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Joined: 5/15/2006
Msg: 51
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1. When he's the only one in the bar laughing hysterically at his own jokes.
2. When he calls you and has phone sex by himself while talking to you.
3. When his mother tells you what looser girlfriends he's had in the past.
4. When he says he broke up with his girlfriend a year ago and it's only been two weeks.
5. When he gets drunk often and has a gun collection.
6. When he tells you how busy he's gonna be on the weekend, two weekends in a row.
7. When he's asked your friend out on a date, not knowing you were friends.
8. When no sooner you get in the car with him, he hits a kid on a bike, cuz he's so nervous.
9. When he says he's single and doesn't offer his number.
10. When he talks bad about his ex girlfriend's kids.
Joined: 3/2/2006
Msg: 52
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Posted: 7/24/2006 6:54:57 PM
here is one for as you can tell I am a truck driver but here goes you work and stay gone all of the tyme or I hear truckers or owners as myself make good money
Joined: 11/17/2006
Msg: 53
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Posted: 7/29/2007 10:50:52 AM
tomestone......i agree with all that you said except, wanting to know what you do for a living?.....i find it interesting and sometimes tells you alot about the person your chatting with.....if you think about it......something you forgot how about the one who never gives you too much information....only talks on a cell address......MARRIED....and wants a little action on the side....i hate people who cheat on a relationship
Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 7/29/2007 12:09:41 PM

10. He is NEVER available on weekends.
9. Never takes you to places he has frequented with his wife.
8. He is only available in daytime hours.
7. Wants to meet at your place.
6. You never meet his friends.
5. You never meet his family.
4. You can't call him.
3. He never invites you to his place.
2. He is never available for any function that you may want to attend,
such as a family gathering...(ooooh, that means meeting your family)
1. Has to leave you because he has to pick up his kid at school (that
means be home before the wife gets home.)
Joined: 4/14/2007
Msg: 55
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Posted: 7/29/2007 12:25:41 PM
You know there is a problem , when he text-messages you and doesnt call!!!
Joined: 7/4/2007
Msg: 56
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Posted: 7/29/2007 12:33:24 PM
hysterical! very true-
 Southern Kitten
Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 57
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Posted: 7/29/2007 12:35:23 PM
I have to disagree with the number nine under the taught 10 dangers games. I have social anxiety to start with so it is hard for me to make eye contact with anyone. But as for the other ones I totally agree with you.
Joined: 7/4/2006
Msg: 58
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Posted: 7/29/2007 3:33:53 PM
You hit the nail on the head with both lists Tom--and I'm talking about an 18-year marriage. Of course, if I had paid attention to the voice inside my head--I knew what was happening, I just didn't want to admit it. We don't necessarily get wiser with age, but we do get experience.

Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 59
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Posted: 7/29/2007 5:01:59 PM

I personally prefer a nice night in, cuddling up on the sofa with some movies and some takeout, sex has nothing to do with it. I just ain't a normal outdoor person, all there is to do outside is clubs and pubs and those in my opinion are boring and way too loud to be enjoyable.

Outdoors doesnt have to be camping, fishing, pubs, and clubs. 99% of people will quickly tire of staying home every night....THINK OF FUN THINGS TO DO, or you will be looking for a new GF I feel.

And like the OP, if your BF or GF stops thinking of fun things, or rejects your ideas for possible dates, dum dum, dum dum..
Joined: 6/26/2007
Msg: 60
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Posted: 7/29/2007 5:18:25 PM
Good points. No arguments from me on what you have written.

Relationships do take time and this is something I wish more men (from a woman's viewpoint) understood. All the men I have talked to or went out with have dumped me (not even had a second date ) because I was not willing to have sex the first meeting. Guess I wasn't worth their time, and that's ok. It's their loss, not mine

Good luck to everyone and God Bless you in your search.
Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 61
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Posted: 7/29/2007 10:02:10 PM
Dont beleive a word he says trust me that way u dont have your heart broken
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 62
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Posted: 7/30/2007 8:07:18 AM
Stay away!! you don't need that kind of hurt!! Move on.............
Joined: 5/31/2007
Msg: 63
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Posted: 8/27/2007 10:41:03 AM
What I haven't heard is 10 reasons to dump them.
1. You have your first date conversation is going great their friend joins you and all
sudden your date starts talking about sex with you and your panties.
2. They dance with 2 women both are over 300lbs and come back and ask you if your
3. They meet you for the first time and tell you your very sexual. You have on jeans
and a T Shirt.
4. God gave them signs and they have never meant you.
5. They offer you surgery for a quickie.
6. They tell you they want to make their X girlfriend jealous and would you help?
7. Their picture is 10yrs old and they don't understand way your confused about what
they look like.
8. They ask you if you would like to go to a swinger party.
9. You meet them several times and finally go to their home and notice the bath room
looks like a woman decorated it oh and there is makeup everywhere.
Least of all my Male friends wanted to put their 2 cents in so here are some of theirs
10. They tell you they believe in free love.
11. They want to go to a strip bar because they are bi-sexual
12. They go to the bar and sneak a few shots whenever they think your not looking
13. They bring their own bottle
14. They tell you the parts of their bodies that are pireced.
12. They send pictures of them
13. They haven't brushed their teeth in a month
14. The bring presents on the first date
15. They want presents on the first date
My all time favorite after dating this gentleman several times he asked me out to a very nice eatery but since I had already eaten I declined and had a drink it was very busy conversation was flowing and he left to pay the bill made it halfway home and said they couldn't find the ticket so I didn't pay them. I made amends the next day with my credit card and told him so. He tried to redeem his self by saying he would pay me back half of the ticket. I said half but I didn't eat I had a five dollar drink.......
This is what I have learned about the new world of dating. I take my time. I date different people until I find the right one. Some people are just meant as friends some I wouldn't walk across the street for. The one I am looking for is a keeper. I don't lie about dating different people if they can't handle that then I say goodbye or suggest being friends. I have no expectations of anyone until I know them well enough to have one. Never introduce them to my family until I am sure they are quality. Have many social settings to see how they behave. I am not a player. I am looking for the right one. But I am taking my time to find one. Smiles Sherrie
Joined: 8/26/2007
Msg: 64
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Posted: 9/3/2007 5:32:48 PM
Haha! These are great and I agree, sooo true. Thought I'd add one.
Danger sign that you are going to be dumped :
( Haven't seen each other in 3 months and you've been doing is talking)
" I love you, make love to me, right here, right now" and he says: " We're talking, we haven't talked in a long time, why ruin it?" O.0
3 weeks later and 2 weeks before wedding and he says its over.

Joined: 3/28/2005
Msg: 65
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Posted: 9/10/2007 11:26:04 AM
Tom, soooooooooooooooo true, what your saying. The walkin ahead of ya, is a major turn off. Thanks for that, didn't see that comin. Guess I was blinded by the wall that was in front of me. Readin these forums lately, has really opened me up on things, I wouldn't even think of, what people are really up to. What happen to simple respect and old family values? Did we all just fall off the face of the earth?
Joined: 8/27/2007
Msg: 66
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Posted: 9/10/2007 3:43:58 PM
You've been on several dates but all they give you is their cell #...and you've never seen their place.

They are never available on holidays.

They have a white band around their wedding finger.

They hint about needing money.

They ask for money.

They aren't friends with ANY of their exes.

They get jealous or controlling.

They are nasty to servers.

They want sex before dating exclusively.

Just some of my personal ones.
Joined: 8/12/2007
Msg: 67
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Posted: 9/11/2007 4:42:23 AM
hahitty hah!! that is an awesome thread!!!
 Just JJ
Joined: 2/20/2007
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Posted: 9/11/2007 4:51:47 AM
reads the thread and ponders......

Are we really such gluttons for punishment? YIKES!!! lol
Joined: 8/23/2007
Msg: 69
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Posted: 9/11/2007 8:27:07 AM
OP I got my morning thing though..ever want to truly find out a lot about a person...go to dinner with'll be amazed at how much info you get behind the lines...example:
1.. you can see if they complain and whine about everything
2.. you can see if they're a snob or they treat the serving staff with respect
3.. you can see how well they're table manners are, which is generally a great indication of how their manners are in other areas of life
4..You can see in the course of the dinner the type of food they eat and if they are health conscious
5..You can test their rudeness factor just by observing how many times they've used their cell phone while with you...usually it should be turned off, unless one has kids and if they're taking calls from anyone else other than one of their children who better be having a good reason to call, then thats a true indication of what number on the list they will place you...example, if they're taking calls from friends, while your sitting there and listening to this
6. You can observe they're eye contact and get so much on that alone
7 You can see if they are a "its all about me" type of person and if this is a first date and they are not trying to find out anything about your interstests , my inclination would be to make it a first and last date
8 You can see if they walk you to your car or leave you just outside the restaurant to make your way back...walking a woman to her car is just a respectful thing to do and if it hasn't even crossed their mind, you can bet that they're not going to be opening any doors for you either
Joined: 9/2/2007
Msg: 70
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Posted: 9/11/2007 8:37:07 AM
tom will yuo read my post and give me your mans opinion??????? Titled He could not give me a reason. Thanks
Joined: 9/1/2007
Msg: 71
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Posted: 9/11/2007 10:23:04 AM
In regards to the issue of not being able to make eye contact ,,,this has nothing to do with any insidious behaviour ,, but being uncomfortable does,,, non direct eye contact is not used by world experts on interrogation because it is not a sign... a psychopath usually responds to direct eye contact ... and nanana also hit onto one of the signs and that is one worded answers,,, liars will also touch their faces and are very anxious and relieved to have a topic change subject ,, when they are in the hot seat,,, the more we know the less we lay in the haystack to get needled,,, yup none of this is my own adage it is from independant research by myself to myself so that I can get an honest date with a good egg... hmmm eggsample of a layer ,, lying,
 loyal T
Joined: 8/10/2006
Msg: 72
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Posted: 9/11/2007 10:30:58 AM
These two are all that are needed in my view of the top 10 getting dumped indications:
"9 finding yourself alone more & more
10 You have a feeling of loneliness and you hurt worse with them than alone."
Why fool yourself and look for other signs to validate this if you see these happening?
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 73
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Posted: 9/11/2007 10:40:56 AM
minibikegi Man did you ever hit a good one! That is exactly what happened to me with the girl i was engaged to after my divorce. Her mom was a user, loser that didnt want her mealticket to ever get married. Now the girl has learned about her mom after it happened several more times. The girl left and is now living in ashville with a guy that has no intentions of marring her or anyone else.
Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 74
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Posted: 9/11/2007 10:43:46 AM
DAYAM! Dr. Pill was right on about the "walks ahead of you" as a signal for imminent dumpage. A few months ago a Fellowette POFer did that on our first and last date.

Also, was it a sign she didn't want another date if, when she opened the car door, she did a record-setting 100m sprint to the parking garage? Hmmm....
Joined: 9/5/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 9/12/2007 2:50:33 PM

Blueguy19 wrote:
> Here are some good ones for the guys :....
> - she takes depression medication

Food for thought:

Don't too hastily rule such gals out. After all, some very wise, interesting
and famous people either suffered depression or took anti-depression meds...

You know, just food for thought.
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