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 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
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^^^I've done that before too ... not with strangers, with my guy friends from the local singles dance club that I belonged to. They were real gentlemen and I cannot complain. We are all such good friends.

Sometimes I was able to return the favor for them when they just felt the need for a snuggle from a lady ... it was never a "sexual" thing. It was a matter of just wanting to be close to another human being. Nothing wrong with that.

Once I went over to be with one of my guys after his little granddaughter was killed in a freak car accident. I just held him all night ... we didn't talk much and there was nothing but me being there for him and holding him and letting him cry as much as he needed to.
 AbrakaDeborah
Joined: 1/26/2006
Msg: 52
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/10/2006 12:30:36 AM
I love to fall asleep cuddling. It to me feels loving and sweet. That's what I miss most about my last bf of 4 years...if we turned over the other one cuddled up to each others back. It's so soothing and comfortable to me. I LOVE it!

One bf I had I held his hand across his chest...he was what I call a "cuddle bug". Knowing he's there wanting to touch me makes me feel warm and fuzzy!!!

It's really nice when it's cold and I rub his hairy chest and nuzzle him... It's the best part of sleeping together!!!! I'm very affectionate and like for my man to be also.

I LOVE it!
 nikkilynn732005
Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 53
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/10/2006 3:14:24 AM
I sooo can't sleep while cuddling, lol, my dog sleeps on the bed with me and she always cuddles right up next to me so when my ex and I were together I would have him on one side of me cuddling up to me and her on the other side pressed right against me, OMG, it used to drive me nuts!!!! Between the two of them it felt like being compressed in a tangle of blankets with the heat on 150 degrees, lmao!!! I do like to cuddle BEFORE I get ready to go to sleep, then I need my space, I toss and turn and I definetly can't deal with the whole "used" air in my face, lol!!
 missy_pq
Joined: 3/21/2005
Msg: 54
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/10/2006 5:09:40 AM
I love spooning as I'm falling asleep, but soon thereafter I have to get away. I am way too hot natured and also need space to move around.
 countrygirl61342
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 55
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/15/2006 6:06:39 PM
i agree with you, the ac on brrrr cold, a thick comforter, nice sleeping atmosphere. the cuddling is great for a little while then the pins and needles sets in. It is better to cuddle on the couch than to not be able to sleep in the bed, confuscious say. keep on
 crystalise
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 56
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/15/2006 6:12:10 PM
I love falling asleep with the contact of a warm body nearby. It relaxes me. However no, I have trouble sleeping with arms too tight around me or heads too close together. I need air...haha. My fave cuddling sleep position is to kinda spoon with only an arm thrown over and legs touching. Thats soooo nice. ZZZZZZZZZ
 crystalise
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 57
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/15/2006 6:30:37 PM
^^^ ohhh that is so sweet
 Soul_Mates
Joined: 1/2/2006
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Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/16/2006 7:36:48 AM
I can fall asleep while cuddling but I get too over-heated to sleep all night that way, but I still like to be touching...
 LiveWyre
Joined: 4/27/2005
Msg: 59
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/16/2006 7:47:36 AM
Cuddles are nice!
The best part is waking up and watching her breathe.
 toolmanq
Joined: 12/18/2005
Msg: 60
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/16/2006 8:18:13 AM
If cuddling is your only hang-up, you got it made. I was dating someone where the sound of my breathing would keep her up (she admitted that I wasn't even snoring.) I like the warmth and weight of someone next to me, makes me feels secure, but also like room to stretch out. Finding a compatible sleeping partner isn't easy, but no one should sacrifice their comfort for the sake of the other. If you aren't compatible, quit trying to force the issue -- t
 EastSideEddie
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 61
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/16/2006 9:00:39 AM
Are we talking about post sex cuddling turning into sleep cuddling or just the get into bed and cuddle kind of cuddling?

After sex I pretty much just like to pay my money and go home....
 lilblond
Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 62
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/16/2006 11:58:46 AM
I can't sleep while cuddling either. I can cuddle for a few minutes and then after that I have to have my space.
 hunterdd1969
Joined: 3/21/2006
Msg: 63
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/22/2006 9:20:19 PM
i love to snuggle it gets lonely at night ican also just sit and talk
 BadBrain
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 64
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/22/2006 9:31:27 PM
I have real issues sitting still for more than like 2 minutes, so it kind of takes care of itself. I've also been told I twitch in my sleep, so that further insures that I get ample space.
 LossMyMarbles
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 65
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/22/2006 9:49:40 PM
I fell asleep holding on to some one before.......only once. Normally I can't sleep if some one is touching me. On a funny note when my baby sis was lil she would sleep in my bed some times and hold on to my earlobe until she fell asleep.........she had a tight little grip.....
 EastSideEddie
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 66
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 3/23/2006 5:26:48 AM
Typically I fall asleep holding a pillow, and when I wake up during the night that pillow is always on the floor, so I don't know that it would be a good idea to go to sleep holding a person. My dog usually sleeps next to me down by my legs and quote often I get so restless that she jumps down and sleeps on the floor. Depends on how tired I am. One poster said he has problems with sitting still for more than two minutes. My problem is that I never stop thinking. My brain is always "running". I wish I knew how to turn it off. I'll go to sleep with a tune in my head, or thinking about a piece of furniture I want to build, or why the computer on my workbench isn't cooperating... I actually have to concentrate and envision looking down a deep, black hole to clear my mind and go to sleep. So cuddling up with someone probably wouldn't be a good idea.
 Brownsugar1313
Joined: 4/16/2006
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Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 4/17/2006 9:17:08 AM
I love intimacy as much as the next person but geez I need my space when sleeping. I just cant get with the leg over me, arm around me, breath on my neck...yeeeesh!
LOL well I'm happy I'm not the only one who experiences this either...makes me feel less of an alien....LOL
Ditto for jewellry, I cannot sleep with anything on...no rings, earrings, bracelets, nothing I think with the exception of a fan (All year round) and a couple blankets and the man on the other far far far side of the bed then I'm set.
 sayonara7
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 68
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 4/17/2006 9:43:45 AM
This thread is so funny.........
 EastSideEddie
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 69
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 4/17/2006 10:46:22 AM
I had a girl once tell me she wanted to spoon me.

Silly me, I thought she meant fork.....

(rimshot)

Thank you! I'll be here all week!!!
 knnyb65
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 70
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 4/17/2006 2:06:04 PM
cuddle me, spoon me, the closer the better....put your head on my shoulder and let me wrap my arm around you and massage your neck and scalp until you fall asleep in my arms...

are you KIDDING me ladies?.....what the heck ever happened to intimacy??
 carrie bradshaw
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 71
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 4/17/2006 10:33:07 PM
Carrie can. I sleep alone so I sleep with a lot of pillows and maybe even a teddybear.

Carrie
 Poet102781
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 72
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 4/18/2006 7:36:25 AM
There have ben times where I wanted to chew my arm off because she was sleeping on it...I like my own bed space!!!!!!!!
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 4/18/2006 7:47:28 AM
I have been luck - I have always had great cuddlers in my life - they cuddle just the right amount of time and know when to move over to sleep but remain touching in some way, which I like. A foot, or bum to bum, a hand, back or shoulder touching is great, tells you that he is happy you are there with him. Sometimes it's nice when you fall asleep intertwined and wake ever so slightly later on, kiss and part to sleep.
I just love touching!!!!
 kasie
Joined: 3/4/2006
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Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 4/19/2006 3:11:09 PM
Now that the minds have started wandering..makes me want to survey.. (in real life) LMAO jk... I love to cuddle and if I wake up without being in his arms or spooning..I just go back to it..works for me... SO OBVIOUSLY DESIREABLE... suppose it depends on how attracted you may be to someone also.. I love Intimacy.. its an awesome feeling
 sojourner2
Joined: 3/22/2006
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Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 4/20/2006 12:20:08 PM
None of my girlfriends EVER compalined of not being able to sleep with ME cuddling them! And I sleep like a baby that way, too!
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