Acehonestlady
Joined: 4/16/2012
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Posted: 10/31/2012 7:46:17 PM
Yes, as long as you are not being decietful it is fine to have more than one bf or gf.
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
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Posted: 11/9/2012 10:18:59 AM
I've never been able to Juggle Women.......They're just too heavy to throw with just one hand!!
They're So Complex, that keeping track of all the requirements of understanding just ONE is work , enough!!!
...but I'd sure like to manage One . . . !!
 star28
Joined: 8/27/2010
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Posted: 11/12/2012 3:36:58 AM
Is it ok to have two boyfriends? :)
 baldguy500
Joined: 2/9/2010
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Posted: 11/13/2012 4:14:36 PM
it's ok to have as many gf's as you can get...the problem is when you get caught and end up with none.....
 mfforal38
Joined: 10/13/2012
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Posted: 11/29/2012 4:08:49 PM
Sure!!...If you have a relationship like ours....My husband has a wife, and this wife has that husband...But we have lots of girlfriends!

Cheers!
 billyblackwolf
Joined: 11/21/2012
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Posted: 11/29/2012 4:37:11 PM
the woman who kick me said nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
 2hotcougar
Joined: 3/29/2011
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Posted: 1/1/2013 1:44:53 PM
i also have had two boy friends only one knew about the other and he got off better knowing the other one was doing things that he could not do for me
 LG2727
Joined: 1/20/2010
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Posted: 1/2/2013 9:04:47 PM
as long as you dont mind when you arent the only boyfriend!
 ForRumOnly
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Posted: 1/15/2013 3:26:38 PM
The naysayers are just jealous. LOL
 Windsweptgold0
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Posted: 1/15/2013 5:46:20 PM
As long as you are open about it to them and you dont care if they have other boyfriends
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