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Joined: 2/1/2004
Msg: 54
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Wow.....I am a pretty open-minded guy and all....but I have to draw the line somewhere.....and this....would be it.
Joined: 1/7/2007
Msg: 55
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Posted: 2/16/2007 8:39:53 PM
Any woman that even thinks there might be the slimmest chance of me doing this, needs to go see a therapist because she is obviously nuts.

Just trying to read her post about what she did to him made me queasy. Maybe i am just not as open minded as some of you posters. If not wanted this done to me makes me closed minded, then consider my mind shut tight as a vault.
Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 57
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Posted: 2/16/2007 8:55:21 PM
Is this an isolated case (man I hope so) or is this the norms these days as a “surprise” umm ........ err ...... *gift*?
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 58
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Posted: 2/16/2007 9:04:14 PM
I think some people here come up with anything they can dream up for shock value just to get a reaction. So many topics are redundant that people try and come up with any bizarre twist they can to get a discussion going. I find It hard to believe that some actually get turned on by some of the things they claim. My stomach has literally turned from reading some of the cr@p that's posted. There was a guy on here the other day saying he gets turned on by drinking his cum out of his girlfriends vagina. I knew there were some strange cats in this world, but I didn't realize how strange until I started following this forum.
Joined: 1/29/2007
Msg: 64
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Posted: 3/5/2007 3:54:19 PM

Joined: 9/9/2006
Msg: 66
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Posted: 3/7/2007 4:54:12 PM
Gay / homosexual means being ATTRACTED to members of the same sex. It has NOTHING to do with enjoying stimulation of any body part (including anal stimulation)

If she's into it, and he's into it, then all I can say is Go For It
Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 69
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Posted: 11/13/2007 3:48:52 PM
OK ....LMAO the post that called this a" butt dart"

DAMN that was funny
Joined: 3/2/2006
Msg: 71
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Posted: 11/13/2007 7:25:09 PM
unless hes expressed interest in that kind of thing, you had better not surprise him , to each their own, butt in my own limited experience with the doctors fingers, my ass is exit only
Joined: 3/19/2006
Msg: 75
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Posted: 3/25/2008 11:24:52 AM
guess well lubed and a long visit to the toilet might help, never tried it, but had a girl massage the prostrate just at the right moment :)
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 78
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Posted: 4/3/2008 6:58:37 PM
Personnally I have found this whole thread hot and would try it with the right woman.
Joined: 3/29/2008
Msg: 79
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Posted: 4/11/2008 9:58:45 PM
I hate to tell you girls this, BUT, if he's into the strap-on dildo, trust me...he's bisexual. Yep, trust me! I know, I know what you are thinking. How could that possibly have anything to do with our relationship? Guess what? I ran into that same thing with a man I was really infatuated with and he was into "pegging", which is the same thing to me. He likes it up the butt. There, I said it. He was definitely bi. I have have time for games like that. If you are straight, that's cool with me. If you think you can talk me into something I'm not going to do, forget about it like the Godfather would say. OKAY! Boom! I'm just telling you like it is. I like a man who is all the way straight. I'm not going to give out any names, but have had it up to HERE with these guys pretending to be straight when they are bisexual and will PLAY you! End of story! Call me old-fashioned.

Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 81
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Posted: 7/3/2008 7:35:18 PM
I'd love for some woman to strap-on to me.No, that doesn't make some gay.I'm 100% hetrosexual and love women and only women but I'm a submissive man .I love to feel a woman having power over me sexually.
Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 82
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Posted: 7/3/2008 8:52:01 PM
awe this is such a good thread. Thanks to the op. And yes it is true that a lot of men don't really care too much for the "strap-on" play. It's a power thing. It's about domination. It's about "roleplaying" obviously. It's kinda like, "hey, do you mind if I drive for once"? But, with regards to the "strap-on"...........ask first. "Some guys are Not into that. How it unfolds? Well I am going to read the resat of the posts right now to learn for myself. This I do know, it's about this spot inside the size of a walnot that need to be stimulated. Stimulate whatever you like but do it with permission or just stop when he asks you too.
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 83
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Posted: 7/7/2008 12:04:08 AM
wow, wow, WOW!!! where have I been??

I'm curious- what do the guys think about having it used on them when getting head- like in the 69 position? I have heard some guys have a harder time having an orgasm from oral- maybe this would help?

Just fishing for some ideas- wow, this thread is really something else!!!

Strap ON!!!

Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 86
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Posted: 7/7/2008 10:23:51 AM
just as I suspected you naughty naughty boy!!!!

Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 89
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Posted: 7/8/2008 2:44:11 AM
Just read all the posts and am surprised. Only a few (men AND women) started shrieking GAY GAY GAY !!! There were a couple and others pointed out what I've suggested on similar threads ... if the person in bed with you has NO peni$ and does have boobs then you're probably NOT gay. If you have NO desire to BE with a guy sexually then you're not gay - not even Bi. If a woman is touching you in a place that gays are known to touch then that doesn't make you Bi or gay or anything else. If your woman thinks it might be fun to turn the tables on you so to speak it doesn't make her a bull-dyke either.

The one scenario certainly hit a button. getting a BJ and being probed at the same time. I've had a bit of prostate poking a couple of times and if done right it can increase the intensity and prolong an orgasm which is good. The mental stimulation of what she is doing is also a big factor. It's never been a big part of my sex life but depending on the woman I was with, if she was into that I think I might learn to ... endure!!

It is nice to read so many posts from people with open minds too. There seems an inordinate amount of judgment and condemnation of others doing things they wouldn't which just sounds very closed minded.
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 91
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Posted: 7/11/2008 11:02:54 PM
I have always wanted to try this.Doing strap-on play does not mean you're gay.I love women and only women, thank you.I do however love having a woman treat me rough in the bedroom.I love having the woman in control this way.Nothing to do with men.
Joined: 4/30/2008
Msg: 92
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Posted: 7/12/2008 12:06:02 AM
Well from what my man says it feels good if done right slow and not rushed.
If you read about it you will fin that it makes a guy have a great orgasm.
And for all those guys that would not ever think about it, I think before you get to have anal sex with your girl she would give it to you 1st so you know how it feels and how it is done
Joined: 5/1/2007
Msg: 97
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Posted: 7/12/2008 9:23:28 AM
mmmmmm i think it is hot, wish my wife would suprise me like that. U could start by making him wear some of your lingerie. Then just tie his hands together. Get him on his stomach and warm him up by making him stick his ass in the air 4 u, while u rub his****thru the panties from behind. Then slowly lube him up and let him adjust and accept his fate as u rub his****thru the panties and begin to finger him from behind. Say things like " U like to be my little slut dont u?" and guage his responses. I guarantee, from this point he will do whatever u command. As all women know, once a guy is totally turned on, we will do as we are told, as long as it leads to release. Then , when u know he is at that point, roll him onto his back, tie his hands to the bed, make sure to keep him good and hard, then present him to the strap on. U could make him wet it with his mouth as u continue to rub his****and finger him. Ask him then if he wants to be a good slut and take your sweet**** I guarantee, he will beg for it. Slide a pillow under his ass, and make him beg, as u tease his**** then slide it in slowly, u might want to start to pull on his balls to slow him down, because i guarantee as soon as u slide it in, he may shoot his load. I have cum from being done in the ass, without even having my****touched. gradually pick up the pace and take it deeper and deeper. At the moment u see his****twitch, pull out and make him shoot all over himself, all the while telling him how much u luv your sissy slut. If this all goes to plan, he will be your plaything forever, and not only will he allow it, he will grow to need it.
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 98
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Posted: 7/12/2008 1:51:55 PM
Wow; not getting this at all. If I was married or was with a woman and she did this I would run for the hills. Not a turn on at all. Little too kinky for me but you should talk to your SO; if they are into it then strap it on. lol
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 100
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Posted: 8/4/2008 11:41:16 AM
Certainly this is a subjective topic. I for one seek a dominant woman and having a woman use a strap-on on me is a turn on. A bit frightening but certainly do-able. Now in no way, shape or form does this make me gay or bi. Men don't turn me on at all. A woman with a latix****and and attitude to go with does. Just because a man enjoys a little prostrate stimulation doesn't mean he is gay. Gays blow each other right? does that mean all men that enjoy a bj from women are also gay? Anyway just trying to seperate the association of women with strap-ons and homosexuality. I don't see it.

But to the OP marry me? Seriously you might want to spring it on him like that. Maybe suggest it first when making love , see what he says. Best of luck.
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 103
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Posted: 10/11/2009 12:55:55 AM
Youngone, are really that board that you need to go back and drag out every strap-on thread from the past 5years? what you need up your ass is somebodies boot!
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 106
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Posted: 10/11/2009 1:46:58 PM
Youngone, I don't recall saying people should not be who they are. I was just pointing out that by drag up 4 or 5 very old threads about the same topic, you look more like a troll than the truely curious. Your screen name says it all, time to grow up.
Joined: 9/7/2009
Msg: 109
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Posted: 11/5/2009 12:09:38 PM
if hes not into it call me... ide love to have a partner as open minded as you are. All i ask is be gentle at first.... get that at first. then Im quite shur ide love it if you pounded away. You have no idea how much I long for this.
Joined: 2/5/2008
Msg: 110
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Posted: 11/5/2009 2:02:30 PM
OMG. What is today's dating world becoming?
Not only do I have to be feminine, petite, I also have to be the MAN?????
Say it isnt so!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111
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