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 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 219
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Sexual attraction or not, if there isn't a relationship in tact, the answer is NO.
 jasperjohn
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 222
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/25/2006 1:54:38 AM
Course I can....
 browneyedstallion
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 244
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/7/2007 7:22:20 AM

Could you say no to sex, if you didn't really find the person attractive, yet they seem a little easy in giving in ?


I can say no to intercourse, because it'll be like trying to raise the dead if I'm not attracted to the person. Now I have given into BJ's with a couple of women I didn't find particularly attractive, because they took everything well in hand so to speak. You can just lean back and close your eyes receiving a BJ. Thankfully I have a good imagination. I don't necessarily have to be attracted to a woman to enjoy a BJ. There's no kissing or rolling all over each other and the girl is at the other end doing her thing. It's hard to turn a BJ down when it's being offered unless the girl is hideous looking.
 SGB-814
Joined: 3/4/2006
Msg: 246
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/7/2007 9:00:11 AM
I do it all the time. There often is a good reason. The people involved usually expect more of a commitment than I could honestly give. Since I care about their friendship the answer has to be no.

On the other hand their are others who I have no attraction to that I wouldn't give the satisfaction.
 JustCallMeMike
Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 247
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/7/2007 9:02:09 AM
Yes I can and have and probably will if I was in a non-marriage relationship.
 tom42149
Joined: 11/23/2006
Msg: 252
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/7/2007 10:20:50 PM
I could try, but I've never been good with No's.

Unless I already had a SO! Cheatin' hurts alot, always!!
 Onaturel
Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 254
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/8/2007 6:26:41 AM
^^^ totally agree


Yes. I did this weekend actually, and he WAS attractive. I just dont' take home guys I just met.
 PC2000
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 274
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/24/2007 8:44:57 PM
Could I say NO to sex ...... honestly, I don't know.
 bigruss
Joined: 10/7/2006
Msg: 280
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/27/2007 3:10:15 AM
i have no problem saying no. i dont care if she is drop dead beautifull, or the uglyest person in the world... we men have times we just dont want to be botherd with it.... like when i get a head ache;;lol
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 282
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 4/4/2007 10:09:46 AM
I dont outright say no but I'll make sure I'm not put in a situation where such an event may occur.
 goshiloveyou
Joined: 4/9/2007
Msg: 286
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 4/24/2007 6:01:02 PM
I can say no to sex....
even if it's my soul mate/dream guy asking.

If I don't want sex
I make it clear. No doubts.
 harviej
Joined: 12/18/2006
Msg: 289
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 4/25/2007 5:30:27 AM
Can I say no to sex?

Hmm.


Wouldn't I have to be asked first?
 Beat Me Up
Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 294
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 4/28/2007 1:17:52 AM
I think you can get with any female ...it depends on how much you have had to drink
 §püngl䧧
Joined: 3/6/2007
Msg: 296
Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 4/28/2007 10:52:44 AM
I say no all too well...I really need to learn how to say YES!!! lmfao
 painter0070
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 315
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/14/2008 4:55:04 AM
I dig the sexy cha cha...but I have no problem saying no thank you
 Divinity
Joined: 2/16/2008
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Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/14/2008 2:00:52 PM
NO!


There I said it
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