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 mohawklady1963
Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 144
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Sweet the only reason we obsess over our looks today is because of the way society is. It frustrates me too. There's all the hoop law over skinny women with the perfect tits and the perfect ass, trust me their not goin to stay like that forever...lol. And for the skinny girls givin you sarcastic advice, plzz they have no clue unless they've been there. Just always remember sweet it's what's inside that counts and if these shallow meat heads that we call men can't see it then it's their loss...
 lazyboy
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 145
What happened? All of a sudden no emails because of a few extra pounds
Posted: 2/26/2006 3:35:19 PM
I want to see, Sweet. You owe me for the unsportsman like play in the other
thread.
 maddyanne04
Joined: 2/15/2006
Msg: 146
What happened? All of a sudden no emails because of a few extra pounds
Posted: 2/26/2006 3:41:59 PM
I think this post is hilarious...thats really all I had to say...loved it
 maddyanne04
Joined: 2/15/2006
Msg: 147
What happened? All of a sudden no emails because of a few extra pounds
Posted: 2/26/2006 3:47:12 PM
Not to be rude and cause discontent...but either Payson was truly burned by a female, or he just is too dillusional about women to want to find a great relationship. Honestly Payson, not being rude, just concerned about what seems to be an incurable bitterness toward the female race. And I am not refering to only this post, I read your profile.
 Patti-O-Lantern
Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 148
What happened? All of a sudden no emails because of a few extra pounds
Posted: 2/26/2006 4:35:07 PM
couple comments on this,

1. i have a few extra pounds on my profile , but when people meet me they don't know why i put that in there.

- thing is, i KNOW i have a few extra pounds , in my eyes, and prob in others eyes, so i feel its just the honest thing to do. Rather have someone say,, your not a few extra pounds, then someone say i lied saying i was average.

2. ask yourself this question. The exterior of a person is like a picture, just something to look at, but the insides of the person is what makes your heart beat, If you went blind tomorrow, would you love that person any less because you couldn't see them?

maybe i'm just a dillusional dreamer but this whole weight thing is crazy!!
 lazyboy
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 149
What happened? All of a sudden no emails because of a few extra pounds
Posted: 2/26/2006 6:17:38 PM
If you went blind tomorrow, would you love that person any less because you couldn't see them?


If I went blind tommorow, you wouldn't want to know what I'm imagining when I make love to you. And if my gf was obese, I'd thank God for taking away my eye sight. But that's just me.
 exxess
Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 150
Princessnaughty has a few extra pounds definetly in the right places
Posted: 2/26/2006 7:06:28 PM
Nic pictures. I was actually hoping you would actually have some pic your face. I'm sure you a have a pretty smile.
 goober dippin pants
Joined: 12/7/2005
Msg: 151
Your right Cynnie its all about perception
Posted: 2/28/2006 3:21:06 PM

We need a new body type: Below Average

Some people are abusing "average" as a body type to their advantage.


I think we need to start a "personality" type....we can reserve the "below average" just for you, lazytwit, oops, I mean lazyboy...the only thing lazy about you is your manners...what's the point of being perfect on the outside when the inside is CRAP?

Barbie and Ken are both perfect looking...and plastic and hollow....
 dutchpirate
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 152
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What happened? All of a sudden no emails because of a few extra pounds
Posted: 11/7/2007 6:45:12 PM
A few extra pounds plus no picture can equal a LOT to the imagination.

Maybe mention that you will send your picture to enquirers? You can upload pictures on here that you can send with messages but that are not viewable by the general public.
 Diana619
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 153
What happened? All of a sudden no emails because of a few extra pounds
Posted: 11/7/2007 6:50:28 PM

I cannot put my pic on here due to my job.


Just curious as to what kind of job do you have that does not allow a single woman to post her photo on a dating site? Why is that their business? Think I'd be finding me a new job that doesn't dictate what I can do in my own life.
 lilangel33
Joined: 9/8/2007
Msg: 154
What happened? All of a sudden no emails because of a few extra pounds
Posted: 11/7/2007 6:52:09 PM
Maybe you could state in your profile that you will attach a photo when asked for one in an e-mail. I know many guys do that.
This way no one will see it except the ones you intend to exchange e-mails with or find an interest in . Just a thought. I never read the further posts.

It's the inside that counts anyway , or suppose to be. and one can often know that by the profile and the first few e-mails...I like to see a picture when I write to people it helps me to relate to the person I'm writing to.
 brock11
Joined: 8/6/2007
Msg: 155
What happened? All of a sudden no emails because of a few extra pounds
Posted: 11/7/2007 8:20:43 PM
Fair or unfair a lot of people will think "prefer not to say" or "few extra pounds" + no pic or just a face shot = fat/obese. A lot of men would date a woman that is actually a few pounds overweight.
 marbear2007
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 156
What happened? All of a sudden no emails because of a few extra pounds
Posted: 11/7/2007 8:24:01 PM
Hell ima THICK GIRL and i love it.. i mean really if ppl dont like you for being thick then what the hell they aint gonna like you skin and bones either.... thats the way it goes i mean be who you are .. if your a thick person then be happy with who you are .. dont change just because of guys or someone that dont like you b/c your too big but really think about it ... you change to being skin and bones and i mean your still going to find ppl that dont like it.. either way you cant win for loosein.... just be who you are and if you want to change change for yourself not someone else... thats my opinion.... what can i say i love me for me lol.. really!!!
 rustytalent
Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 157
What happened? All of a sudden no emails because of a few extra pounds
Posted: 11/8/2007 4:47:49 AM
It's interesting they always have a 'few extra pounds' option, but don't ever have a 'extremely skinny' option. I personally like a voluptious, curvy women, not skin and bones.

The problem is perception as some people pointed out. The 'few extra pounds' tag is heavily abused by both sexes on these sites. I am not a mean person at all, but I saw someone on one site who's profile said they were 5'2" and 200 lbs but had a 'few extra lbs' selected. To each their own, but I think that is more than a few extra lbs.
 caroliane
Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 158
What happened? All of a sudden no emails because of a few extra pounds
Posted: 11/8/2007 4:33:03 PM
sweettreat
It seems like men can say average and have a gut. Athletic means they walk to a bar stool. A few extra pounds means they haven't seen their feet in years.

I say put what you want to put. If the guys on here can't tell what they are, why should we be so hard on ourselves!
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