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 maryj_35215
Joined: 1/13/2007
Msg: 232
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I met this guy and I had on a top that showed cleavage. He asked me to go out with him, and I did. Had just come from work so I was dressed conservatively. He gave me the brushoff. He called me a few days later and said that I wasn't what I advertised and I was like - Huh? He expected me to put out on the first date and was mad because the way I was dressed turned him off (I didn't know he was turned on in the first place).

Society has gotten where it is ok to wear little or no clothes and to screw everything that walks.

Moral of the story, don't advertise if you don't want to follow up; there are some guys that don't think you can say no if you do.
 M2k7
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 233
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/26/2007 4:51:09 PM
There should never be a circumstance where a woman shouldn't show cleavage. - Dates, Work, Funerals (Put the 'fun' back in funeral) - Parent/teacher interviews. Job interviews, anything.

Alright, alright.. I'm kidding. I think first date cleavage is fine, but don't get upset if you catch him peaking or talking to your breasts.
 gardennut
Joined: 6/22/2006
Msg: 234
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/26/2007 5:00:11 PM
Hypothetical situation:

Let's say that my hooters are my best feature. Let's say that I have a really generous butt.

So, in wanting to make a good first impression, I wear something to showcase my best feature-----my hooters----------to distract him from noticing my ample azz.

I mean, I wear something so low-cut that he'll still be blinking wildly for an hour after our date ended. If someone were to ask him my eye colour, he'd say: "38DD".

In that case, I'd say that it would benefit me to show cleavage on my first date.

(Sadly, my bust size does not qualify for this hypothetical situation.........but happily, neither does my azz...................)
 rederer1
Joined: 8/7/2006
Msg: 235
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/26/2007 5:57:47 PM
Sure if you want to, but don't be offended if you cath him sneeking a peek of the goods.
 whitedahlia
Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 236
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 3/26/2007 6:00:28 PM
Boob cleaveage? Toe Cleaveage? Butt cleaveage???
This post is 14 pages long. Don't know if anyone else has mentioned this already...
WD
 Kajun2thebone
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 237
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 7/22/2007 9:26:59 AM
EpisodeIV that is soooo funny! I bet your sense of humor is amazing in person..Keep us laughing
 lilww23
Joined: 7/4/2007
Msg: 238
Should women show cleavage on first date?
Posted: 7/22/2007 9:30:53 AM
I understand lol what krazytrk was saying .... I know i have it to show... But ur right sometimes that can be a focus point ..... I may start leaving it for the second date lmao
 csod64
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 239
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 7/22/2007 9:31:12 AM
Who cares about the "first date". I actually put a "cleavage shot" on my profile. Not the main photo, but it's there. Just in case....
 dunnrunnin2
Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 240
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 7/24/2007 10:35:50 AM
I try not to show to much but if I stand up and hug you your going to see it anyhow.Plus I'm a big advocate of, I'll show you mine if you'll show me yours.OOh it says should WOMEN show a little booty! Heck yeah! That way if the conversation gets a little boring you can silently sit there and count the little brown spots running down her valley.
 jasmina81
Joined: 3/13/2007
Msg: 241
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 7/24/2007 2:50:33 PM
A woman should wear what she feels comfortable in. Who cares if she shows cleavage or not on a first date? ...Why is this even an issue. OP, you ask this question as if there is something wrong in showing cleavage on the first date...
 kewlpeeps
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 242
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 11/18/2008 10:58:27 PM
yes ... works for me :)
 Blondecharmthe3rd
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 243
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 11/19/2008 6:24:29 AM
Um... for women well endowed, sometimes covering them up makes them look bigger.

Mine like to breath, and most people who ask me out realize my preference from my photos so there are no surprises.
 spicynicegirl
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 244
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 11/19/2008 6:48:20 AM
Some of us happen to be born well endowed.................I find no matter what I wear men still look at my breasts and I don't mind it anymore. One thing about us larger chested girls, we are proud of them so watch out world!!!!

To answer the question - I would only show cleavage if I had already seen the guy and I was trying to get his attention............LOL
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 245
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Should women show cleavage on first date?
Posted: 11/19/2008 6:01:44 PM
Cowardly Lion... when it is summer I always wear low cut tops,the standard public viewing on cleavage is 5 1/2 from the neck down to the bossom. If you are my date I have to ask your height if you are 5"9 to 6" + when you look down on me you can see a full view with out seeing the nipples, so I have to adjust the strap of my top,for a decent public view of cleavage. On a second thought I 'd rather wear a burqa so it is not distracting...
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 246
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 11/19/2008 8:01:13 PM
Why does it matter when u show cleavage? U should just be yourself!
 english lass
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 247
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 11/20/2008 12:17:20 PM
i wear what i think looks good and i feel comfortable in

sometimes some cleavage is shown, sometimes not

i'm dressing so that i feel attractive, cleavage is incidental if it occurs
 amadeus wiser
Joined: 8/24/2008
Msg: 248
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 11/20/2008 12:18:22 PM
well like all the others say it depends because then it will make you think oh this girl wants you to like her? or is just to show off, then again if its nothing out of the ordinary just a quick one or her blouse is undone a little bit..but dont be staring at her or else shell think you just want her for sex
 lostintheshuffle
Joined: 5/8/2008
Msg: 249
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 11/20/2008 3:43:50 PM
She should dress however she wants. I've had a first date with a woman that had everything showing, I could even see the bottom of them, and this was in January in Chicago. The second date told a lot more... high neckline.
 two gypsy
Joined: 10/6/2008
Msg: 250
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 11/20/2008 6:50:47 PM
It's hard to hide the girls when they are big and even worse when you are short cause the guys can look down your blouse. But hey I'll wear turtle necks if it bothers you.
 talk4fun1
Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 251
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 11/20/2008 10:29:38 PM
What's wrong with showing a little or a lot of cleavage? The presumption that displaying cleavage is an advertisement for sex or a debasement of a woman's dignity is ridiculous.
The quality of one's worth is more than just skin and those who judge women as "slutty" or "easy" for showing cleavage lack the capacity to understand the many motives for this very personal fashion choice. Yes, sometime women show cleavage to attract male attention. Sometime women show cleavage to wear something that is fashionable. Sometime women show cleavage because the weather is warm. Personally, I enjoy showing a little cleavage to amuse myself. Being a small "A" cup woman, I find great amusement checking myself out when wearing a good push-up bra. I think woman's breast are beautiful and find great pleasure viewing mine.
 sddude
Joined: 12/9/2007
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Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 11/21/2008 11:42:05 AM
Nothing wrong with it, I let my nuts hang out of my pants, that is hot , as long as she lets me breath on the cleavage all is good .

Yes I was joking ...mmm or not uuuuggggggg Homer like cleavage
 diamondgirl2727
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 253
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 11/21/2008 1:34:58 PM
Perhaps women should just cover themselves completely, we may only show our eyes and hands or be stoned to death, sound familiar?
 BLoNde__ANgeL
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 254
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 1/15/2012 7:59:06 PM
I think a tiny bit of cleavage is OK, but unless u r looking to get laid, "cleavage" can send out the wrong signal, if it is prominently displayed on a 1st date
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 255
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 1/16/2012 12:02:59 PM
I'm not sure why it matters. I've seen cleavage before.
 bethesdafoodie
Joined: 1/2/2012
Msg: 256
Should women show cleavage on first date
Posted: 1/16/2012 12:44:33 PM
That's it, after reading pages of this thread, it's apparent that the only way to even the score with females showing cleavage is to tape a couple rolls of quarters to my boxers.

False advertising works both ways!



Cleavage is great, especially if it means both of us get free drinks from the male bartender...
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