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Joined: 4/14/2006
Msg: 82
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no...all it means that he is a good kisser....
Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 92
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Posted: 6/4/2006 8:10:13 PM
Not true, IMO. I have known GREAT kissers who couldn't even raise the flag much less use it well.

'Course, it might have been my maneater vibe scaring them off......
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 102
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Posted: 6/30/2006 2:26:54 PM
i like that theory good kisser = good lover. I would have to agree with the experiance i have it is very true.
Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 105
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Posted: 6/30/2006 5:16:50 PM
nah you cant tell by that its similar but not comparable next?
Joined: 5/31/2006
Msg: 118
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Posted: 6/30/2006 10:22:38 PM
Absolutely! If a guy can kiss you with such an intense passion ~ using his lips and tongue in such a way that you can only imagine and anticipate him using on your other

Yep.. definitely a good sign
Joined: 12/20/2005
Msg: 123
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Posted: 7/1/2006 1:59:46 PM
Kissing lights the fire of passion deep inside me...
I love feeling a woman melt in my arms...
I can kiss all night but she better keep up or
I am outta there
Of course you need to keep the shower running with cold water only
and remember that it was cold water there is SHRINKAGE

Have a nice day and 4TH
Joined: 12/20/2005
Msg: 126
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Posted: 7/9/2006 4:33:04 AM
A good kisser has passion and passion during sex is a good thing...
If your a good kisser then your usually a "giver" looking to "please" your partner...

There are exceptions to the rule but then again I have never had bad sex LOL
I would dare say GULP that women have much more experience with bad sex then men do...
Just a thought...

Have a nice day
Joined: 10/17/2006
Msg: 140
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Posted: 11/7/2006 5:26:55 PM
I have to agree with most the replies on here...

Kissing is an art,(like making love) it does take some practice, but bottom line for me, is if the man can't kiss...then He doesnt get past first base with me.

there's is nothing more erotic than a hot and heavy make out session....if he has me creaming my panties w/his kiss, I can only imagne how HOT he will be in bed.....
 Mr Bain
Joined: 12/6/2004
Msg: 144
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Posted: 11/9/2006 1:22:52 AM
No, it's not related. I know for a fact.

I rely on being a good kisser, after a woman finds out (drum roll) that I'm mediocre in bed.

And, for what it's worth, some women appreciate it. It makes a fantastic distraction.
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 152
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Posted: 11/10/2006 6:29:25 PM
It does not always equate to good sex.
I've known a few that could curl my toes with a kiss....and were damn lousy in bed.

but I agree that if you can't arouse me with a kiss.....we're not gonna make it to the bed.
Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 156
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Posted: 11/10/2006 8:58:30 PM

most definitely... good kissing = good sex

with an exception of the minor and unfortunate few (and no.. you cant blame it on the alcohol)
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 166
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Posted: 11/11/2006 9:05:50 PM
Kissing sets the stage in my opinion ...its the difference between f&*king and something more intense and intimate. No doubt there are places for both on their own, put together sex can be incredible!
Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 167
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Posted: 11/11/2006 9:20:05 PM
I concur on that. good kisser =good in bed.
Joined: 6/9/2006
Msg: 169
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Posted: 11/11/2006 10:01:20 PM
well my experience has been not all good kisser are good in bed.. but the bad kisser sure are bad in bed lol. cuz if u cant kiss its really pointless lol
Joined: 2/25/2006
Msg: 170
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Posted: 11/11/2006 10:20:37 PM
I don't think the two are related, however good passionate kisses really help build up anticipation and helps to create more excitement and is a great way of showing your partner how good of a time your having and how into the sex you are. One thing I wonder... What makes a person BAD in bed? I've had bad experiences in bed, which is partly my fault. Lack of communication, and/or having sex for the wrong reasons can really make up a recipe for "MEH" sex. But sometimes there are those people who don't have much rythym (sp? lol) or imagination, or are just plain afraid of trying things that are new or seem weird. But then again that just goes back to the forementioned lack of communication. Sometimes talking about what you want is embarrassing, but that goes with what I always say... If you cant talk about it, you shouldnt be doing it.

Joined: 11/2/2006
Msg: 177
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Posted: 11/21/2006 11:44:00 PM
yeah, I have heard most all women say good kissing = good sex. I, myself, have found this to be true, as well!
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 178
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Posted: 11/22/2006 4:19:02 AM
I don't always kiss during sex.

I don't kiss someone I can't date. There is a world of difference between just sex, and the intimacy that kissing shows.

It's more personal than sex.. and yes, those deep, passionate kisses make for some insanely good sex. :D

Kissing + sex = more than sex IMO..

Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 230
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Posted: 11/28/2007 5:05:33 PM
That first kiss should be MAGICAL. If it isn't...there is no second, third or fourth kiss
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 235
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Posted: 11/29/2007 11:34:46 AM
but teaching them to slow down and feel the moment is really what it comes down to.

... and then relish every momentum before sealing it with a
Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 238
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Posted: 11/30/2007 7:25:57 AM
My ex was an o.k. kisser, but lacked passion, and in bed she was fair to middlin'. The funniest thing about her was,she told me all of her ex's told her she was a great kisser! LOL, guys will sometimes say ANYTHING to get laid, she wasn't. Most women I've been with told me the main reason they wanted to sleep with me was cuz my kisses were so passiontae and they got wet just from them, that they knew the sex would be GREAT!!! Women have the power of the [meow] they don't need to lie, I told her, guys do!a number of my other exs were great kissers and the sex was GREAT with them. so in my sexperiance, they both correlate. I've also found even ones who were insexperienced, can be willing learners.
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 241
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Posted: 11/30/2007 7:59:02 AM
Well, if you want to succeed in something, don't you just give it time and an extra effort? And even if taking a break, the thoughts are still cruising in your mind because you set your mind on it.
Making love is not a project to be accomplished , should never be (!) but all these little subtle inklings incl are good indications for what one has 'up their sleeve' IMO.
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 245
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Posted: 11/30/2007 11:40:54 AM
Everyone wants a shortcut

... and maybe a quick fix too.
Well, I for one do love short-cuts when buzzing here or zooming there but when it comes to or one just has to stop and relish the special moment of unity.
Cutting through saves the time but why would one like to shorten a sensual kiss that ignites the heart contents?

As for a
"bad" kisser could be reformed

well, depending if they take to like a duck takes to water .
*never* is not in my vocabulary.
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