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 vjrichmond
Joined: 8/21/2012
Msg: 379
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Ladies That hate recieving oral sexPage 18 of 21    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21)
Im a Lady that doent like my guy to go down on. I get really Hot taking care of him aseeing and feeling him get hard is a total turn on for me. If he really insists on doing me a favor...well I just cant seem to relax enough to have an orgasm ...I think ina way its a control issue...
 purplepalooza
Joined: 8/17/2008
Msg: 382
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Posted: 9/2/2012 12:40:41 PM
I cannot imagine not loving oral sex!! I honestly don't know which I love more...giving or receiving. Everyone likes what they like. Some women may need some gently nudging to let you down there because they are insecure about their girlie parts (how it looks, tastes, smells), others think it's gross, and others just don't find it stimulating. I could never be with a man who doesn't love receiving oral as much as giving it. And I've had men say they'd rather be the giver than the receiver??? HA! Noooooo way....gotta love ALL aspects! :)
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 383
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Posted: 9/2/2012 4:52:22 PM
Gotta have those fingers in too to make me scream.
 Steels488
Joined: 9/19/2007
Msg: 385
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Posted: 9/4/2012 1:05:30 PM
Christy as lovely as you are you should never need to go without oral, as much as you want.
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 387
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Posted: 9/12/2012 2:16:09 PM
Christy, Maybe cut back on some of your restrictions. You might be excluding some decent guys.
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 388
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Posted: 9/12/2012 2:24:53 PM
Lulai, Spot on But even better if you DO actually enjoy it.
 picmenc
Joined: 5/17/2008
Msg: 389
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Posted: 9/12/2012 2:29:48 PM
Meow katt- Oh Yes. Gotta massage ur G spot also
 greenIsis777
Joined: 3/14/2012
Msg: 394
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Posted: 9/22/2012 4:51:56 PM
um, WHAT woman doesn't like receiving oral sex?!?!
 PosiREP
Joined: 6/8/2012
Msg: 396
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Posted: 9/22/2012 7:46:02 PM
It's pretty much my favorite thing. I get bummed if a girl doesn't like getting it.
 2hotcougar
Joined: 3/29/2011
Msg: 400
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Posted: 9/23/2012 11:10:09 AM
i realy enjoy it when i know im realy clean but dont want you to do it when i have mowing the yard right after i get off work please let me be fresh
 Michaela1311
Joined: 8/28/2012
Msg: 401
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Posted: 10/11/2012 11:38:06 PM
Harvey, its complicated. Most women are insecure about their coochies its either the smell or the lack of shaving that gets to us. We are terrified that the man will be totally grossed out and perpetuate the insecurity.
 BeingaLady
Joined: 11/18/2010
Msg: 403
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Posted: 10/12/2012 8:48:47 AM
Well I like it but my bf doesn't like giving it to me so... Lol
 OutofControlMan
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 404
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Posted: 10/12/2012 8:58:15 AM
^^
aw that's too bad hun.

many men, most I know, love to do it (or they say that, anyway)
 Honnieberrie
Joined: 6/21/2011
Msg: 409
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Posted: 10/13/2012 11:39:48 AM
I think its because people arent monogamous and are worried about diseases......or maybe you kissing them afterwards and they may get a fever blister on their lips....and many just prefer the penis to get the job done!!!!....Cant say That i hate it but I dont care for it.....some of us get a sensation down there where oral just isnt cutting it....its having something like contractions...like it's searching for something and there is an uncomfortable throbbing....it needs the the penis!!! :)
 OutofControlMan
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 413
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Posted: 10/19/2012 2:55:14 AM
^^

I understand completely where you are coming from , VGE..this must be as irritating & frustrating to you, as the women who insist to me, that "every" man LOVEeeeeeeeeeees oral, and if I don't it just must mean that " I've never met a woman who know how to give", are to me.

I do NOT like receiving oral, period, end of story..I wish people wouldn't be so fvcking arrogant and clueless as to tell ME that THEY know me, better than I know myself! just keep your mouth away from my junk, there's so much more to sex play.
 takemetoasgard
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 417
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Posted: 1/20/2013 12:19:27 AM
I have to say that I'm not against it, but I'm not a fan of it. I think that's mainly because I've never had a guy that was talented at it. They were just sloppy and... ughh... horrible.
 billybebad
Joined: 12/14/2012
Msg: 418
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Posted: 1/20/2013 1:24:04 AM
you have to like it to be good at it and i just happen love giving oral
 safaa30
Joined: 3/1/2012
Msg: 419
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Posted: 1/20/2013 8:44:15 AM
We hate recieving oral sex from people who dont know what they are doing. So, in order not to ruin the delicate mood, keep your head above my waistline, thank you!
 LivvyH.
Joined: 6/14/2012
Msg: 420
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Posted: 1/20/2013 1:51:57 PM
Had a bad experiance. Plus my ex ( The only one who has tried to do it)was a monster and I have flashbacks whenever something leads to "that". It makes me uncomfertable, kind of like ptsd relating to the experiance.
 licoricecat_1
Joined: 11/23/2008
Msg: 422
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Posted: 1/20/2013 4:54:40 PM
Old fashioned values only accepting the missionary style. Some believe it is vulgar and they are usually from the old school.
 licoricecat_1
Joined: 11/23/2008
Msg: 423
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Posted: 1/20/2013 4:58:55 PM
I love it! As long as both people have been tested for STD's and both are clean and have taken showers and you really love your partner---and it pleases your partner. Oral sex is very gratifying and the sensation is great. A lot of nerve endings down there on males and females.
 takemetoasgard
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 425
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Posted: 1/20/2013 8:03:20 PM

you have to like it to be good at it and i just happen love giving oral


Well, that's good for you lol. But I disagree. I hate giving h-jobs, but I'm still fantastic at it because I made myself learn how to do it well, and most of all, I love to pleasure my partner and make him happy. If a man can't learn how to go down on a women well just because he "doesn't like it", then he's a really bad, selfish lover. It's not about his pleasure, it's about hers.
 safaa30
Joined: 3/1/2012
Msg: 428
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Posted: 1/21/2013 7:12:53 AM
^^^Especially when they all try to outscream each other in how honest they are :)))
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 430
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Posted: 1/21/2013 3:15:04 PM
Those that actually Hate it....are missing-out on some Terrific partners...
that Absolutely _LOVE_IT_!!!

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 grove_22
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 432
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Posted: 1/21/2013 6:27:58 PM
Never met a woman that hated receiving oral sex. They simply liked other activites better. Such as intercourse or giving oral sex.
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