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 sweetjaypea
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 151
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your funny!!! When I was your age, I did not like sex. It hurt like hell. When I lost my virginity..I cried.. I said "this is what I waited all my life for?" very disappointing. I then dated an older man, whom took his time with me, and then I really liked it, now OMG!!!! it is crazy!!!!!! .................I would never have believed that I would be saying that. ....lol...it's all good!!!!!!
 barbee1970
Joined: 12/29/2008
Msg: 152
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/6/2009 11:17:26 PM
Nope! Not for me! I'm lounging around like my neutered pets. It's like a convent over here. I don't feel interested anymore. Well, I had the surgery also.
 Valentinne
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 153
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/7/2009 6:01:22 PM
My sex drive is weird. Like today I think I masturbated six times, but tomorrow I may not even think of sex. Okay, I'm lying. I'll still think about it. Just maybe not six times.
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 154
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/7/2009 7:01:59 PM
And when you get to be 40 Val......It will be seven or eight times......

OT.......Unless there is something wrong with you physically, there is no reason to not have a high sex drive for a long long time.....

Now Val......I may not be able to do that six times stuff with you, but somehow I bet my once or twice would equal those six with accumulated time......

Just my opinion........
 rubberchicken39
Joined: 12/25/2008
Msg: 155
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/8/2009 7:13:25 PM
My sex drive is super high. I been told I am too much at times LOL Like there can ever be too much LOL only thing is is us older women have a high sex drive but our bodies are not limber and flexable like we were younger and we can not move around like we used to but sex drive yes is definately in full gear over 30.
 Diamond~Girl
Joined: 2/3/2009
Msg: 156
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/12/2009 10:44:21 AM
In most cases yes. However, there is such a thing called menopause so it really depends upon when it hits.
 byebye baby
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 157
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/12/2009 6:09:39 PM
I'm surprised this is even a question...
I thought it was common knowledge that the majority of women hit the "Dirty Thirties" Rearing to go

Personally, I was far more interested in sex at 30 and after.. but I'd been married from the tender age of 20 ~ 29 and during that time I felt sex was a duty.
Now I feel sorry my husband missed out on the best of me
Well maybe I don't feel sorry....
Anyway I'm hearing that it gets better at 40?
Or is someone trying to make me feel better about turning 40 next month?
 LakeCountyGal
Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 158
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/14/2009 6:59:22 PM
It is for me. LOL. I'm 34 and my hormones seem to be on fire on a pretty regular basis. LOL.
 annahime29
Joined: 11/28/2008
Msg: 159
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/16/2009 6:02:33 PM
haha . . . you are not alone in this thought!! Never feel bad though!! A guy should be damned happy and find a way to deal
 annahime29
Joined: 11/28/2008
Msg: 160
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/16/2009 6:05:06 PM
I agree with you one guy to be with would be nice. Well the men that finally do hang around becuase of you/us not your/our body are going to be some lucky **stards! LOL
 Angelwings72
Joined: 2/19/2008
Msg: 161
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/16/2009 7:17:38 PM
I am 36 and I can say that most definitely a woman's sex increases in their 30's. Sometimes I wonder if I think about sex as often as men do. I became more aware of myself sexually and what I liked and disliked. It was almost like a light switch turned on when I was about 32 and has never been turned off. Sex is much more enjoyable now and I think about all the time. There is almsot never a reason not to have it! LOL
 DocElffington
Joined: 1/20/2009
Msg: 162
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/17/2009 4:18:24 PM
I dunno if the sex drive is more.

But the quality of the sex is better!

And the frequency with which more than one person being involved, has increased!

Is 40 better than 30? Dunno. But My girl hits the big 4-0 in about six weeks and I'm stockin up on energy drinks and takin my vitamins!



 Pumpedup123
Joined: 3/17/2009
Msg: 163
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/21/2009 10:34:23 PM
you have to go with a younger guy lol ive dated girls that were 40 before lol and they never stop calling me but its only a fling lol cuz of the age diffrence in all
 FloridaGal00
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 164
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/22/2009 10:35:27 AM
Im going to have to go with yes on this from my women friends and for myself...however I will also say depends on the guy as well if there isnt a single thing I enjoy about him of coarse the feelings will be just that absolutley nothing...
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 165
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/22/2009 11:13:13 AM
Quality over quantity any time, and when you have those that are driven by that ever desired sex drive, free to be themselves and not withhold for whatever societal reason, and comfortable with the one they are sharing with, and themselves, the sex just gets better and better........

An experienced lover that is mature enough to know how and when to make love, have the will power and control to please as much as being pleased, and healthy enough to show it in multiple ways, is what most of us should enjoy as we mature into those years that make sex a mutual desire, and not just an act........

I can guarantee you that sex and what drives it, is even better well past your 30's and into your 40's and beyond. It becomes the adventure of finding another that matches you in all the right ways, and places......

Just my opinion........
 bella4u4ever
Joined: 1/2/2009
Msg: 166
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 3/22/2009 10:05:08 PM
it definitely is.
 silentangel211
Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 167
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Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 4/12/2009 7:04:37 PM
Most Definately!!
 butter scotch
Joined: 8/3/2007
Msg: 168
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 7/19/2009 9:46:58 PM
True, very, very ture.
 Sassafras Dragon
Joined: 12/5/2008
Msg: 169
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 8/3/2009 12:11:14 PM
Very true for me. Though I have always had a high sex drive.

I still exhaust my partner but now I've learned to pace myself, be demanding and thoroughly enjoy him.
 celticwildwoman
Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 170
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 8/3/2009 6:07:31 PM
Depends on the individual woman for this particular woman it is most definatly true......way to much fun...
 oblivion77
Joined: 4/11/2009
Msg: 171
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 8/3/2009 11:33:51 PM
For me, no.
I had a high sex drive in my mid and late twenties, but the last two years or so it's really gone off.
 Redwolf George
Joined: 1/4/2009
Msg: 172
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 8/4/2009 7:23:53 PM
Yes and no. It depends mostly on the person and the enviroment that she gorws up in. Maybe later in life she has more time to experimet or enjoy her sexuality, maybe when she is younger. It's a lot of factors to generalize as an absolute.
 likeanurse39
Joined: 8/1/2009
Msg: 173
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 8/5/2009 12:27:24 AM
Absolutely...and that is all I am going to say about that. lol.
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 8/6/2009 7:29:23 AM
I had a really high sex drive in my late 20's early 30's then it dropped off for a while. I had some medical issues where I had to have surgery, and my sex drive dropped off for a couple of years. Now in my late 30's my sex drive has really picked up and is definetly 5x stronger than it was when I was in my early 30's. I can't wait to see what happens in my 40's.
 anjelic
Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 175
Is sex drive is more after 30+
Posted: 8/6/2009 1:24:45 PM
ABSOLUTEY YES !
I so agree, less inhibitions. More knowledge of our bodies.
So many reasons. I think we become a bit more selective and use our brains about choosing partners, not just hormones. Once you find that special one...Oh boy!!!
Less stress in most cases make a big difference.

Well at least from what I remember.
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