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 capilano flower
Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 51
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lol so true why would you want to close a door i think men think we dont remember that we havn't talked to them in a month and the other people they have been talking to aren't online so hey why not.
 HB_Doug
Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 52
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 2/23/2006 5:09:16 PM
I was going to answer this thread . but I ...

lost interest
got too busy
got distracted with another one
felt I couldn't give it the time it deserved
didn't think there was enough chemistry

good luck
 Soleil24
Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 53
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 2/23/2006 6:25:52 PM

I was going to answer this thread . but I ...

lost interest
got too busy
got distracted with another one
felt I couldn't give it the time it deserved
didn't think there was enough chemistry

good luck


Thanks for letting us know. You Rock!!!
 TallDarkNSweeet
Joined: 11/20/2005
Msg: 54
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/7/2006 4:27:22 AM



... so true why would you want to close a door i think men think we dont remember that we havn't talked to them


QUESTION:


OP... do you still think this is something that men do exclusively and that women do not???

 catch22_
Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 55
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Posted: 3/7/2006 5:32:41 AM
its not you, its me, lol been handed that line a few times myself.
 lindy_3333
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 56
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Posted: 3/7/2006 6:13:53 AM
I agree. But, I would say that about any online discussion with most people on here. In most areas of life, things aren't near serious as they can seem at the moment. Look back in your life. Most of us waste energy needlessly worrying and fretting over things, and most the time things arent near as bad in the end as we thought. Think positive! It really does make a difference in life.
 lindy_3333
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 57
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Posted: 3/7/2006 6:19:15 AM
Men and women do this. Of course if you aren't dating women, you won't notice that! hehe.... anyway, I find in my own dating experiences, the initial leaving and backing off after one or two dates is no biggy. The ones that are really frustrating are the ones whom you date seriously. Six months later the guy starts backing off. I corner them. I dont allow the BS. Makes them stronger for the next one they need to get out of. I would rather KNOW that you want out now, than to wonder what the hell happened and be hurt. Most the time, the man is just scared the hell of commitment. In that case.. fine, tell me and move on. I can then clear my heart and move on too!

Next time ladies, use stronger rope and tie them more securely!!
 commonsens
Joined: 2/28/2006
Msg: 58
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/7/2006 6:24:04 AM
- Cowardness?
- Because we live in selfish times and they think they own you nothing?
- Because it's easier?
- They are non confrontamental? (yickes poor english)
- They think you a psycho (not you in particuliar...)
- They are insecure?

Gee I can go on for ages!
 PourSugarOnMe
Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 59
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/7/2006 6:28:21 AM
For the sake of the guys and to eliminate the generalization......



<--------Guilty
 massages4u
Joined: 11/20/2005
Msg: 60
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/7/2006 6:42:30 AM
Amen to that brother.
 lonecalvin
Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 61
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/7/2006 8:29:45 AM
I tend to tell people when I'm not interested in the nicest way.
but think of it this way. What about the people that when you tell them they want to know exactly why and then they freak out and slam on you and tell you the reason isn't good enough.
What about when you really cant explain it and they get real mean. This stuff happens and though I do try and tell them, all of that makes it so much harder and so much easier to just disappear. I do agree its not right but I would rather be called a coward then some of the other things I could be called which I'm really not.
 shedevil41
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 62
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/7/2006 9:08:52 AM
gawd i luv your additude smiles go girl :)
 capilano flower
Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 63
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/7/2006 4:33:02 PM
good point talldarknsweeet yeah i guess women do it too. i guess you always wonder if your tastes are going to change and someone you were not interested in last year is just what you are looking for now. It almost sounds shallow but does anybody feel like that too when you find what you are looking for its just not what you expected?
 drummerboi
Joined: 2/12/2006
Msg: 64
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/7/2006 6:47:05 PM
news flash....BOTH sexes do this!
 brad77hayes
Joined: 3/7/2006
Msg: 65
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/7/2006 6:59:06 PM
Oh I see and women don't do that as well. if I was ____ as many times as I've been blown off, I think I'd died and gone to heaven
 Ementat
Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 66
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/7/2006 7:30:31 PM
The question is wether or not shes got a gun if and when, you tell her.
 sunfishone2001
Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 67
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/7/2006 8:47:29 PM
Re: curious Quesion for the Men

Read this thread. http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts3527695.aspx
 solax
Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 68
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Posted: 3/7/2006 9:08:07 PM
wow ... ok heres the thing ive accualay used this... but its happened when its the same story over and over again if were friends (yes there is such a thing between male and female)then i ll be gone for like a week but i wont disipear if i intend to disipear theres the "i think we should move on" speach then theres the total dissiparing act im gont leve me alone because i cant stand you lol

yes im honest but you like me like that
 HTSKR
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 69
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Posted: 3/7/2006 9:15:35 PM
Maybe some guys didn't even know they lost interest and the partner realize it easily? Just maybe.

I would be up front. Definitely.
 insearchoflastlove
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 70
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/8/2006 11:44:30 PM
Lennie your whole post contradicted itself............I wont change then why the hell would you care to know why he just dropped you like a rock.....life is about changes and dealing with them...........Utopia isnt it grand?
 Oaksey
Joined: 4/9/2005
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Posted: 3/8/2006 11:51:12 PM
It could be for many reasons. Cold Feet, lack of interest, they are weak. People can be shallow and think only of themselves.

Cheers
Oaksey
 geddymd72
Joined: 3/7/2006
Msg: 72
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Posted: 3/9/2006 2:55:26 AM
Sad thing is, in my case, most of the time I am left hanging- there is no official breakup or explanation of words said- they stop answering calls, stand me up, or just hang up.
 kanadaa
Joined: 4/22/2005
Msg: 73
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/9/2006 2:59:12 AM
Rut roh...have we dated? LMAO
 Just A Woman***
Joined: 9/22/2005
Msg: 74
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/9/2006 3:04:15 PM
I agree with you that women do it all the time too. Depends on our moods just like men.
 flyingv
Joined: 2/3/2006
Msg: 75
Curious Question for the men.
Posted: 3/9/2006 4:20:30 PM
the problem isnt gender specific...........unfortunately both sexes do it

@ mayikaldragon, do you actually read what you type?
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