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 afterimage
Joined: 11/27/2005
Msg: 3
Why do some women hate thier men watching pornoPage 3 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)
Because so many of them are insecure and controlling. If their man isn't paying 100% attention to them and only them then their insecurities take over and they get pissed at their man because he's looking at a woman other than his S.O.
 afterimage
Joined: 11/27/2005
Msg: 7
Why do some women hate thier men watching porno
Posted: 12/26/2005 11:34:20 PM

I am just giving my point of view. It would be like that. It's mental infidelity, imo.

I guess that means you women are mentally cheating anytime you pick up your Cosmo mags and romance books, right?
 virgogidget
Joined: 11/10/2005
Msg: 27
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Posted: 12/27/2005 3:02:04 AM
i agree with pam and blast all the same reasons
 ~iiCe~
Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 28
Why do some women hate thier men watching porno
Posted: 12/27/2005 4:26:16 AM
I don't have a problem with it... I will watch with him... or I prefer for it to be movies we made together....
 clownman44
Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 29
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Posted: 12/27/2005 4:48:47 AM
yes blast you are so right betwen a man and women if other help is needed better check out why I would say nothing more than pillow talk between lovers is needed for the best and most fullfilling sex there ever will be
 cuter_than_anyone
Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 35
Why do some women hate thier men watching porno
Posted: 12/27/2005 7:01:17 AM
porn is funny. i can't take it seriously. the faces, the stock sounds, the dialogue

i wonder about people who do take it seriously
 cuter_than_anyone
Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 45
Why do some women hate thier men watching porno
Posted: 12/27/2005 9:11:58 AM
i think they're all silly, personally. i do understand that you don't watch it for the dialogue but how can you avoid it?

how can you avoid the ridiculous expressions on their faces? how can you avoid the reused stock moans?

i stand by wondering about people who take it seriously.
 cuter_than_anyone
Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 47
Why do some women hate thier men watching porno
Posted: 12/27/2005 9:33:31 AM
when i said seriously i meant i wonder about people who get off on it. not study it, although that happens. university of indiana has the largest porn collection from what i hear.

but i digress...............

i personally just don't see it as anything but funny. it could never be sexy for me cause it's so well..........goofy. and be honest, some of the actors are hideous looking. so the whole visual thing just goes right over my head.

what are you on about with the two people and the security comments? i never said anything about that.

if my boyfriend suggested we watch porn together i'd do it, and i have in the past, but it's not erotic for me. it ends in a mad giggle fest.

my current boyfriend is not a "porn guy" (thank god) and is hands down the best lover i have ever had.

porn sex may look good on the screen (for some) but this chick isn't in to double penetration
 Ldygmr
Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 55
Why do some women hate thier men watching porno
Posted: 12/27/2005 11:23:18 AM
Brainwashed social mores in a closeminded woman with no imagination.

Personally, I have seen SOME that *I* thought were hot. And if my guy is watching one in the bedroom...HELLO...he's ready to go without any effort at all from me. Heck YEAH!
 dceeeee
Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 111
Why do some women hate thier men watching porno
Posted: 12/27/2005 7:18:38 PM
Works for me....I prefer the ones that have a 'little bit' of a story or plot to them, though. Problem is, when you watch it while making love, you're not always in a position where both can see the screen, so guess who gets cheated??? Riiiiight! Ain't gonna be HIM!!! LOL!

As for his date with rosey palms occasionally...that didn't bother me either. When I wanted it he was always there for me, so obviously this didn't hurt anything in the sex department.

When I was married, not only did we watch porn together, we also went to the strip clubs together to watch the topless dancers.....(no, I'm not Bi)...he wanted me to go with him and I found that I actually enjoyed it, as it was rather "mood enhancing".

I, too, have a box of my own...
 LG2727
Joined: 1/20/2010
Msg: 120
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Posted: 3/19/2010 7:35:56 PM
For the same reason men hate when their woman cheats on them with another man.
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 124
Why do some women hate thier men watching porno
Posted: 3/20/2010 8:07:48 AM

For the same reason men hate when their woman cheats on them with another man.

I think this response points out why some women hate porn (or better put, guys watching porn). It's jealousy, even though there's no threat of him leaving them, and in fact, reduces the chances of him cheating on them because if/when he goes out, he won't be out with a loaded gun, so to speak.

But I understand if you're not very sexually compatible, a B.O.B. or a porn collection could be a little too close to the heart, and if the other person wants to try and get things going, while the other person doesn't -- it'll get on their nerves, sure. But that's only when the relationship's going down the tubes, and anyone in their right mind would know that's not the reason -- the reason is the sex life isn't great (at best).
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 125
Why do some women hate thier men watching porno
Posted: 3/20/2010 9:12:59 AM
Same reason some women don't like their men in strip clubs, or having any female friends, or looking at other women.

Same reason why some men don't like you to have a past or date anyone after they date you even though they're not interested in dating you either, or to go out with your friends once you're involved, or have male friends, or go to a male strip show.

Possesiveness and insecurity. Plain and simple.

Within reason of course. If porn, strip joints and other women are derailing your life, then I can see the issue. If it's just once in a while entertainment, then that's different.

So date women who don't care about porn. Some women have their own collections. Why date someone who's against it if you don't have to?
 KickinCaliStyle
Joined: 1/24/2010
Msg: 128
Why do some women hate thier men watching porno
Posted: 3/20/2010 5:36:49 PM
Porno rocks, its good to look at variety, it turns your man on and well **** it I'll be honest here, sounds like your pretty sexually repressed there doll face.

Maybe you need to get laid and watch a bunch of porn.. Look up Andrew Blakes stuff always gets my kitty wet!

Btw, there is no such thing as being addicted to porn, you don't hurt anyone with porn. I saw watch it, **** to it, enjoy it and use it for what its worth!!! FUNNNNN!!!

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