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 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 51
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LOL I'm out about 4 nights a week. I work for myself, so I can sleep late.
 Lynsteph74
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 52
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 10/18/2008 6:46:28 PM
Why would I want to do that now?
 WanderingRain
Joined: 3/9/2008
Msg: 53
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 10/19/2008 2:05:05 AM
What for?
If you're not insecure and don't have anything to prove, you don't have to do that.
 fetish4u
Joined: 4/18/2007
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 10/22/2008 3:42:49 PM
Not to much.I'm almost 45.Just don't have that pep I had 20 years ago.
 Ferruginous
Joined: 5/12/2008
Msg: 55
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 10/23/2008 9:31:30 PM
I personally have absolutely no desire to party like I did when I was 20.

I don't know if it would be considered undignified, for someone my age, to party like a 20 year old or not? In some instances, it probably would be.

Rather than worry about dignity, I'd rather just worry about taking care of life's priorities, and doing what makes me happy.
....and, unlike when I was 20, I now realise I'm much happier when I'm occupying my mind with things other than getting drunk several nights a week.
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 10/25/2008 8:10:33 PM
I can do the 24hr party gig but it has to be REALLY worth it!
 ChocolateNutt
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 57
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 10/26/2008 11:21:08 AM

Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?


Why would you want to? The odd time I will overindulge, but I've never actually had a headache or been ill since I was 19. I don't care if I get married, it doesn't matter that I have a child. Alcohol and using it as a crutch or abusing it so that I can't remember my actions for that time period is not something I find appealing. Alcohol doesn't make you cool, smoking doesn't make you cool--if you weren't cool sober, alcohol ain't gonna be enough. :-p

I had a teenage cashier at the grocery store make a comment about how I wish that I were back in my teens. I laughed and laughed! I enjoyed my teens, but I enjoyed my 20s and now I'm enjoying my 30s. I have BIG plans to enjoy my 40s as my child will be out of high school, and I will (hopefully) have a little more freedom to pursue some of my own interests. There's no need to go back in the past to have a life I enjoy.

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 OneLifeTwoLive
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 58
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 10/26/2008 11:19:57 PM

I remember when i turned 30,,i was almost passed out on the Campbell St street station lobby with with my buddy and our ladyfriends we picked up.GOD,,the hangover lasted for nearly 4 days!!!!!


Dude. I love to party. I work hard, and believe me I'm gonna' party just as hard too. I don't give a damn what anyone else thinks about it. Actually, I think I party much better now than when I was in my 20's, I can afford to drink better booze (beer is so passe after 30; and doesn't look good around the waist line either), I take better care of myself, and very rarely I overdo things. Besides, there are lot's of great places to go for over 30 crowds.

Just because your friends think their lives are over because they are married and have kids, that's thier problem not yours. Wait a few years they'll be divorced with kids paryting by your side every weekend.
 Viveka
Joined: 9/27/2008
Msg: 59
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 10/27/2008 6:02:44 AM
Oh you poor old sods! Worrying about partying because you're over 30. I would be glad to party if I got the chance, and I bet I could outlast a lot of you.

Partying is a state of mind. It doesn't mean you have to get belligerently or disgustingly drunk because you're a kid and don't know any better.
Partying is rocking and being alive and moving.

Personally, I intend to go down rocking, not quietly, not dignified by a blue rinse and a potato mindset.
 ThatsNOTmybaby
Joined: 10/27/2008
Msg: 60
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 1/3/2009 4:32:47 PM
Sure, I can party like a 20 yr old but the thing is... I NEVER partied like a 20 yr old and NOW I still don't see a reason to! I had other fun and socialable things to do in college than to drink and "hook up" with a "party gyrl" (most of them are in their 30's and 40's thinking and acting like their still in college and isn't all that HOT either!) I party every once in a blue moon but there are other things u can do than CLUBBING!!

Pepole who are in their late 30's 40's and 50's partying like a rock star are trying to relive their "glory days" or made mistakes when they were younger and is trying to make up for "time missed"! I had my "fun" in my 20's and left it there! Things I do in my early 30's is totally different when I was in my 20's!

Some "older" people need to grow up and stop trying to compete or "out party" the newer, younger generation! It's their time now!!
 TheReason_
Joined: 5/16/2009
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/8/2009 12:43:50 AM
I go the odd time to Karaoke, or with friends in the city, but to go every weekend and have it be the highlight of my week?

Jesus, there has to be more to life than that!


:facepalm:
 sammylg
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 63
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/9/2009 4:55:09 AM
I try, but it get's harder every year. Was at a night club til 3 on Friday and a Jazz club until 2 on Saturday.

The young one i was with wanted to do something on Sunday, but I was drained.
 OLIZAY
Joined: 5/4/2007
Msg: 64
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/9/2009 10:26:40 AM
Partying hard would be sweet if I could find a woman who could hang, these days I go out on dates and have 3 beers and I have chicks telling me to slow down like its amatuer night at the bar. Im a grown as.s man and I welcome any woman who could drink with me all night and enjoy some great conversation.
 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 65
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/9/2009 11:36:00 AM
Can I? Yes

Do I want to? Nah

Did this for many many years and now I enjoy other activities...............in addition to partying every so often.
 CaptainDad
Joined: 7/25/2008
Msg: 66
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/10/2009 8:40:37 PM
I wise man once said that the sure sign of aging is when it takes all night long to do what you used to do all night long.

I couldn't party like my 20s when I was in my 20s. Now I have better things to do than watch my liver turn into swiss cheese.
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 67
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/11/2009 4:35:14 PM
I didn't "party hard" when I was 20 and I certainly don't plan to start now.
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 68
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/15/2009 7:04:21 PM
Red Bull, E, & Cialis

Bring on that techno glow stick cr@p y'all call music ;)
 MsStackhouse
Joined: 5/20/2009
Msg: 69
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/16/2009 5:50:54 AM
I have a friend who I used to party with every weekend when we were 21/22 years old. We are both 36 now and she still parties every weekend (and during the week). She posts pictures of her adventures on her Facebook page, and when I see them I just think "how sad...."

I really don't know why this is my initial reaction...
 sammylg
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 70
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/16/2009 7:14:37 AM
^^^ Sad for her or sad for you?

I still "party hard" 2~3 times a month and I am glad me and my friends don't take our cameras with us. However, I see it as good fun, and nothing more. After 5 days of hard work, why not let down our hair and let loose?
 MsStackhouse
Joined: 5/20/2009
Msg: 71
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/16/2009 8:04:16 AM

Sad for her or sad for you?


Sad for her...2~3 times of month is different then 2~3 times a week. Like I said, I don't know why I think its sad...I guess because she just looks to old to be there
 WWUWILLYU
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 72
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/17/2009 3:34:27 AM
The question really should be can a 20 year old party like someone over 30? Answer: No. We party with more intelligence and pre-planning. Clear limits and goals. Sort of "a man has got to know his limitations" approach. Hindsight: at 20 we were drinking hard core & just beating ourselves up. Now we plan for the game, put on our gear, wear a helmet so we'll be ready for the next game.
 pamsfl
Joined: 8/14/2009
Msg: 73
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/22/2009 12:13:13 PM
I can sure hold my liquor better...but I'm pretty sure I'll turn into a pumpkin sometime after midnight if I'm not home sleeping =
 STEVENL512
Joined: 11/11/2009
Msg: 74
Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/24/2009 11:25:57 AM
i went out last weekend trying to live out my 20's over again. its tuesday im still hurting. And i was the oldest guy in the club besides the owner. lol
 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
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Can you party hard like a 20yr old when you are over 30?
Posted: 11/24/2009 12:48:27 PM
I can party better than a 20yr old because I can have more fun, be safe, and remember the good times the next day.
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