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 SWEET CHEROKEE
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 26
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Things people should never bring on the first date.....NASAJACK !
 nasajack2003
Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 27
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 8:01:11 AM
@Cherokeegirl

I agree...bringing me on a date would eviously end dating as we know it. Line 'em up!!!
 squirrly
Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 28
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 8:06:12 AM
specially if he's wearing his dirty raincoat!
 Imlooking
Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 29
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 8:57:51 AM
designingwoman; like to ad to your list 6) they must be sober 7) no "meds" 'cept the ones that keep them CALM 8) a note from their MOM 9) a tape measure 10) adult sex toys 11) a list like this one..... 2 peso's
 kevinh2006
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 30
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 10:17:32 AM
NEVER EVER BRING A CELL PHONE ON A DATE!!and if she/he does bring 1 and its "on" and she's texting or checking messages then they are talking to the person that they are going to "hook" up with after YOU feed him or her! NOW WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO ? you politley get up and go bathroom, when you come out QUIETLY!! pay your half of the bill and LEAVE!!! BY YOURSELF!!!That just shows you that that person has no real interest in YOU!!
 huhoney
Joined: 10/24/2005
Msg: 31
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 10:24:12 AM
http://www.plentyoffish.com/inbox.aspx ie a strap on dildo?
 kevinh2006
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 32
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 10:51:56 AM
[qoute] [/qoute] ouch!!! deff. NOT adildo lol
 nasajack2003
Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 33
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 10:57:45 AM
@Hulahoney...

There is a possibility that BOB gets a pass...just not sure if it would offend anyone if I left it 'off' the list. Maybe to stir the drinks??
 Restless0ne
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 34
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 11:10:43 AM
hmmmmmmm

Things not to bring:
The nuber one answer

1) Wife.........That might be a deal breaker.....lol



 SylverDawn
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 35
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:19:49 PM
Don't for any reason ...unless I am the one on the date.. do not bring me!

Because I will

1. be sarcastic to no end

2. question everything he is doing

3. make jokes he does not understand just to see how he reacts

4. Watch his body language and tell my friend why he is doing what he is doing

5. Amuse my self by calling him on all his fake lines

* this only works if the guy is a loser *
 operababeutah
Joined: 2/12/2006
Msg: 36
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:37:23 PM
divorce papers

love letters from an old flame

document to have date sign agreeing to get an hiv test

book to read if bored

homework to do
 Mojo_LA
Joined: 12/15/2004
Msg: 37
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Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 3:11:37 PM
No cell phones on a first date are not necessarily rude... if someone has kids, that is always an exception... or if someone is expecting a potential emergency, that's something else.... but otherwise, in my experience, pretty much anything can wait a few hours.

People somehow managed to live their lives free of sudden, life-altering emergencies before there were cell phones, I think they can still manage.

I'm sure anyone who's been on a date when their date has gotten a call can attest that 95% of the time it's something that could have waited.

It's simply a matter of respect. Turning off your phone says "I'm here to spend some time with you, everyone else can wait."

If you can't do that, you shouldn't be dating.
 nottaprincess
Joined: 9/17/2005
Msg: 38
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 3:19:05 PM
...never bring another couple for support...had a guy do that once and he was so nervous talking to me that he talked to them all evening. I felt like a 5th wheel...
 molonel
Joined: 12/20/2005
Msg: 39
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 3:52:07 PM
Your son or daughter, when you didn't warn the person you were bringing a child.
 crystalise
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 40
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 6:36:58 PM
overnight kit - with toothbrush jamies and change of underwear, then put it on the table and say " See? I KNEW we would hit off, I came prepared "
 crystalise
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 41
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 6:37:55 PM
A framed photo of yourself, to give to them. Autographed and dated.
 designingwoman
Joined: 9/4/2005
Msg: 42
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Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 8:25:42 PM
Some more from DW's list:

Bridal magazines

Swatches for bridesmaids' dresses

Wedding invitation samples

Samples of tacky wedding favors such as matchbooks, pens and ugly little figurines

Ugly figurines that are only good enough for playing figurine baseball (I think figurines are only good for pitching them to someone who will shatter them with a baseball bat )

Keep 'em coming!!

Cheers

DW
 legend82856
Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 43
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 9:20:40 PM
DON'T bring a dearly loved, but departed ones ashes ( I'm sure there are very tasteful travel urns available for those who NEVER got enough time out of the house)

Your potato gun/spud blaster, someone will think you are a leftover from a STAR WARS movie who lost his body armour

an empty wallet/full credit card
 panaqqa
Joined: 11/20/2005
Msg: 44
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 9:47:11 PM
A leather dog collar with your date's first name spelled out on it in pointed studs.

 NameOfUser
Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 45
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Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/13/2006 10:26:54 PM
I think a Katana would probably scare me away pretty fast :|

Derek


NOTE: UNLESS IT WAS UMA THURMAN---> Hot =)
 coffeeandcream
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 46
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/14/2006 3:17:51 AM
A gun.... I was on a date with a police detective and was a bit surprised that I caught a glimpse of his gun underneath his suit jacket. I mean, they actually wear them even when NOT working? I mentioned it, and he said yes and asked me if it bothered me. Not really, but I was just a bit taken aback that the man was carrying a gun on a date. Anyway, later after he took off his jacket, and he had the whole leather holster across the shoulders and back thing on, and we had a really interesting conversation about it and his job. Great guy and an even better bed buddy.... :-)
 Bandito
Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 47
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/14/2006 8:34:29 AM
ummm...a blow horn that you use everytime your date scores a point and says the right thing
 Restless0ne
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 48
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/14/2006 9:12:34 AM
You mean your not supposed to carry a gun on a date........

If your not a cop...............opps......

Its all making sense now................

doughhhhhhhhhhhhhh

 hendrix8989
Joined: 5/5/2005
Msg: 49
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/14/2006 9:22:59 AM
I always bring a single rose.....
 hartmcgin
Joined: 1/23/2006
Msg: 50
Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date.....
Posted: 3/14/2006 9:27:32 AM
Her Big Bad A$$ Biker Brother and his drunkin buddies.......
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