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Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 5
The Fizzle Factor...Page 2 of 2    (1, 2)
Does it happen always at the same point?

I know as soon as I compliment the person on their delicious looking, perky, boobies the e-mail stops dead
Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 7
The Fizzle Factor...
Posted: 2/20/2006 2:32:38 PM
That might have been me.
Sometimes I get up nerve to try again, post a profile and then either change my mind or get some creepy email and quickly delete it.


Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 8
The Fizzle Factor...
Posted: 2/20/2006 2:45:56 PM are very funny
Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 10
The Fizzle Factor...
Posted: 2/21/2006 5:25:22 AM
(going a bit off topic, bit I think its also a bit pertinent)

A friend of my has a theory for the real world -

"a relationships lasts a solid 14 months" - he says that biologocally - we are wired up to get attracted long enough to someone else in order to create babies - and then if there is no baby - the bond sort of (bio - chemically speaking anyway ) disolves

Maybe everything just happens faster in cyberspace. Attraction - love icon - boredom - bye
Joined: 10/22/2010
Msg: 13
The Fizzle Factor...
Posted: 12/10/2011 4:36:43 PM
Then there was the one who claimed he owned a well-known restaurant/bar/hotel (uh huh).

You didnt even let that test of reality unfold?


YOU may have missed out on a great thing, by simply "not believing"; and without due diligence!?

Note to self and others: Keep unbelievably great, or non mediocre, things about yourself under wraps.

There are Plenty of Fish in the sea though

Lotsa parasites too.

And crabs!
Joined: 10/22/2010
Msg: 15
The Fizzle Factor...
Posted: 12/10/2011 5:50:36 PM
I own Chevron and Wal-Mart? Because I do you know. LOL And I also own JetBlue Airlines too

Oooo goodie; I would love to fly to Costa Rica over this winter.

Crab tastes good, ever had crab dip?Also some parasites are actually good for you. All about how you choose to percieve life really.


I respectfully digress.

(Now Im hungry fo the shrimp in my freezer too btw)

Thanks alot buddy; I was planning on saving those ;P

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 16
The Fizzle Factor...
Posted: 12/10/2011 9:08:06 PM
The "fizzle" especially makes me shake my head in semi-wonder when it is the man who initiates contact and keeps it going until . . . nothing, nada, no "Sorry, guess I am not interested after all." I kinda think that in these cases, my disinterest shows and they pick up on it.

But I recently contacted a man who WAS very excited. He lived in a city where a relative lives and asked me when I was going to visit. After a few days of emails, poof! Ah, come on! I am a mature woman and all I want is a "good-bye"--I am mature enough to say "this isn't working," but I guess it is too much to expect others to do the same.
Joined: 10/21/2011
Msg: 17
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The Fizzle Factor...
Posted: 12/10/2011 9:53:37 PM

Then there was the one who claimed he owned a well-known restaurant/bar/hotel (uh huh).

I'm curious, how did you know he was lying about this? Was the place well known enough to have famous owners of whose identities you were aware of?
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 20
The Fizzle Factor...
Posted: 12/11/2011 6:18:32 AM

I just get bored very quickly; after 2/3 emails- I'll totally know if there's "enough" there to go further with it. Most of the time, there's not. Nothing to do with "greener grass' just, looking for someone who's more suitable for me.

I agree, but if there have been a few emails, I feel that it is good form to let the other person know that you are terminating the conversation.
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