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Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 5
Seriously it's been 2 years nowPage 2 of 2    (1, 2)
"i just cant seem to get her off my mind?"

I had 20 years with her to get over. Seventeen married and then 3 more in close contact (friends).

You have to make the decision to just let it go.

Yes - I still think about her sometimes. Not as often and not the same thoughts. The thoughts have changed a good deal. The thoughts have changed from “missing *her*" to the friendship I had to also put and end to.

I don’t think I would think of her much at all anymore if I did not work from a home office. If I was out and about more than I am. If I actually had any relatives - if my mom was still alive.

I know one thing. She is no longer my main focus like she use to be. My main focus now is learning to be the best person I can be.

Today I am listening to an ebook about “Conversation Confidence” it is pretty dang interesting. The author is now talking about *Small Talk* - even that is interesting.

Hundreds of hours of ebooks is bringing back a lot of ideas and a lot of self confidence - self esteem - just thousands of things I had not really thought much about over the years.

There is sure a lot better things to think about than someone that “deemed” me ........... unnecessary.

I just bet there are a lot more productive things for you to think about as well.

"i just cant seem to get her off my mind?" - >>> come up with better ideas to think about - I did.
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