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Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 26
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Making sounds yourself does make others come out of their shelves. Asking if it's possible goe sa long way, too. Maybe they are just ashamed and you simply need a good talk about it. But I guess most people can't really see that.
Joined: 6/7/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 7/7/2007 7:18:40 AM
No way, I love a few good grunts
Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 31
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Posted: 7/7/2007 8:02:56 AM
What I am saying though, and what message 45 is definitely not getting, is that you can talk about these issues. I can't see any harm in that. Because I do understand it's nice to hear some sounds during the big S.

The only thing that happens is that you actually have to pull your mouth open. Better as arguments while the other doesn't really understand what happened.
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 38
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Posted: 8/12/2008 6:57:14 PM
I'd be compelled to shake him, smack him and/or make sure he was alive. I'm bound to- at least- get a grunt outta that one, lol.
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 45
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Posted: 8/13/2008 2:40:04 AM
Aw heck.....I thought you meant, did I get worried if they quit snoring.

You mean during sex don't ya? I kind of like the silence........especailly if I don't wake 'em up?
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 48
Sexual Silence?
Posted: 10/2/2008 6:35:28 AM
The only 'silent' sex I want is when you are stuffing her mouth with a pillow or something because you're doing the naughty where other people are close by!
 very happy camper
Joined: 4/21/2008
Msg: 52
Sexual Silence?
Posted: 10/2/2008 1:40:28 PM
I have a theory that people who are quiet trained themselves to be so when they were masturbating at home so no one would hear them.

Personally, I think that when you get quiet you stop breathing and that seriously ruins what would otherwise be a perfectly good orgasm. Groan, talk, moan, scream its all good to keep the breathing going and to fully appreciate life's great gift.
Joined: 7/20/2008
Msg: 57
Sexual Silence?
Posted: 10/4/2008 4:29:17 PM
Hearing some feedback is good, I like to hear a lil sumpin sumpin.... Its the quiet ones you have to watch.... LOL
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 58
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Posted: 10/4/2008 5:35:35 PM
I used to be silent but my second wife got me to open up so to speak(pardon the pun0 and my current lady loves my moans and groans. I am not a screamer, but i am vocal.
Joined: 1/14/2006
Msg: 59
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Posted: 10/4/2008 11:49:11 PM
When she's quiet, she's not nagging at you....enjoy the break!

really though, I don't enjoy screamers........nor am I one........

low, quiet moans are a turn on to me anyways

BTW........any woman that screams for any reason scares the crap out of ....... (I always think they found my stash of cash and are running off to the mall )

Joined: 7/7/2008
Msg: 61
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Posted: 2/3/2009 11:14:44 AM
I don't mind silence or anything quiet as long he isn't dead/post-cardiac arrest or something. But...then in an apartment with thin walls, quiet is good so Melrose Place doesn't start the gossip!
Joined: 1/20/2009
Msg: 64
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Posted: 2/3/2009 1:55:21 PM
The quiet ones are the most dangerous. Best be careful.
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