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 Jaybo_31
Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 157
Could you say NO to sexPage 2 of 14    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14)
Of course, you have to have some level of self control or life becomes very difficult.
 Becca69
Joined: 12/17/2004
Msg: 158
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 2/21/2006 12:49:56 PM
Are you horny all the time?
 TimothyAL
Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 162
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 4/15/2006 5:34:43 PM
OK. You are a guy and a woman offers sex. She is either drunk and ready to roll, or you have been giving her signals that you want to. Well, there is also the case where she wants to control you using sex, but that's pretty rare for me.

I've said no before when I knew she was inebriated. There has been a time or two when I was just being friendly and it was mistaken for being interested. But, if you are giving signals that you might be interested and you say no, you are just being a tease. Something that anyone would take offense to.

One thing I've noticed is that a lot of people equate sex with bad. Sex itself isn't bad, using someone else for your own needs or ego trips is.
 TimothyAL
Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 163
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 4/15/2006 5:36:15 PM
My last post was about real life on a date, not online. Online, anything can be said. And a creep is still a creep no mater what gender!
 SunStreeked
Joined: 4/15/2006
Msg: 165
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 4/15/2006 5:40:52 PM
Ummm yes...I dont consider myself to be a prositute
 *~MisskriS~*
Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 167
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 4/15/2006 11:05:54 PM
i have no problem saying NO even if the guy is really hott cause its not all about the way a guy looks ...someone can be really hott on the outside but very ugly on the inside
 Killnik
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 181
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 4/19/2006 6:44:23 AM
I have said no before, but then I had just seen her eat a Kebab and if that doesn't kill the mood nothing will. But is it bad if I admit to using the "I have a headache" excuse when I've been with a long term girlfriend?

Just lying there is not a turn on
 freemewithlove
Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 195
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/14/2006 9:07:53 PM
I'll admit, I can't even say no to the thought of sex.
 ingridtu
Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 208
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/23/2006 5:30:04 PM
I am a real nympho..that is why I am always saying no to sex with a man
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 219
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/24/2006 9:35:59 PM
Sexual attraction or not, if there isn't a relationship in tact, the answer is NO.
 jasperjohn
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 222
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/25/2006 1:54:38 AM
Course I can....
 browneyedstallion
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 244
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/7/2007 7:22:20 AM

Could you say no to sex, if you didn't really find the person attractive, yet they seem a little easy in giving in ?


I can say no to intercourse, because it'll be like trying to raise the dead if I'm not attracted to the person. Now I have given into BJ's with a couple of women I didn't find particularly attractive, because they took everything well in hand so to speak. You can just lean back and close your eyes receiving a BJ. Thankfully I have a good imagination. I don't necessarily have to be attracted to a woman to enjoy a BJ. There's no kissing or rolling all over each other and the girl is at the other end doing her thing. It's hard to turn a BJ down when it's being offered unless the girl is hideous looking.
 SGB-814
Joined: 3/4/2006
Msg: 246
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/7/2007 9:00:11 AM
I do it all the time. There often is a good reason. The people involved usually expect more of a commitment than I could honestly give. Since I care about their friendship the answer has to be no.

On the other hand their are others who I have no attraction to that I wouldn't give the satisfaction.
 JustCallMeMike
Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 247
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/7/2007 9:02:09 AM
Yes I can and have and probably will if I was in a non-marriage relationship.
 tom42149
Joined: 11/23/2006
Msg: 252
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/7/2007 10:20:50 PM
I could try, but I've never been good with No's.

Unless I already had a SO! Cheatin' hurts alot, always!!
 Onaturel
Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 254
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/8/2007 6:26:41 AM
^^^ totally agree


Yes. I did this weekend actually, and he WAS attractive. I just dont' take home guys I just met.
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