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 Witchypoo
Joined: 9/17/2005
Msg: 96
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Well it's a good thing bandit that she was older than 13, LOL.

:))
Witchy
 -Tesoro
Joined: 7/16/2007
Msg: 100
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Posted: 7/19/2007 8:06:04 AM
I agree with serendipityone.

She has a great outlook on this one. I am in my 40's and have dated two woman 15 yrs younger than myself. We had no problems relating to things because our interests were aligned.

I only had sex with one of the four that I dated because it turned into a long term relationship but I take exception to that other ladies viagra statement........do most men my age really have that problem?

Poor guys, no-wonder they drive Corvettes and new golf clubs !

Me?
I am just losing my hair. Hey viagra grows that too !
I am off to get some !
:)
 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 102
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Posted: 7/19/2007 9:50:37 AM

I am just losing my hair. Hey viagra grows that too !
I am off to get some !
:)
Hey, there was a thread about a man on Viagra. He lost his sex drive completely!

Viagra is a methamphetamine, like Crystal Meth. Has the same effects, higher libido, etc. But if you use it regularly, after about 6-8 months, it burns out your sex drive.
So, lots of sex, and then....nothing. Nada.
Eat healthy instead. Works much better.

I've not dated enough to say.
But I went out with 2 women, who were both about 2 years younger than me.

I'd consider anyone, but that's because I don't really care, as long as we can talk. It's not like I have a stream of intelligent attractive women to pick from.
It seems that shoes & football are as good as it gets.
 LittleMissScareAll
Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 107
What's the Biggest Age Difference?
Posted: 7/20/2007 12:07:48 AM
I think I sorta saw a guy who was about 9 years older than me once. I was 21, he was 30...but he looked like he was in his early 20's. And I looked 15. haha
 Champuli Nam Pakanli
Joined: 2/5/2007
Msg: 108
What's the Biggest Age Difference?
Posted: 7/20/2007 6:29:17 AM
Mellybabez says:
Age, skin colour, body type....
When you can look at somebody without seeing "that stuff" then you are really looking at them.


Absolutely agree with this statement!!

I typically date guys who are older than me. Guys my age are not mature enough for me - they still want to go clubbing, drinking, and play video games. The older guys have already done all that, and are content which themselves...

When I was 19, I was in a relationship with a 31 year old. The relationship last 2 years, and was great while it lasted. He'll always have a place in my heart.

When I was 30, I dated a 60 year old for a while...while a 30 year difference was a stretch, I had the most fun with him. We went to concerts, went sight-seeing, went out to eat, and met with friends every single night we were together...very cultural. It was great (and the sex was out of this world)!

That being said, I typically tend to stick to guys who are 10-15 years older than me...not younger than 10, not older than 15. But that's not set in stone.
 lovableladywanted
Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 109
What's the Biggest Age Difference?
Posted: 7/20/2007 6:38:26 AM
If we are men we might not even know . Many ladies lie about their age . The good news is thats easy to decipher in white page searches . So the gig is up ladies lmao. I have dated women couple decades or so older than me , not a big deal . At least not to me .
 csod64
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 118
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Posted: 7/29/2007 7:41:00 AM
On the "him older" side, 14 years. On the "me older" side, 15 years older.
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 120
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Posted: 8/2/2007 7:32:09 AM
I have dated women as much as 21 years younger than I am, and as much as 10 years older.........

As we age, I think the boundaries that were set as black and white, become much more gray and blurred. I have known women much older that looked and acted more in tune with my desires and wants, and many younger women that are way to old for me with their attitudes and looks.

Dating is about the experience, not the birth certificate, and if you match well, enjoy each other and leave better than when you started.......what is the harm????

My one "big" qualifier will be if they want children or not. I had mine, and have no desire to father any more, so if they are young enough and want to give birth, then that is a deal breaker. I do not mind dating someone that has children already, as I do as well, but I have no desire to do that from the start all over again.

Just my opinion........
 EC22
Joined: 4/25/2007
Msg: 122
What's the Biggest Age Difference?
Posted: 8/2/2007 1:51:34 PM
Serious relationship 4 years. I was 24 and she was 28.
Casual relationship 18 years. I was 29 and she was 47.

In a casual relationship, age doesn't matter to me. I wouldn't care if she was 21, 30, 40, or 50. In a serious relationship, I doubt I would date a woman that is more than 10 yrs older / younger than me. An much older woman ( more than 10 yrs older than me ) would probably have different long term and future goals than me. A much younger woman ( more than 10 years younger than me ) would probably be too immature and naive about many things. She wouldn't even be old enough to legally drink in the United States.
 NancyC123
Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 125
What's the Biggest Age Difference?
Posted: 8/2/2007 6:19:20 PM
I had the BEST summer fling a couple of years ago with a guy that was 18 years younger than me!!

I've been in a relationship for 4 year with a guy that was 5 years younger than me.

But, I've never dated or been with anyone significantly older than myself.

Oh, and for years now I've been carrying somewhat of a torch for a guy who's 12 years my junior!

Guess you can say, I've got a thing for younger guys! LOL
 Renato
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 131
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Posted: 8/3/2007 10:28:32 AM
Depending on ones age the gap can be greater. A 10 year difference is more then acceptable and works very well. I personally have experianced a 14 year gap a few years ago with an 18 yr old girl, needless to say it didn't last.
 AngelicGoddess
Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 135
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Posted: 8/5/2007 4:53:44 AM
The biggest age difference is also my longest lasting.. and its odd. Hes 17 yrs my senior, but we met VIA work, and knew each other a year before I pursued him.. he was leary at first, but man, to this day we get along famously...

It was a funny story really, i figured he was 31-32 he figured i was 24-25 so in our minds things were god. i thought we had discussed it, and aftera year and his boss trying toset us up, I never asked. One day we were out and I got ID and he grabbed my id, and i asked for his, and it was a quiet dinner to say the least.

We are still awesome friends, and to this day have never even had a fight, but neded things romantically, due to moving pretty far away for awhile etc... but now.. we are 10 blocks from each other..a nd hanging out alot.. so who knows :)
 DoctorG2003
Joined: 7/29/2007
Msg: 142
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Posted: 8/5/2007 5:35:30 PM
My last partner is 22 years younger than me. She was 30 and I was 52 when we met.
We had 5 wonderful years together. No regrets. A wonderful, loving, experience.
 Reenie999
Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 144
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Posted: 8/5/2007 6:05:51 PM
My last relationship was with a guy 18 yrs younger.

The one before that was 16 yrs older.

So the pendulum swings back and forth with me. It really depends on the two people involved.
 G G BELLE
Joined: 12/29/2004
Msg: 145
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Posted: 8/5/2007 9:15:46 PM
WHAT REALLY BUSTS MY CHOMPS IS OLDER GUYS WHO FOR SOME UNKNOWN REASON THINK THEY ARE "HOTTTT STUFF".THEY SAY IN THEIR PROFILE THEIR HAIR IS BROWN OR BLONDE AND YOU CAN CLEARLY SEE WHAT'S LEFT OF IT IS GREY. BALDING,AGE SPOTS,FALSE TEETH,YELLOW TEETH,FLACID SKIN &MUSCLES,SICKLEY & E.D.IS NOT HOT STUFF.SORRY TO BURST YOUR BUBBLE GRAMPS. YOU LOST IT.
 mikedanger
Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 147
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Posted: 8/9/2008 5:57:31 AM
my last girlfriend was 21 years younger... she picked me up in a bar.... it ended VERY badly, but not 'cause of the age differential....

mike
 12watch4
Joined: 4/30/2008
Msg: 148
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Posted: 8/9/2008 6:22:09 AM
Perhaps the differences should be measured in percentages - 10 years is a big delta if one is 30, the other 20. Less so if 50 and 60.

When I was 29 I dated an 18 year old. Lots of fun exploring her perfect body, went out a lot but not really much to talk about. When I was 43 I had an on-and-off fling with a lovely 55 year old lady - lots to chat about, things we'd done with our lives, and when it came to sex, we spent many lazy hours, patiently exploring and pleasing. She...knew things.

All are very pleasant memories, I'd not change a thing and I still care about them all.
 blondago56
Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 150
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Posted: 8/9/2008 8:04:05 AM
when i was in college, i dated 'here & there'..i was 19 & 'he' was 29.... my ex L/T(7 yrs)B/F is 7 years younger than me... The Biggest gap?hmm.. a guy i dated was 36 when i was 47... and on a different side of the coin, a gentleman i dated for a long while is 11 years Older than me...*sigh* ya never know...
 celts123
Joined: 5/15/2008
Msg: 151
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Posted: 8/9/2008 8:13:35 AM
17 years. I was 24 and she was 41. I also know a 30 yr old man is currently seeing a 49 yr old woman. That is the largest age difference among people I personally know. Before that he hooked up with a 53 yr old woman at some party. He got a BJ from her, but he didn't see again after that party.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 155
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Posted: 8/9/2008 11:51:50 AM
Seventeen years. I wouldn't reject a greater age difference for age alone.
 crystalise
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 159
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Posted: 8/10/2008 2:25:50 AM
8 years. I was 30 he was 22. We went out for over 3 years - I broke it off because I wasn't ready to settle down and he was. You would think it would be the other way around funnily but it wasn't. I dont think age in physical numbers is good enough gauge. I did hesitate at first - but he really had his act together for someone his age which is what changed my outlook on the numbers. Its where you are at in your life and your outlook. Its just that 'typically' an age used to denote what stage of life you should be at. I think with people staying single longer, being overall more healthy, able to stay younger and healthier longer, people also divorcing on the rise, that what used to be typical isnt so common anymore. There are more and more single poeple 30-50 and suddenly we realise life isnt over by a long shot... I would be more inclined to look at the person for other reasons, such as common goals, outlooks and personality traits than their birth certificate.
 sbnt
Joined: 1/23/2008
Msg: 162
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Posted: 8/10/2008 6:10:09 AM
I dated a woman who was 19 years older. Would I do it again...? I don't really know.

With that said, I'm comfortable with dating someone within 10-15 years older. I doubt I'd go younger than my own age though. Did 10 years younger, and it wasn't the best of times.
 Pete73052
Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 165
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Posted: 8/10/2008 2:54:03 PM
Does she have a younger sister?
 GoneSailinBabe
Joined: 7/6/2008
Msg: 166
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Posted: 8/10/2008 2:56:35 PM
11 years, he looked like Brad PItt - I'd do it ALL over again with out even blinking or hesitating.

That is the biggest age difference I would do - and would I do 11 years older than me?
No way.
No freaking way.
 mikedanger
Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 167
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Posted: 8/10/2008 3:35:46 PM
...goin' the other way... my 1st girl ever was 7 yrs older, and the oldest was 10 yrs older...

michal

sailin': hell, I'D do brad pitt w/ out blinkin', etc!! LMAO
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