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Joined: 1/5/2006
Msg: 36
Cheating or not!Page 3 of 3    (1, 2, 3)

we ALL have been done this way and we all know how it feel's to have
somebody we love/care about cheat on, us or sleep around on us.

and some of us even turn around and do the same to the one who's cheated
or has slept around on us because, we think "well he/she did it first so why can't i".

but we all learn the hard way and we do thing's before it's truly thought out all
the way and instead of, not doing the same as they did we just do it because
most of us figure that will "SHOW" the other one how much it truly hurt's.
Joined: 1/5/2006
Msg: 38
Cheating or not!
Posted: 2/23/2006 10:18:31 PM
cheating and sleeping around is one of the stupidest thing's that could
ever go on in any of our live's cheating, will never get us anywhere.

be honest to YOURselve and to the ONE you love and
who you, are with do not hide thing's from him or her.
Joined: 2/17/2006
Msg: 39
Cheating or not!
Posted: 2/24/2006 4:19:13 AM
I'll agree to rude and disrespectful. Let me add to it inconsiderate and self-centered. As it was done to me recently, she said "I should have told you sooner" (over the phone), amoung other things. Sure, i was at an emotional loss and i told her how i felt. I said " aren't you feeling any pain from this?" and she said the only reason she felt any pain was because i was feeling hurt. So, all i could really say was, I'm not going to be the one to stand in your way, i'm not going to call you up and i won't just be dropping by. CHEATING, i just don't know, don't really want to dwell on it anymore and i kind of like the idea of things were just moving on. aw
Joined: 1/11/2006
Msg: 41
Cheating or not!
Posted: 2/24/2006 7:56:25 PM
Cheating is cheating as long as you are persueing another person or looking to pursue another at the same time as you have a viable relationship going on with someone else. PERIOD!!!
Joined: 1/11/2006
Msg: 42
Posted: 4/6/2006 9:44:00 PM
you might need some intense personal "therapy" after all of that
Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 43
Cheating or not!
Posted: 4/6/2006 10:08:08 PM
ususally a person leaves the relationship at least two weeks before they tell the other person. IF you're in a relationship you don't want to be in anymore JUST END IT and then go find someone else. why the heck are you worrying about it being cheating? Just friggen end it and move on. You shouldn't even be worrying about this.
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 48
Cheating or not!
Posted: 4/7/2006 12:24:52 AM
Lucky you Pam. I agree that it's cheating. No different from being married to somebody and "cheating" before you file the divorce papers. Cheating is cheating.

Besides that, who would want to start a relationship with somebody who is already dating somebody else?
Joined: 6/17/2004
Msg: 49
Cheating or not!
Posted: 4/7/2006 2:38:29 AM
I don't think it is... I've been "tecnicaly" in a relationship for almost two years... If you feel it isn't gunna work... Do what i've been tring to do... shop around... as long as you don't do anything... BUT if you are going to break it off... the only thing you need to worry about is the other guy
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 50
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Cheating or not!
Posted: 4/7/2006 7:35:22 AM
Looking for someone else if you aren't happy before you have had a chance to communicate what you need from the person you are with, is scuzzy.The problem isn't always the other person and they may not have any idea what your needs and desires are.How well was it communicated? Hopping from relationship to relationship doesn't teach a person very much and leaves a trail of pain behind. It isn't always just finding the right person but also becoming the right person.To say it wasn't the right one can be justification and evasion of personal responsibility of the choice to care and failure of personal growth in the relationship.When you have turned over every stone and you know you have done everything, you will be able to deal not only with yourself but the hurt you will cause another person. In the end, you are the one who has to look at yourself in the mirror.Have dignity and respect for the other person and for yourself.Take it from an old bird like me!!
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