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 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 227
How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?Page 14 of 14    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14)
Before you say anything ask yourself this questions.

Did they suck in bed from the beginning of the relationship?
Is this something new?
Why did you put up with someone that sucked in bed for so long?
What is going on now that they can't concentrate in having the good sex they had before?
Have you/them tried anything new?
Did you try to teach that person what you liked?
Did you ever, ever, ever asked what turned them on?
Did you ever talked about sex outside of the bedroom?
If she/he sucked in bed, what does that make you?
Do they think you are great in bed, so so, or also suck as hell?

If you had it your way, what would you like your partner to do to you?
What would your partner would like for you to do to them?

Have you ever verbalized it to your partner?
Have you ever asked them to repeat exactly what you and them would like to do?
 billingsmason
Joined: 2/3/2012
Msg: 229
How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/17/2012 5:35:55 PM
How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?

maybe from far away....with a txt.

JK.... I don't think there is such a thing really.
If you're having trouble- it's not totally someone else's fault.

Maybe step up the dominant in you and handle this.
Not saying to get all kinkified.... just be assertive and well.... train them. You know, with a crop.
 longte
Joined: 7/19/2008
Msg: 237
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How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/27/2012 3:08:17 AM
If lovers of either sex dont suck, in bed or anywhere else, they aren't having much fun
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