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 LAKE CO.MAN
Joined: 4/10/2006
Msg: 476
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I think that any one can fall in Love as everyone seems to put it? But do you really know this person? You talk to them here.,And thay feed you like feeding a horse grain.You eat it.You like the taste of it,Why? Because it is something that taste good to us as a food,just as our brain reacts to a person saying that thayLove us.BUT! Do we know that tahaytruly love us? These ladys are words.Wake up up.True Love is with in us.but not from some one who we have only met on here.ONCE! Love is winthiin the eye of the beholder.Not the words of the beholder.Ok?Woeds are meaningless.Been thier done that.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 477
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Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 6/29/2006 4:08:08 PM
shaz That's great to hear. I'll be hoping for you that your meet is a wonderful experience and he's all you hoped for and more. Just be open to him, and learn to ignore all the naysayers and people who just want to drag you down and make you negative. Stay positive and hope for the best!!
 swee10lo
Joined: 4/10/2006
Msg: 478
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 6/30/2006 10:30:50 AM
i can only agree with your last line...i felt the exact same way about someone that i have met here!i've invested 4 months of my time...everything seemed perfect.i felt like he was my soulmate!all of a sudden, after all this time the phonecalls stopped and also the roses that he kept on sending me just when we were suppose to meat eachother.we already talked about a future together and he even was talking about me moving in with him.i was and still am very dissapointed and hurt.i couldn't believe it.up to this day he still won't talk to me.the last time i tryed to call him is almost a month ago.i don't understand it and never will!this made me lose almost the last bit of hope i had to find love...and like u said...so did one of my close friends...if it seems to good to be true it usually is.any thoughts?because i'm still trying to figure this out!
 swee10lo
Joined: 4/10/2006
Msg: 479
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 6/30/2006 4:29:44 PM
i wish u all the luck.
 summrgirl
Joined: 6/16/2006
Msg: 480
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 6/30/2006 7:38:54 PM
Been there, asked that....
And i found out you can fall in love with the "idea" of someone without ever meeting. Its just as easy to misrepresent yourself on the phone as it is online...i found it out the hard way.
i am assuming that you have at least spoken on the phone?? if you have only spoken in im's you're playing with major fire...but until you've seen a person's life first hand you can never truly love all of them. lying works on the phone too.
i wish you all the best in life and love.
 swee10lo
Joined: 4/10/2006
Msg: 481
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 6/30/2006 7:58:23 PM
thanks for the response! i absoulutely agree with u...but y spend all this money on flowers and all that money on phonecalls???it doesnt make sense.....if there was someone else why go through all this and even try to set up a meeting?!we live 14 hours away from eachother!!!
 Soul Seductive
Joined: 6/5/2005
Msg: 482
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/1/2006 9:03:55 AM
Yes it can happen..it did to me...we talked online and on the phone..and to be honest I was crazy about her...felt like " this is it, she's the one".......didnt end up the way I hoped..but I know its possible
 honeybunn44
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 483
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/1/2006 10:04:00 AM
soul seductive:



yes it possible because it happened to me and we have been together for 5 months now.
 jemia
Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 484
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/1/2006 11:29:20 AM
Verissa,

I do not want to sound a bit pessimistic, but reading so mouch about the different scammers
on this sight,I will be more aprehensive about any romantic declarations.
Go on romancescammers@yahoogroups.com and you will be amazed of what is going on!
When it sounds too good to be true, it really is. I would be very careful if I were you.
Good luck.

Jemia
 sweetkissess
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 485
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/1/2006 11:48:00 AM
I believe that it is possible to fall in love with someone without meeting. But you eventually have to meet them. That is the true test. My new bf is completely in love with me, because of the person I am on the inside and when we met yesterday, wow. There were definate sparks. He is an amazing person! He looked deeply into my eyes, and I thought wow, "he could be the one". He treats me like a queen, opening doors for me and holding hands with me. I was scared to meet him, but I am so gald I did.

For the first time in my life I feel the possiblity of love!!!!! And darn it I deserve it.
We agreed to go slow, so we can really get to know each other much better.
 LolaShy
Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 486
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/1/2006 1:04:02 PM
Love? Possible. Lust? Definitely. Webcams can reveal a lot about a person. The way he looks at me, so intently, I melt. Looks straight into the cam, and I turn into a giddy teenager. Bites on his lower lip? Hmmmm so cute. When he smiles, I can't help but smile. We talk often, and can talk about anything. Am I in love? No. But I am sooo friggen intrigued....too bad he lives so far away.

I suppose one could fall in love with someone they have never met. Especially with all of today's technology. But to feel his real life touch and kisses, would be the real test.
 Soul Seductive
Joined: 6/5/2005
Msg: 487
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/1/2006 3:05:53 PM
honeybunn44 and shaz 1...thank you for seeing my point, from your experience you know its very possible to fall in love with someone you never met , and that you are supportive of me finding someone I can open my heart with...Lord knows, I really cared for that woman and I had the purest intentions with her to.....but she apparently didnt feel that way ....it hurts bad!...but at least we know it is possible!
 elbon1
Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 488
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/1/2006 3:39:04 PM
I believe that love is felt within the heart. doesnt require touching a person first. so I guess my answer would be yes it could happen. but what is love?? thats the real question. hears your answer.

Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable and it keeps no record of when its been wronged. It is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every ciriumstance. Love will last forever.
 AndrewDB
Joined: 6/28/2006
Msg: 489
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/1/2006 4:26:27 PM
I'm with the yes crowd.


I know a friend who met his wife online. (Partly one of the reasons why I'm on this site.. I don't have much of a pond around the local area.. and if the pond has a fish I'm interested in, they're taken, or don't like the nerdy/geeky type of guy that I am.. ;p


You read the first part of that right.

A friend of mine whom I've since lost contact with, met and fell in love with a woman online.

They talked for a matter of three months, he flew out to visit her on her own turf, and when he got back I knew (and he knew) that his future was sealed. Three months later she came out and visited him. Six months after that (December ironically enough) he bought a ring and asked her to marry him. She said yes, a month later they moved to where she lived and they've probably been there since. As I said, I've seen it happen.. I'm not going to admit that I've fallen in love online (I just did if you read that sentance the correct way), but I'll give you a damn good idea that yes, it's possible.
 swee10lo
Joined: 4/10/2006
Msg: 490
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/1/2006 6:41:26 PM
this is what i think...the ones that are out here to run game shouldn't be on da site.
in my opinion pof needs to remove the ppl that lie n cheat others with false intensions/pretenses!
 diarydistinction
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 491
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/1/2006 9:40:49 PM
Ay, at some moments I think it to be the only possibility; it's like saying in it's most universal reflection there is an awareness beyond anything we might know as it is. Yes, we can explain it; yes it is explained to us ... we are in love but do not meet; it is essentially what keeps us apart. Or is it?

Sometimes I see that we've found one another like some sort of dream, in our mind's eye and only for a moment, it seems to be just that way.

Or we're just a little sad and need a good glass of wine!!!

Good string Verissa, thanks. I feel ya sista!

 Verissa
Joined: 1/7/2006
Msg: 492
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/2/2006 12:29:37 AM

this is what i think...the ones that are out here to run game shouldn't be on da site.
in my opinion pof needs to remove the ppl that lie n cheat others with false intensions/pretenses!



^^^ I can't say I agree with that. I was hurt very badly by the man that I wrote this about but what if we had simply met and he didn't like me or I him and then in a state of bitterness one of us has the other's profile pulled possibly impeding upon future happiness with someone else they may have met here..Thats not fair now is it? Just because some people have mental problems doesn't mean everyone should have to pay. I've met some nice people on here despite what happened between Shayne and I. I still care for him he just needs to fix his head.
 .: illusion :.
Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 493
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/2/2006 1:44:35 AM
I think you can really care about someone you've never met. Get all those feelings such as lust and jelousy and even fall for the idea of having them in your arms.

Yes I guess thats a type of love... but your not so much in love with them, your more so in love with your own image/idea of them.
 timidvirgo
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 494
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/2/2006 1:48:01 AM
my 2 cents,,, for what its worth....

PLEASE please be careful .... I talked to a fella online for 3 months, almost as long on the phone. He was amazing !!! Talked like he had his world together, wrote the same.. He called, left messages that made my heart flutter. There was nothing, and I mean nothing to indicate what he really was... The short version is what I'll give, but this was bad, real bad...
In short, the night we met face to face was just to be a dinner meeting, nothing more. What he supplied for our dinner date was 2 needles of his blood, heroin and crack mix and I was to induldge, period... He ended up being a junkie... And a fairly pushy one at that...
I ran... but as I was grabbing for my purse, pamphlets fell from the place my purse was and down came info on Hep C and aids... In short,, he was trying to kill me with him...
I don't do drugs, never the harder stuff ever,,, okay have dabbled in the garden variety when I was younger, but he was pushing deadly drugs on me, not to mention the blood part.. If he had been 1/2 with in his wits at this point I may have been forced into this and maybe worse.
GIRL not many guys are like this one, but just be warned they are out there.. Sweeter than suger, oh so nice, but lethal....
screen screen screen so you don't end up with the not so nice nice guy....
*** last I know is that he is still on this site,,, he looks beautiful in his pix... but they are old... he is a shriveled up junkie now but still walks the walk and can still talk the talk........
If you want to know, contact me... He drives longhaul from Canada to Texas ...
"""" to any guys that read this, I am truley sorry if I have created any drama in your world, but this is serious stuff and women on here need to know that freaks don't always appear to be freaks...
I am way more careful now than I thought I would ever have to be....
 Sweet-n-Spicy
Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 495
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/2/2006 4:47:45 AM
Hey soul seductive, I see what you said on here about recently losing that "special someone"....well baby I am available , look me up and you wont be thinking about that woman anymore....I think its possible to fall in love with someone without ever meeting the person face to face to....I almost did once til I found out the guy I was talking to on here was trying to get with one of my girlfriends on here to....good thing he didnt get to use either one of us.....soul seductive....look me up and.. you won't be down!
 dcems11
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 496
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/2/2006 5:05:15 AM
Boy how sad!!! Then tell me how do the blind do it by touch, I didn't think so. Love comes from a place that noone has been able to explain. Mnay have wrote about it, many have song about it, and many have died for it. Do you need a touch.....God I hope its not that easy. It comes from within your heart, some where deep down that says its ok. Trust its not a fantasy!!!
 libbyv
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 497
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/2/2006 5:21:22 AM
I don't believe you can fall in love with someone you've only spoken to by email or telephone .You haven't met them,you feel attracted to them, or develop a crush or infactuation. They'll tell you what they think you want to hear. But never really know a person until you actually meet face to face. Also they may not look as good as the picture they show of themselves and they may have a lousy personality to go along with it. I say take this man with a grain of salt until you actually meet him.
 swee10lo
Joined: 4/10/2006
Msg: 498
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/2/2006 9:48:35 AM
varissa, hey.there is a difference in finding out that u dont care for someone or gettn played in the process.this guy toyed around when all he had to say was that he didn't want to persue this.he made me believe things that never happened and then wasnt even man enough to talk to me.so yes...if u are on this site and u lie n lie n lie...y should pof not remove u?let him continue hurt n lie to ppl?!
 Indigo Rose
Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 499
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/2/2006 9:54:50 AM
Suck it up Princess..why doesn't POF remove whiners? Oh ya would leave much!

I'm in love with a whole bunch of you people I'm taking my lotto winnings and traveling
...get ready!
 Peekaboo_Tx
Joined: 11/11/2005
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Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 7/2/2006 9:59:34 AM
The answer to this is yes! Tho, not in the sense of being IN love.
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