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 goober077
Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 68
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Nice thing about everyone here on this forum is indifference. The world would be a 70 yr virgin in depends if we where all the same.. you have to admit.. It would be quite boring.
 Scooterbrum
Joined: 12/13/2003
Msg: 71
Why a virgin?
Posted: 1/2/2006 11:00:51 PM
I never had a virgin are they better than the rest
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Joined: 4/15/2005
Msg: 72
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Posted: 1/3/2006 2:32:04 AM
I honestly don't find it matters, not a plus or a minus for me, I do not discriminate on the basis of experience.

My latest theory about dating is that romantic fools self-disqualify to go and find people of their own worth(lessness). I am sure he will not only get what he deserves (perhaps simply loneliness), but that you will find a man who will treasures you for who you are and not (what I would consider) something superficial and unimportant.
 sddude
Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 75
Why a virgin?
Posted: 1/3/2006 8:51:33 AM
This is how I lost my virginity .

I dated my wife (RIP) for 2 years before I married her , we were both virgins , during our honeymoon we were so nervous , did not know how to go about it , where the hole exactly was , what angle to put it in , it was shear terror , it was painful for both , it was a really dry situation and the friction caused redness and pain , the screams of both of us could probably be heard down to the next floor in the next floor , we felt extremely stupid and wondered if it was supposed to hurt and be dry like that , it took us a week to try it again , still hurt , after a few month were were as horney and slutty to eachother , at least 3 times a day for a couple of years , boy I miss her .

after her I got a girlfriend , she was a virgin too , she seduced me first , I knew what to do , and how to do it , same deathscreams came from her , another girl around 6 months ago stayed in my house after a party , she got in my bed and asked me to take her virginity away , she seemed to know what to do , she told me she was a porn addict , no screams or pain from her .

Done 3 women in all my life and all 3 were virgins . I am celibate now , scared that my tool will inflate a girl , the last one was trying for a baby without telling me , she told me she was on the pill and did not like condoms , that was a lie ... that is another story though .
 Setiri-Tx
Joined: 12/24/2005
Msg: 76
Why a virgin?
Posted: 1/3/2006 11:36:41 AM
Kloey, there won't be too much difference honestly... the only difference is made from the person themselves, their behavior and how much they care about you.

I'd give "the win" to a virgin who was caring, understanding and patient (and taking notes) to a person with lots of experience who just didn't give a damn and thought they were god's gift.

As for touch and go... well, isn't that all men? You touch'em and they're ready to go!









ok, maybe that's just me...
 wiserd
Joined: 5/11/2004
Msg: 77
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Posted: 1/3/2006 11:41:47 AM
Sounds like he was insecure and hypocritical, or possibly just getting cold feet.

Of course, from a practical standpoint there's some sense to saying that a person should have always used protection. There are a lot of STDs. Not all are detectable. through standard medical tests.

I've had girlfriends explain to me how they slept with guys without protection but it was okay because x, y, z.

I don't believe it, and no thanks.
 mystlw
Joined: 9/19/2005
Msg: 78
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Posted: 1/3/2006 4:15:25 PM

seems you're either a prude or a slut and there's little in between- like someone said earlier...


I disagree. I know we all like to bash men, but give them a little credit here. Most men, especially older ones, realize that a woman can be somewhat experienced without being a whore. And men closer to my own age are fully aware that most women they will meet will have, at some point, been married, which makes them neither a virgin or a whore; just someone with life experience.
Personally, I believe that most men are much smarter, and more aware, than women tend to give them credit for.
 Kashue
Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 85
Why a virgin?
Posted: 1/4/2006 8:34:10 AM
Some people just have unrealistic criterias or, to put it nicely, covet perfect dreams in a perfect world where everything conforms to them. Either you bring them down to earth to face the real world, or you can wish them all the best and move on...

Not everyone's like that tho. Personally, i don't give a damn about whether someone i'm in love with is a virgin or not. There're just too many circumstances and too many explainations that could've happened. Worst case scenario. EVEN if it was her mistake, either lust born out of a moment of folly or walking up to the local brothel to declare she wants in, if i truly am in love, i really couldn't care less... And i'm a 0.

The bottomline is... Does the guy love her enough? Does he love her for everything she is? If the answer is anything short of a RESOUNDING 'YES!!!', trash it all. It'll all be a waste of time, effort, and emotion.

Ed-
 World-By-Storm
Joined: 1/1/2006
Msg: 94
Why a virgin?
Posted: 1/12/2006 3:00:03 PM
men like it tighter. case closed.
 Kelleyisnice
Joined: 1/5/2006
Msg: 104
Why a virgin?
Posted: 1/20/2006 4:28:05 AM
I believe age make a difference.
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
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Posted: 1/20/2006 4:29:40 AM
The most OVERRATED and OVERHYPED aspects of all human existance, are the concepts of virginity, and celebacy. Just exactly how impressed am I supposed to be with someone NOT doing something.
Oh I never learned how to swim, and I'm so proud.
Oh I never learned how do drive, arn't I good.
Just exactly how big a trick is it NOT to have sex ??
Have these people got potental lovers pulling at them all the time ?
Marry a virgin ? Reject her if she's not ?
How shallow !
 Kelleyisnice
Joined: 1/5/2006
Msg: 106
Why a virgin?
Posted: 1/20/2006 4:36:43 AM

Have these people got potental lovers pulling at them all the time ?


I'll let you answer you own question. What do you think? Do men wish to have sex with me?
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 107
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Posted: 1/20/2006 4:48:41 AM
You have GOT to be kidding me !
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
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Posted: 1/20/2006 5:01:44 AM
If you aint culled one out of the heard yet, that's your pereogative, but don't expect me to be overly impressed.
 Kelleyisnice
Joined: 1/5/2006
Msg: 109
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Posted: 1/20/2006 5:56:42 AM

It means they are still controlled by their mothers. My advice...stay clear of them.


Doug, the truth is, I do listen to my mother. You might say she is best friend. However, I'm not controlled by her. And, if you wish to stay clear of me...well, I'm sorry if I'm not good enough for you. I suppose you can do a lot better than me.
 cuter_than_anyone
Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 111
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Posted: 1/20/2006 8:44:50 AM
oh hell

i lost my virginity when i was 15 where where where was all this insightful INTERNET advice then??????

a good many of you are wacked

i'm feeling superior now and that's a great way to start the weekend. thanks
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
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Posted: 1/21/2006 4:17:56 AM
Every woman in the world knows who her own children are. No man can ever be absolutely sure if his kids are really really his.
How is a man in our civilized society going to prove his wife to be is a virgin, have her inspected ? Inspect her himself ?
Better get to her while she's young. Even with virgins, the hymen eventually wears away and dissapears as a woman gets older.
It is a silly requirement.
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 122
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Posted: 1/21/2006 5:02:33 AM
DNA ? Sure ? But still not absolute.
How bout another word. Trust.

Do you really want a guy who'd go as far as a DNA test ?
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
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Posted: 1/21/2006 10:03:16 AM
I don't mean to pick on you Adriana:
It's just that when we are young we have attitudes we don't have as we get older.
The idea of a man only marrying a virgin is silly and unrealistic. It's putting a value on love and prerequisites on love.
What if the marriage doesn't work out. Will he insist upon his 2nd wife being a virgin as well ?
It seems all romantic for two young people knowing only eachother.
Take this for example:
If someone came to you and said, " I never want to go to Disneyland, until they agree to let me move in and live there forever".
That would be a silly attitude wouldn't it? But the attitude of, I'll only have sex with someone who will let me move in a stay forever is just as rediculious. It's like being afraid of going to Disneyland because your afraid you might LIKE IT too much.
If you want to stay a virgin then by all means do so. If you want to marry a virgin, don't let me talk you out of it.
I'm only saying, relationships are more than that.
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