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 johnny prophet
Joined: 5/16/2006
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I bet doing it in the anal hurts a lot cos basically your a** has no lubricant, so the screaming literally means painful, not orgasm.


This reminds me of a conversation I had with a female friend on this subject once.

She said "You know, sometimes I *REALLY* like it, and sometimes it just hurts. I don't really know why."

I said, "What are you using for lube?"

She said, "Lube?"


Since I haven't read anyone giving any real hints yet, let me be the first:

Start slowly, with your fingers (or tongue if you're brave) on the OUTSIDE... once she gets comfortable with that.... SLLLLLLOOOOOWWWLY work the tip of one of your smaller fingers in there... Progress to deeper penetration, then maybe to a larger finger, then maybe to a (small to medium) sex toy.... and THEN work your way up to the penis.

If she's never done this stuff before, it may take you weeks to get through those steps outlined above.

I'd hazard a guess that most of the girls who are on here saying "It was the worst thing ever" had a boyfriend who just tried to cram it on in there with no lubrication or warm-up or warning.

That's going to hurt her, unless she's a very, very special girl. And then you're going to **** it up for the rest of us. So GOOOO SLOOOW until she's ready for more.
 johnny prophet
Joined: 5/16/2006
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Posted: 1/17/2007 7:55:35 PM

LOL that works. One of my exes suggested anal. I told him 'How about I stick a 6 inch dildo up your a'rse and then we'll see?' He stopped asking after that.

It would have been really odd if he had agreed...

Heh. Don't try that tactic with me. It just might backfire on you.


Joined: 12/7/2006
Msg: 91
Do women enjoyed anal sex?
Posted: 1/19/2007 1:08:42 PM
well I'm a woman that can't get enough of it! A lot of guys still have to work on regular sex though.I love to lay back and bottom out. Hope that helps you.
Joined: 2/7/2006
Msg: 92
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Posted: 1/19/2007 1:35:57 PM
A 42 year old woman thought me how do it the right way. From what i've experienced, a women dont enjoy it if the guy is going to hard. You have to spit in the hole first, with the tip of your****play with it and slowly go in and out , in and out. Then when the path is clear, you can start ramming it.
Any woman who want to experience this, it will be my pleasure to do a demonstration.
Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 93
Do women enjoyed anal sex?
Posted: 1/20/2007 7:16:47 AM
Joined: 7/13/2006
Msg: 94
Do women enjoyed anal sex?
Posted: 1/21/2007 8:13:20 AM
i like it and find it enjoyable as long as my partner knows what he is doing. Some men think its just another version of a pu*sy and they ruin women on it forever.
Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 96
Do women enjoyed anal sex?
Posted: 1/22/2007 10:47:16 AM
"Sure, anal is great!

I also like to take out my strap-on and **** the guy in the ass. If they get to **** my ass, I should get to **** theirs right? Seems fair to me. "

I agree with you 110%...I love to give and recieve anal.
Joined: 1/6/2007
Msg: 98
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Do women enjoy anal sex?
Posted: 1/29/2007 9:20:35 PM
If God had wanted people to have anal sex he would have put a hole in their....oh yeah. Never mind.
Joined: 12/16/2006
Msg: 99
Do women enjoyed anal sex?
Posted: 1/30/2007 7:50:46 AM
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I am with you!!! That is nasty, it hurts and just GROSS!!!!
Joined: 12/16/2006
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Posted: 1/30/2007 1:01:03 PM
Any man that wants to do me in the ass...he has to have gay tendencies!!!
My coochie is much warmer and nicer!!! AND CLEANER!!!
Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 101
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Posted: 1/31/2007 9:15:49 AM
I for one am a woman who finds a man comfortable with his masculinity VERY sexy and attractive....I men or women don't enjoy anal that's fine and they are entitiled but is wrong to suggest that its anal sex is a bad's a preference.
When our grandparents has sex is was man on top and wam-bam-thankyou oral, no wman on top, no doggy style, no toys.....look how far thuings have please don't judge men who are comfortable to try new thing for their ladies.
Joined: 12/16/2006
Msg: 103
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Posted: 1/31/2007 10:49:09 AM
Just nasty, and we have not come far, we have become disgusting.
I am no prude, I love oral and giving it and all sorts of positions but, my ass is for taking a crap!!!
 Nanner Nanner
Joined: 12/7/2006
Msg: 104
Do women enjoyed anal sex?
Posted: 1/31/2007 11:00:30 AM

Question: Is there an over the counter special lube, maybe something that kind of desenstizes the skin around it?

Just a word of caution, you don't want to use anything that desensitizes you too much. You feel pain for a reason and not being able to feel pain would be a bad thing. Anal should include some pain, but if something goes wrong, you need to be able to feel it.
Joined: 7/5/2005
Msg: 107
Do women enjoyed anal sex?
Posted: 2/5/2007 9:34:47 PM
Yes! They have this lubricant called Analease! I think that is how they spell it. It desenstizes the area and make it easy to accept. A lot smoother and fun!
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 108
Do women enjoyed anal sex?
Posted: 2/5/2007 9:51:50 PM

I am a heterosexual male that enjoyed anal sex with women. Is it wrong to ask a woman for anal sex that might had never experince it or should this be part of the questions before going to bed?

You might want to consider asking her before you haul out the strap on.

Well.....he NEVER said it was him giving it.
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