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 Anna01
Joined: 6/28/2005
Msg: 59
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.Page 2 of 16    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16)
Before braking up with me, this guy that I had dated for 3 yrs. told me he needed a change. He had changed his job, so I thought he was satisfied...no. He went to the gym and started to get in shape, still not happy. He dyed his hair blonde, bought a new wardrobe, and moved out without so much as a goodbye. His metamorphisis into an a**hole was complete!
 Bryce77
Joined: 4/7/2005
Msg: 60
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worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/10/2005 6:43:54 AM
LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol lol should of strapped that bus to your a## so you didn't fall in!!!
 opaphous
Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 65
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/10/2005 3:44:22 PM
you know all the old lines people say........IT NOT YOU IT ME!.......I WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOU IN MY HEART!....I'M YOUNG, I WANT TO SEE OTHER PEOPLE!...I STILL LOVE YOU...I HATE THE SIGHT OF YOU!!...
 opaphous
Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 66
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/10/2005 3:46:56 PM
or YOUR FIRED!!!
 100%me
Joined: 5/1/2005
Msg: 68
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/10/2005 5:56:18 PM
I still love you, but......
 vafinest96
Joined: 12/29/2004
Msg: 72
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Posted: 7/11/2005 1:12:50 AM
What's up everyone, the worst thing ever said to me was by my ex-wife...after I found out about her affair with this guy we both worked with, she had the nerve to come home pack all her stuff and then before she walked out the door she looked me straight in the eye and said..." I'm sorry, but I still love you." Now how in the hell did she still love me and went to stay with some other guy. Needless to say 10 months later we were divorced.
 Mr_CLEAN
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 73
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/11/2005 1:30:04 AM
I think that the person who does it in the worst way ends up in the worst situation in the end. SELF CONTROL IS ALWAYS THE TOUGHER WAY. It also makes you STRONGER. And smarter if you can find other more positive ways to let out the pain.
I dont feel sorry for anyone who's had a tough breakup. The joke's on the person that did it to them.
 crystalise
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 77
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/21/2005 8:34:35 PM
Hey houtx2004 - not all women are like that. Better luck next time. I have to say, it never ceases to amaze me the lengths that people will go to make themselves look like the victim or the self-righteous person in a break-up. Just say sorry, I think I have to leave the relationship as my feelings are not as strong as I thoght they would be after all. Or something like that

I mean when it comes down to it, how DO you say to someone, its not working out for me, my feelings change etc??? Thats a rhetorical question btw. Its really hard. Its a negative thing no matter which way you look at it and people react accordingly. thats why people gotta come up with something, like the its not you its me...

Well its better than what I got. I got nothing. Silence...zip...one minute I get the messsage that hes 'thinking about cultural differences'...the next, 7 weeks of silence and me counting the days til I may hear something - cause I dont know otherwise. To me I was still in a relationship and had to do the whole work it out via silence treatment. Trust me I would prefer the "" its not you its me" at least they have the consideration to think you deserve to know where you stand even if it is a cliche. I am still stuck with no closure and left wondering what I did to deserve that [ I know I did nothing mean or nasty whatsoever, and thats the truth]

Anyways...some of this stuff is just mean. Beats me what makes these people so messed up. Well i guess thats it, they are messed up. You are so better off without them, all you folks who got hard-core nasty stuff.
 crystalise
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 78
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/21/2005 8:42:32 PM
right on De-lye-lah. I like that last line. May I use it? maybe we all could - just go...' wow it sucks to be you, huh?''


and then buh-bye
 JentleJiantJim
Joined: 7/12/2005
Msg: 85
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Posted: 7/21/2005 11:39:48 PM
"By the way, all the rumours are true...I've slept with more than 20 guys this year...from this college, and 2 of them are your friends"

That one hurt...a lot.
 windsorsweetie
Joined: 10/30/2003
Msg: 86
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/21/2005 11:52:38 PM
A guy once told me that Im not as skinny as the girls he usual dates but he still cant help but imagine rolling around naked with me. I was like...."uh...thx...i guess" I never spoke to him again...I was so hurt.
 NeoRaijin
Joined: 4/17/2005
Msg: 87
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Posted: 7/22/2005 8:12:22 AM
My ex's sister, told me my ex was happier with a girl, than she ever was with me....
 Talitha001
Joined: 6/17/2005
Msg: 89
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Posted: 7/22/2005 11:23:57 PM
Ican`t believe you people have gone through these rude comments during a breakup.....I have never experienced anything like that so I can`tdd to it...Just wanted to say `sorry` that happened to you and I`m amazed you are on a dating site looking for love...If that happened to me...I doubt would be...Good luck to you all!!!
 Fcukmeplease
Joined: 1/21/2005
Msg: 96
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/24/2005 6:07:40 AM
your p.u.s.s.y is too tight

you are too good(so boring!!)
 jackie34
Joined: 7/13/2005
Msg: 101
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/26/2005 2:28:59 PM
they shot me
 jackie34
Joined: 7/13/2005
Msg: 102
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/26/2005 2:31:18 PM
they dated my best friend that is so $%#% up. they have no heart never the thought bout how your feelings felt
 TequilaMockingbird
Joined: 4/26/2005
Msg: 104
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/26/2005 6:57:51 PM
worst thing??...'you know, i've never really given lesbians a fair chance.'
 justswell
Joined: 1/18/2005
Msg: 106
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/29/2005 5:37:46 PM
Worst thing said to me.. would have to be.." I know i love you with all my heart. and I will never love anyone else the same way.. but this is just somthing I have to do!" BULLSHIT Its Pretty hilarious when they come crawling back!!
 sledracer
Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 108
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/29/2005 6:23:11 PM
thats classic LMAO
 sledracer
Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 109
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/29/2005 6:27:46 PM
I love the one by NorthCoast that was a classic page 2 for reference LMAO
 Newhere
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 111
worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 7/30/2005 9:39:50 AM
What hurt me the most was having him tell me that he just doesnt love me (after 6 years) in the way that i love him. Having someone that you thought you would spend the rest of your life with, telling you that he wants you to move on with your life and be happy. That you deserve someone better and that will love you as much as you love me. Him saying that he wishes he didnt feel this way and tryed to love you but couldnt. Sad but true.... finally getting an honest answer about why our relationship wasnt working, hurt the most. Having the one you thought was your soul mate, tell you that he wants you to forget about him, move on with your life and be happy with someone else, is a feeling i will never forget and wouldnt wish upon anyone.

Ang!
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