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 EMunchy2010
Joined: 8/23/2010
Msg: 182
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Women + Animals can't be compared. If some women were to be compared to a 'creature', I'd use the term "Black Widow".
 Bunny Tails
Joined: 5/9/2009
Msg: 185
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/16/2011 9:54:32 AM
Right 100% MunecaBrava. I am a cougar because I date men younger than I am. Why? Because the men my own age ... if you can find one... look like hell, can't have sex, and are boring. They want to lay around watching TV and scratching themselves. Give me younger blood. I may be old but I don't look my age, I have no sexual hangups, and over the age of playing jr. high games.
 ___James___
Joined: 9/27/2009
Msg: 186
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/18/2011 9:47:41 PM
Personally, I would define it as:
A large American wild cat with a plain tawny to grayish coat, found from Canada to Patagonia.
 femaleandflirty
Joined: 7/16/2011
Msg: 187
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/19/2011 5:44:36 PM
My idea of a cougar is a fit sassy woman well over 45 and much older than the guy. Usually has cubs of her own and sexperienced, knows what she wants and how to get it.......
 Halcyon_Skies
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 189
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/21/2011 10:37:59 AM
To me, the definition of a "cougar" is a middle-aged woman who goes after much younger men in an effort to recapture her waning youth. She is often delusional about her attractiveness to younger men. The most she's going to get from them is the occasional booty call.

Unless she has Demi Moore's looks and bank account, rather than trying to present herself to much younger men as a woman looking for a long-term relationship, she would do better to present herself as someone looking to date casually, or as someone seeking an IE.
 complete_moron
Joined: 6/4/2011
Msg: 190
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/21/2011 8:39:21 PM
I always thought, that a "cougar" is a woman, who at least been married at once, has kids, but now divorced and she is enjoying the freedom she has gained, and due to being attractive, she attracts younger males who are also still independent and usually has no baggage.

The reason I think she'd do that, has to do with she is knowing very well, that she won't settle with the younger guy, but he is fun to keep around as long as she can. If they feel like getting into a serious relationship though, she will be looking for someone closer to her age, but until then.......... she is testing her 'attractiveness" skills, and attracting a younger male who has far more options and wider selection for women is a giant success and a confirmation to her, that "she still got it", so attracting a same age or older guy should be a breeze.
 NoLipService
Joined: 8/19/2009
Msg: 191
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 9/22/2011 1:30:50 AM
Recently added into Webster's dictionary, defines a Cougar~ a middle-aged woman who seeks out younger men......or cubs. I've been mis-labeled as one, but I've never saught out any men....nor would I settle for a cub !
 Renee326
Joined: 11/28/2010
Msg: 192
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 3/31/2012 7:23:31 PM
I always attract younger guys! Roarrrrr!
 jeep1127girl
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 193
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 3/31/2012 7:51:28 PM
Uhm...a cougar is a single women in her 40's....dresses young, has long nails and tons of make-up....and usually big hair.

That made me think of Fran Dresher...The Nanny..lol
 domestic_bliss_number6
Joined: 12/11/2011
Msg: 194
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/1/2012 5:47:18 AM
So according to the ignorant people (yet some dude called me a "Cougar" -WHAT!) because I am over the age of 30 that instantly makes me a "Cougar."

Yeah I don't look for younger guys and I would never date a dude who is 10+ years different than me in age. GAG ME!! Sorry but I'm not a pedophile who looks for kids. That is disgusting to think that. If I am old enough that I could BE your MAMMA, I will gladly pass on that.
I have enough problems with men my age so why would I want a more IMMATURE VERSION? Seriously..

People please search the "Definition" before you claim someone a "Cougar."
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This is what I have found on the internet to DEFINE the TERMS:
http://www.internetslang.com/COUGAR-meaning-definition.asp

What is COUGAR?

COUGAR is "Older woman looking for a younger man"

COUGAR Definition / COUGAR Means
The definition of COUGAR is "Older woman looking for a younger man"

The Meaning of COUGAR
COUGAR means "Older woman looking for a younger man"


So now you know - COUGAR means "Older woman looking for a younger man"


Other terms relating to 'older':

COUGER
Older woman looking for a younger man

KITTEN
Woman who dates older men

PANTHER
Woman who likes older men

RHINO
Older man looking for a younger woman

TROUT
Older man looking for a younger woman
Other terms relating to 'woman':
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10
Perfect looking woman

BBBW
Big Beautiful Black Woman

BBW
Big Beautiful Woman

BIDDY
Girl, woman

BIRD
Cocaine
Young woman

BOILER
Ugly woman

BOMBSHELL
Very attractive woman

BROAD
Woman

BW
Beautiful Woman
Black and White

COALBURNER
White woman that dates black men

COUGER
Older woman looking for a younger man

COW
Offensive term for a woman

DRAG
Inhale smoke from cigarette or joint
Dressed as a woman

FOX
Sexy, attractive woman

HAG
Unattractive old woman

HOLLA
Used by a man to express interest in a woman

HOOCHIE
Over made up woman with trashy dress sense

KITTEN
Woman who dates older men

LEES
Very Attractive Man/Woman

M4W
Man looking for a woman

MBW
Married Black Woman

MUD DUCK
Ugly woman

MUDSHARK
White woman dating black men

NWNC
No Woman, No Cry

OLD BAG
Grumpy old woman

OW
Ouch
Other Woman
Oh, Well

PANTHER
Woman who likes older men

PIGEON
Woman using a man for personal gain

PUMA
Woman who dates younger men

RHINO
Older man looking for a younger woman

SHAWTY
Young girl/woman

SHEILA
Woman

SWANK
Cool, classy
Single Woman And No Kids
Second Wife And No Kids

TROUT
Older man looking for a younger woman

TWS
Typical Woman Syndrome

VIXEN
Attractive woman

W4M
Woman looking for a man

WM
Woman Marine

WSM
Woman Seeking Man

WUM
Woman
Wind-Up Merchant

WW
White Widow (strong marijuana)
White Woman

YAT
Gril, woman
Where You At?

YELLOW BONE
Light-skinned black woman
Other terms relating to 'looking':

>_>
Looking left, shifty look

10
Perfect looking woman

6_6
Looking down
Suspicious

BIDDIE
Good looking girl

BOOMTING
Good looking girl

BUFF
Good Looking

BUTTER FACE
Girl who is good looking except for her face

CHIO
Sexy, good looking, girl

CHONG
Good looking, attractive, cute

CHOONG
Good looking, buff

CHUNG
Good looking, buff

COUGER
Older woman looking for a younger man

EYEBALL
Look at
Estimate measurement by looking

FLIR
Forward Looking Infra Red

FLK
Funny Looking Kid

GL
Good Luck
Good Looking

GLF
Group Looking For

HUCKLEBERRY
The man you're looking for

HYNA
Good looking girl (Hispanic)

LF
Looking For

LF1M
Looking For One More

LFG
Looking For Group

LFM
Looking For More

LFP
Looking For Party (in MMORPG)

LFTI
Looking Forward To It

LFW
Looking For Work

LTB
Looking To Buy

M4W
Man looking for a woman

PENG
Good looking person

PLOS
Parents Looking Over Shoulder

PRAWN
Girl who is good looking except for her face

RHINO
Older man looking for a younger woman

TASTY
Good looking
Cool, awesome

TROUT
Older man looking for a younger woman

VGL
Very Good Looking

W4M
Woman looking for a man

WENG
Good looking

WULA
What're you Looking At?
Other terms relating to 'younger':

COUGER
Older woman looking for a younger man

PUMA
Woman who dates younger men

RHINO
Older man looking for a younger woman

TROUT
Older man looking for a younger woman
 DerekDiabloCBC
Joined: 11/5/2011
Msg: 195
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/2/2012 7:20:08 AM
My definition(s);

Milf= 35-45
Cougar= 46-55
Thunder Cat= 56+ up

Also single, ready for impact, and hot.

Porn goes from 18/teen, to general woman, then Milf, then Mature, then Cougar, then Granny.

Oldest woman I've banged was 55. I'm trying to break the 60 year old threshold.

I for one love older chicks. They all have this idea thay they're gonna "show me something" or whatever. I end up showing them how their frame gets wrecked. Younger girls have too much attitude and expect too much; when women hit 30 it's like a 2x4 to the back of their self-esteem, and they become a more appreciative creature. I personally jack-off to Mature, Milf, and Cougar porn, but end up with a lot of younger (19-24) year old girls because I am involved in a lot of Youth culture (Punk, Dubstep). A huge-boobed, hot-body from the gym and pilates classes, fake tan, fake lips, nymphomaniac, rich, divorcee Cougar is very compatible with me. And there are a lot of them in South Florida. Cool thing is, the nature of time and age insures that there will be a never-ending supply of these predatory beasts. And I'm just the sort of hunter that will capture them and give them what they want...
 SunshineAngel99
Joined: 10/13/2010
Msg: 196
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/2/2012 7:58:43 AM
I think that sums it up. ^^^
 fall-blossom
Joined: 3/22/2012
Msg: 197
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/2/2012 9:17:40 AM
If I dated a guy who was 15+ years younger I would feel self-conscious like I look like the guy's mom or aunt. The generation gap would be a problem as well as most likely these men would be going through the same stages of maturity as I went through at their age. It would be like looking at myself through a time machine. A little awkward, a little strange, and maybe uncomfortable and I'd be wondering if they'd notice my crows feet and bat wings I have on my arms and other physical imperfections. Really...I would want to run and hide!

No younger men have pursued me for a 'relationship' so I don't have to worry about the above.

To me a cougar is an older women trying to prove she is still sexually desirable to younger men as many have said. It's an ego booster and something they can brag about. However, not everyone is going to think what she is doing is brag-worthy.
 PutYouOnBlast
Joined: 1/18/2012
Msg: 198
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/2/2012 11:20:05 AM

Thunder Cat= 56+ up

That is a new one.....
 DerekDiabloCBC
Joined: 11/5/2011
Msg: 199
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/2/2012 12:44:51 PM
A Cougar is older, a Thunder Cat is like a Senior Citizen. Never had one of those, but I would if she was in shape, had big fake boobs, and was all decked-out. Especially if she had a fat house where I invite my homies over and drink all of her bottles of wine and put the music on real loud.

Dubstep party at Billy's Grandma's house! She'll make us some snacks too. Finger sandwiches and Deviled-eggs please.
 Renee326
Joined: 11/28/2010
Msg: 201
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/2/2012 7:40:24 PM
DerekDiabloCBC, you are so full of yourself.
 I_AM_THE_LORAX
Joined: 3/27/2012
Msg: 203
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/2/2012 9:10:43 PM
op...cougars arent older women who date young men..thats hollywoods hype..

cougars are whats known as man-eaters..in the sense that they will wring you dry of all your will power and dignity...crossing over into emotional abuse..... i really wish hollywood would stop getting it twisted
 blondiein2012
Joined: 12/16/2011
Msg: 204
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/3/2012 8:25:33 AM
It has nothing to do with the woman's age but, rather her age in conjunction with the age of the men she dates. Different people set the bar at different levels. Personally, at forty three (forty four soon), I would not consider myself a cougar if the men I date are all thirty or older. These are not children, they are grown men after all. Now, dating someone half my age would probably get that label stuck to some part of me.
 coderedjulia1
Joined: 9/8/2011
Msg: 205
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/3/2012 9:42:23 AM
An older woman who dates a younger man that is at least 6 years apart in age. I consider 5 year age gap to be the same age.
 bootielicious
Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 206
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Posted: 4/3/2012 9:52:06 AM
It's funny how the views of age differ so radically. I always thought a MILF was someone who was old enough to have teenage children and some of their friends may fancy or fantasies about them. They might even have the 'American Pie' experience.

Where as a couger is (in my mind) older than this and could even be a grandparent and she is not just desired or fantasised about, but actually seeks out younger men and is more pro-active sexually. She dresses to impress and snare in her men.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 207
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/3/2012 10:00:21 AM
~OT~ I'm always sort of amused by those who find this label the least bit attractive or kind, it's NOT meant as flattery. It's a slam at older women who "hunt" younger/much younger men for their own instant gratification:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cougar
(Yeah, the Urban Dictionary ~ it's the land of youngsters that we're discussing here and this is how they define what a cougar is ~ 1 out of 7 entries:)

Cougar 1412 up, 1308 down

A Cougar is a female, usually between thirty and fifty years-old, who enjoys the sexual company of younger men.

Cougars are only usually interested in men under the age of twenty-five. Also, Cougars are non-committal, choosing to move from mate to mate without ever settling down. It is not uncommon for the same Cougar to attack (sleep with) many different men in the same group of friends. Furthermore, Cougars are older and more practiced in the ways of snaring a mate so they will rarely broadcast their intentions to sleep with you until you are already in her Jetta, headed for the condo she just bought. It is this elusive behavior that earns her the name “Cougar.”

A milf on the other hand? A tad less harsh and more likely a compliment than the above:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=milf (1 of 7 entries:)

milf
it means Mother I'd Like (to) **** it is basically a way of saying a woman about 30+ years is hot


I think if I were to choose one of these two for myself, milf is much less offensive to me personally but the mere thought that someone my son's age wants to get me naked makes my skin crawl. But that's just me. Many find it flattering. **shrugs**
 excessivemayhem
Joined: 3/25/2012
Msg: 208
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/3/2012 8:09:07 PM
there are male cougars too....we just call them dirty old men
 Jazzplenty2012
Joined: 1/20/2012
Msg: 209
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/3/2012 10:09:51 PM
No not desperate, not at bars... They are attractive, classy, smart, confident ANd most women hate on them because they attract younger men!!! :)
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 211
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/4/2012 1:00:53 PM
DerekDiabloCBC, great defs, I like it.


What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/2/2012 708 AM
My definition(s);
Milf= 35-45
Cougar= 46-55
Thunder Cat= 56+ up


I never knew I had been dating milfs and cougars, thanks for clarifying this.
 SIXX
Joined: 3/3/2004
Msg: 212
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/4/2012 8:10:12 PM
In all honesty yes even 40's or 50's. However you must be well maintained as not to show your age but still be sexy
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