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 Marich77
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 213
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?Page 6 of 11    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11)
A woman that can be your mother or even older but looks good and knows it, and flirts with youner guys and dresses sexy.
 youngnlooking34
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 214
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/8/2012 8:18:37 AM
can you be my panther? :)
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 215
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/9/2012 10:39:41 PM

I don't think the term cougar is all that bad to be honest ?!

Here in the UK there is a much more 'tacky' term used for an older attractive woman....

MILF = Mom I'd Love to F*** now that is tacky eugh !!!




Cougar and MILF describe two different things... A cougar is a "Mom" who is desperate to f*** YOU. Her attractiveness (Or lack of it) has nothing to do with it.
 good_catch77
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 217
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/13/2012 10:12:26 PM
Cougar: A woman that wants to "recapture" her youth by dating young immature douche bags that just want to sleep with them..then they come on here jaded again whining about how she cannot get a LTR going...almost forgot to throw in that she has to bash all older men, that they have ED and cannot keep up...hence the excuse of only wanting younger men...

Carry on.
 bootielicious
Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 218
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/14/2012 5:51:29 AM
Cougar and MILF describe two different things... A cougar is a "Mom" who is desperate to f*** YOU. Her attractiveness (Or lack of it) has nothing to do with it.
Cougar: A woman that wants to "recapture" her youth by dating young immature douche bags that just want to sleep with them..then they come on here jaded again whining about how she cannot get a LTR going...almost forgot to throw in that she has to bash all older men, that they have ED and cannot keep up...hence the excuse of only wanting younger men...




Nothing to do with the nice taught body, the wash board stomach, the firm peachy bottom, the ability to repeat and stamina to go with it that does not include turning round, farting and snoring like a fog horn then?

Are men the only ones that are allowed to enjoy the company of air heads? Why is it men get to be called 'Sugar Daddy's' which is quite an endearing name and women get to be called Cougars?

Seriously the amount of guys that complain that women don't like sex, they all have head aches blah blah blah and as soon as they see a woman who is enjoying herself she gets slapped down and labelled.

MILF = Mother I'd like to F*** That means the guy wants her, NOT that she is desperate!!!!! Will you guys get over yourself. You can tell which guys aren't getting any can't you!
 domestic_bliss_number6
Joined: 12/11/2011
Msg: 219
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/14/2012 9:15:35 AM

A woman that can be your mother or even older but looks good and knows it, and flirts with youner guys and dresses sexy.


I think to a guy, anything that has a pulse or a hole is sexy. LMAO!
 good_catch77
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 220
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/14/2012 9:20:18 AM
Bootie...really? I mean really?


Are men the only ones that are allowed to enjoy the company of air heads? Why is it men get to be called 'Sugar Daddy's' which is quite an endearing name and women get to be called Cougars?


No men just get called "dirty old man" or only wanting "eye candy"...there is "Sugar Momma's" too. Cougar and MILF (which I hate the term MILF). Are recent terms that have graduated from slang to everyday sayings. To where even women use them.


Seriously the amount of guys that complain that women don't like sex, they all have head aches blah blah blah and as soon as they see a woman who is enjoying herself she gets slapped down and labelled.


Cool story...you mean like you just labelled most older men just now?


Nothing to do with the nice taught body, the wash board stomach, the firm peachy bottom, the ability to repeat and stamina to go with it that does not include turning round, farting and snoring like a fog horn then?


Bashing all older men to having no stamina, snoring like a fog horn...always chubby...since you said only younger men have wash board stomach and a firm peachy bottom.

Oh I get it do as I say not as I do...its alright for women to stereotype all older men...but for a guy to stereotype women...gasp the horror, that man is jealous and must be one of them as well.
 SpareAir
Joined: 5/6/2010
Msg: 222
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/14/2012 12:13:53 PM
A cougar is a woman who dates men much younger than her, maybe 10 years or more younger.
 SpareAir
Joined: 5/6/2010
Msg: 223
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/14/2012 12:17:37 PM

Cougar: A woman that wants to "recapture" her youth by dating young immature douche bags that just want to sleep with them..then they come on here jaded again whining about how she cannot get a LTR going...almost forgot to throw in that she has to bash all older men, that they have ED and cannot keep up...hence the excuse of only wanting younger men...

Carry on.


LOL, OMG Bitter much?
 good_catch77
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 225
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/15/2012 7:32:50 AM
LOL, OMG Bitter much?


Nah, used to be called bitter since I don't find cougar "endearing"...just giving them a taste of their own meds...It's funny how that if a woman bashes a guy, for what ever reason, its almost normal...but for a guy to bash women he is bitter..

IE...this one time on a local radio station's FB they posted a pic of Kim Kardashian and her sisters...all the women was calling the pic photo shopped and them fake...and nothing was said of the sort of them being jealous or bitter..but a week later they posted a pic of Matthew McConaughey and I said the same thing of that photo being photo shopped and fake...then I was called jealous and bitter?

I even called people out on the double standard and "crickets" was all I heard...

And Domo...sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me. Not ALL men want barbie dolls. But at the same time I'm not going to turn one down if she came into my life...why would I? You're right its about attractions...I'm 35 now so it wasn't long ago that I was one of the hunted by these "cougars" and its only for the old age most of them looked their age and it was sad to me that they was wanting to get with me...I wasn't mean about it...just ignored them and let it be.
 SpareAir
Joined: 5/6/2010
Msg: 227
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/15/2012 9:55:40 AM

Nah, used to be called bitter since I don't find cougar "endearing"...just giving them a taste of their own meds...It's funny how that if a woman bashes a guy, for what ever reason, its almost normal...but for a guy to bash women he is bitter...


Actually if a woman or a man lump people in one category and bash them based on a stereotype, they make themselves sound bitter. Couger is not an endearing term, but it doesn't keep me up at night when people refer to older women dating younger guys as "cougers." To each their own....
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 228
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/15/2012 11:15:26 AM
MILF = Mother I'd like to F*** That means the guy wants her, NOT that she is desperate!!!!!


No sh!t Sherlock. What does your diatribe have to do with my post? I would prefer that cougars catch more of the young men I have to compete with for the attention of hot young women. Unfortunately, the competition remains undiminished. Cougars are women who Chase young guys and end up with guys who can't get the younger women they want. MILFs are women who have real appeal to younger men... Men of all ages really.
 DerekDiabloCBC
Joined: 11/5/2011
Msg: 229
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/15/2012 4:49:29 PM
I still say I prefer older women, but I mostly end up with girls in their early 20's for whatever reason. Milf implies hot, Cougar doesn't. The stereotypical "Cougar" that is pretty, in shape, and decked out, is hot to me. Lot of fun to be had and no games or feelings involved. They can't get enough of me honestly. South Florida is a Mecca of this particular breed of damsel. I'm into women of all age groups, 18-55, as long as they're hot, and fun to hang out with.
 singmespanishtechno
Joined: 3/18/2012
Msg: 230
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/15/2012 6:03:30 PM
These are just stupid words anyway, why can't people just be people?

Yes there's all kinds of people out there who like all kinds of other people.

Who do you think came up with these words milf and cougar anyway, ignorant men did of course, and in the end it just demeans women.
 DerekDiabloCBC
Joined: 11/5/2011
Msg: 231
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?,
Posted: 4/15/2012 7:07:54 PM
I think women would prefer to be categorized as Milf and Cougar, rather than mature and granny, which were the previously applicable definitions at least in porn terms. Both Milf and Cougar are somewhat empowering terms. We're really talking about women and aging, and women who are aging. Everyone knows that this a near-universal issue for women, and affects their self-esteem and sense of self-worth. Turning 30 is a big deal for a lot of women; at least now a woman can still look forward to being desirable well into old age.
 fall-blossom
Joined: 3/22/2012
Msg: 232
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?,
Posted: 4/24/2012 7:47:30 AM

Turning 30 is a big deal for a lot of women; at least now a woman can still look forward to being desirable well into old age.

No age that I celebrated scared me until it started showing a year ago.
 TempusFujis
Joined: 4/5/2012
Msg: 233
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/24/2012 8:34:36 AM

I understand I wasnt trying to be mean. I get so many mean emails because Im not into men my age or older its not funny. Im like whatever im sorry I dont want to deal with exwives and kids. Im sorry I want to have a life and not have to worry about a babysitter to be able to go on a date and have fun. Thats why I dont date men my age or older. Kids plus ex wives equal drama and baggage and bullshit I dont want or need that
you do know that more and more younger men with kids are joining dating sites right? what are you going to do if you find a hot guy younger than you , thinks you're the cream of the crop, you're attracted to each other and then he springs it on you... he has a kid or kids ? are you going to kick him to the curb?
 1womanman33
Joined: 3/25/2012
Msg: 234
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/26/2012 12:30:07 AM
A large American wild cat (Felis concolor) with a plain tawny to grayish coat, found from Canada to Patagonia.
 Cryptid.
Joined: 3/18/2010
Msg: 236
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 4/29/2012 6:59:12 PM
imo 'cougars' are too stuck-up to date a younger man anyhow, always complaining or whining about age or inexperience. Have had 2 relationships with women 10+ years older than myself in the past. Neither worked out for the reason stated.
But as well from my experience most women are stuck-up or too picky about who they will even speak to, It is and always will depend on what they see with their eyes not what is seen with their heart.
 jdj7272
Joined: 2/27/2012
Msg: 237
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 5/1/2012 8:19:22 PM
In the male circle, she isnt a cougar unless she is attractive, you cant just be old and call yourself a cougar.
 bootielicious
Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 238
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 5/2/2012 9:16:49 AM
Have you ever considered that you might need to up your game a little? Perhaps you dated them expecting them to be grateful and were surprised when they weren't? Relationships are about complimenting each other and working equally at it. You can't expect it to just happen without putting in some effort.
 packerfanman
Joined: 12/13/2010
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What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 5/2/2012 2:36:32 PM
real world definition: a cougar is 40+ who tends to prefer or at least doesn't mind the company of younger men (as in 10+ years younger)
 ThusSpokeZarathustra
Joined: 4/24/2012
Msg: 240
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 5/4/2012 5:19:31 PM

I am only into younger men lol. Im not sure if this makes me one at 31 but Ill take the title in training lol

I think you actually have to be able to get a date with a younger man for the title to apply.
 moonbeamlover
Joined: 3/19/2012
Msg: 241
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?,
Posted: 5/4/2012 5:33:11 PM

These are just stupid words anyway, why can't people just be people?

Yes there's all kinds of people out there who like all kinds of other people.

Who do you think came up with these words milf and cougar anyway, ignorant men did of course, and in the end it just demeans women.


but when you first hear the term about yourself from a woman (my daughter said I was the personification of what a MILF was) and I had no clue what it even meant. Pretty horrifying when you hear that particular term from your own daughter (she didn't mean it from her; she said that term was created with someone like me in mind whatever that meant; guess several of her friends commented um rather heatedly on me supposedly, though I always considered them adopted other kids ... I guess in her case she meant I was supposedly desirable to younger people (at least the ones that talked about me to her). Though the translation is incredibly coarse... and pretty disrespectful though I think it is more just meant that some people find people hot.


Both Milf and Cougar are somewhat empowering terms. We're really talking about women and aging, and women who are aging. Everyone knows that this a near-universal issue for women, and affects their self-esteem and sense of self-worth. Turning 30 is a big deal for a lot of women; at least now a woman can still look forward to being desirable well into old age.


Why? I am no better or worse whether a bunch of 18-30 year olds find me hot or don't. It does not inflate or deflate my ego... make me a better person or make me think about myself any differently whatsoever. I'm some people's type and I'm not some people's type; having a term for being a fantasy for a cross section of people is not empowering. It's a phase.

And cougar? if I actually go out with someone younger it's not for a fantasy, it's not for self worth, it's not because I'm biased against older; it's because I don't care about age if the person is interesting enough; my only requirement is that they don't want to go out with me just because of my age. It has to be person; not the dumb fantasy thing.

So maybe some people get off on it; other people it's a preference; other people it's a turnoff.

Different strokes for different folks.
 Norris239
Joined: 3/27/2012
Msg: 243
What is the definition of a 'cougar'?
Posted: 5/10/2012 6:05:04 AM
Its Just The Maturity Of An Older Women That Gets To The Heart Of A Young Man.
Cause Most Of The Women For The 20's Age Bracket Are Immature. (Not All, Some)
I Personally Had Some Bad Experiences And Have Found The Best With An Older Companion.

Thanks,
Jacob Norris.
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