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 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 28
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Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....Page 3 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)
my first time was so good it made me want more, more, more!
then I got married.....and after a couple years I was thinking your thoughts...."is this it?!"...
then I got divorced and started having good sex again.....and 10 years later I still want more, more, more!
 DAVE632
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 33
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Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 6/16/2007 11:02:36 AM
ANYBUDDY who describes sex as "" Ummm ... whatever ... "" I suspect is using the wrong drill bit and possibly the wrong oil well too. Nuffin like drillin' through the wrong strata to be disappointed ... ... whatever ...

Considering the ABYSMAL state of sex education as demonstrated multiple times DAILY on these threads, I'd suggest the OP do some serious RESEARCH into what he's doing WRONG and learn to fix it ... unless of course there was a tragic accident at boith what his momma forgot to tell him about.

I think maybe any " disappoint " I experienced the first few times I had sex was knowing HER attitude was closer to "ummm ... whatever." But then the answer the previous post I DID learn to eat it and things generally have been improving since.

Since discovering this, things have been even better.

http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892
 Fun_Jess
Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 34
Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 6/16/2007 12:36:49 PM
yes it is sort of true for me.
 giggleparts
Joined: 10/23/2004
Msg: 36
Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 7/20/2007 12:26:43 AM
I'm waiting to do it more before I form an opinion, that way I'll have a bigger set of test data to compare things to...

Plus, I just want to do it more...

Garofalo7... are you some sort of ... like... non-liking of sex type... robot... or something?

the giggleparts - I'm irresistible... if by irresistible, I mean completely and utterly resistible...
 csod64
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 37
Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 7/20/2007 12:31:28 AM
First few times weren't exactly what I'd call, "awesome". Do you realize how long it's beens since I was "intact"? Let's just say that my view on sex has greatly improved...
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 39
Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 7/20/2007 7:32:58 AM
well i to had high expectations before the first time and after i had did it i thought ...OH MY GOD i never imagined anything could be this great.... that was 35 years and a lot of sex ago and its still great ....even the bad sex has been WONDERFUL ... i have had sex with people i loved and people i liked and people i didnt like but never had sex i didnt like
 *mandrake*
Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 42
Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 7/20/2007 1:10:53 PM
OP....perhaps you're not finding the right "crack!"
 itisallacharade
Joined: 5/11/2007
Msg: 44
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Posted: 7/20/2007 6:04:53 PM

The day I go "Mmmmkay... whatever..." to having sex is the day I want to be shot in the head.



I second that, sometimes sex just sucks but when I am saying what ever about sex altogeather then I have a serious problem not to mention that I lost all feeling in my lower areas....


just cause they send you this doesn't mean they really like you......
 strollinbella
Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 48
Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 12/22/2007 8:37:05 PM
My first time was horrible; the guy forced himself on me. For many years after that I wouldn't allow myself to respond to caresses or the physical act of lovemaking. It took the love and patience of a good man to get rid of my inhibitions and relax enough to enjoy the experience.

Sex is wonderful now.....
 Chiwrtr72
Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 49
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Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 12/22/2007 9:03:20 PM

Is it true that when you were a virgin sex was more of a...You wanted to do it more than ever, then when you did Finally do it, you were like,

"hmmm, well....Mmmmkay....whatever..."


Of course your view might change if you can have sex more than once.

Oh wait, we can have sex more than one time!!!
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 55
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Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 1/31/2008 12:51:56 PM
It gets better and better with age. ...patience grasshopper
 wizardofossington
Joined: 6/17/2007
Msg: 56
Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 1/31/2008 2:46:59 PM
Ummm....Garofalo will never have a chance nor will he/she ever respond to your post becasue he is no longer a member. Its been since 2005 when this thread has been created. Its almost like talking to wall......
 ExplosiveSheep
Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 58
Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 2/25/2008 4:29:22 AM
You know what? The anticipation of sex, the part before it's gonna happen, where I want to do it, it is far better than actual sex. I enjoy it, but I gotta say that sex for me, even with a wild girl just wasn't all I thought it was gonna be before I'd had it.

I know full well that I have an unrealistic expectation of it again in my head, it sucks cause wil I enjoy sex, I enjoy it enough to make it last as long as possible, but it's still not as good as I remember thinking it was gonna be.

C'est La Vie

Ps. Despite all that, I still don't tend to be able to stop wantin to do it a thousand times a week.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 61
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Posted: 2/25/2008 11:27:32 AM

You know what I mean...


No, I don't know what you mean. I first had sex 27 years ago and it's still better than all that I imagined it to be before that.
 red_lotus
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 62
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Posted: 3/28/2008 3:04:35 PM
so basically you're saying your first time was a let down?

ok so either you were a fumbling teen who didnt know what you were doing and so was your partner.

Your partner was useless or you didnt take the tiem to familiarise what to do with much porn lol.

Or you built up a fantasy for your first time that wasnt fulfilled.
 Mr Bain
Joined: 12/6/2004
Msg: 66
Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 3/31/2008 5:55:51 PM
It's not about having sex. It's about making a girl swoon in bed.

Once, you get her there, you kiss her on the lips like there's no tomorrow.

Get up for one minute, get a drink from the fridge.

Get back in there, continue kissing her on the lips.

This works a lot of the time. This was how I got one girl to go from saying "I should probably go" to saying "You make me do things that I would otherwise not do" in the timespan of about an hour.
 Mr Bain
Joined: 12/6/2004
Msg: 67
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Posted: 3/31/2008 5:58:16 PM
You should watch movies with Cary Grant or Humphrey Bogart.

There was a time when watching movies taught you what being a real man was all about.
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
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Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 3/31/2008 6:28:55 PM
It's definitely gotten better with age and experience! ;-)
 tronvillain
Joined: 8/19/2006
Msg: 70
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Posted: 6/8/2008 5:59:26 PM
Nope. If anything, it has been the other way around. *chuckle*
 BrickCharm City
Joined: 6/13/2009
Msg: 72
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Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 6/26/2009 10:32:01 PM
I was the opposite. I wasn't that beat for sex when I was a virgin but at this point, the more I have it the more I want it. I'm a very sensual person.
 livetolaf443
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 73
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Posted: 6/26/2009 10:35:47 PM
kinda true...but whatever, you can always relive if you find someone really special :)
 Jeffrey Lebowski
Joined: 2/21/2009
Msg: 75
Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 6/27/2009 2:21:37 AM
Depends on your expectations. Is it the end all, be all, that dwarfs any other experience you have had or ever will have, then no - it's not all it's cracked up to be.

But if you expect it to simply be an extremely pleasurable experience shared by two consenting people, then yes, it is all it's cracked up to be - and then some.
 ~JustSimplyMe~
Joined: 8/18/2006
Msg: 76
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Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 7/9/2009 6:16:13 PM
^^ and has been resurrected at least once a year since the original post. That shows it as an apparently valid topic :)

I think too many people put more faith and expectation in their partner knowing exactly what they need/want than they should. If you want great sex then damn well make it happen! If he/she isn't doing it for you, man up and show them how you want it
 thebigslim
Joined: 9/27/2005
Msg: 79
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Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 7/10/2009 6:59:32 AM
Yep I am in total agreement with that statement for the first time... it gets really good I would say after the 4th, but that is just me. Then again I was one of those people who didn't care whether I got it or not for the majority of my life, so I am an exception to that rule. None the less, at first it was over rated until that true emotional connection kicked in, then it was awesome!
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 80
Sex...Not all it's cracked up to be....
Posted: 7/10/2009 11:10:40 AM
Good sex is better than crack, thus it is better than what is cracked up to be. Also if you are going doggy style you can see her crack.

Okay, horrible humor but still cracks me up.



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